Look at what you wear first, and then judge your inner nature through communication. For women, beauty will be done at all costs, so how can women improve their temperament and make themselves beautiful?
The first is to learn to dress up, so we must pay attention to this detail. Once a woman doesn't understand beauty, the world will be "finished".
If a woman has a high education, but she doesn't know how to dress beautifully and what life is, then life is flawed, which has nothing to do with our looks.
People can't live without feeling. What is feeling? It's the eye, nose, tongue, body and mind, and it feels like feng shui.
People live in a world of feeling. When we get home, we have to go back and create a home with feeling. Especially, it is very important for women to spend some money on their clothes and hair.
The second is health. Is unhealthy good? Not pretty. Health is the foundation of all beauty, so we should eat healthy food, exercise regularly and keep healthy living habits.
The third is joy. We can observe from life that when a photographer takes a picture of someone, he usually doesn't make them frown, but makes them laugh more.
Therefore, happiness is very important. Why not let life bloom with sunshine and joy?
Some people save money, but waste their lives. What's the use of this money? You can save money, but don't waste your life. It must be beautiful and happy.
The fourth is ability. Ability is very important. The simplest thing is to fold clothes neatly, put shoes away, keep the house clean, and learn to cook well.
It would be better if we can make the home full of happy and harmonious atmosphere, such as playing some light music to create a beautiful home atmosphere.
The fifth is self-cultivation. If a beautifully dressed woman swears, won't it make people stunned?
Also, the most important thing for women is not to complain. Above all, don't say that your child or husband is not good. Because what we say is actually expressing who we are, and we are not forced. Usually talk about something elegant, and both children and husbands will be happy.
In addition, if a woman wants to grow up, she should improve her ability and charm in all aspects. Of course, husband and wife are also mutual, and a husband can't lower his wife's taste. We didn't notice this in the past, but now we must make up for it.
The sixth is wisdom. Wisdom is a charm, especially for women to educate their children. A parent once asked me whether my children should grow up in poverty or in prosperity.
I said that children should be well-off when they are young and poor when they grow up. Freud said that childhood experiences will affect a person's life.
Therefore, when a child is young, we should cultivate his extravagance. Expedience is not arrogance, but high-end and humble, giving children the best experience and the best life within their power.
Let him experience the feeling of poverty when he grows up For example, if you sell vegetables in the morning, you can make money by eating these two days. If you can't make money, you have to go hungry. Let him feel the pain of the rascal, let him know the value of money in his heart, and let him have compassion in his heart. This is the purpose of poverty alleviation.
Why is this happening?
Because if you raise your child in poverty as a child, the child will feel inferior and fear. Children should cultivate self-confidence, courage and noble temperament from an early age.
The seventh is spirituality. Spirituality is an indescribable energy. Just like magnetism, spirituality runs through everything. As long as people are concerned, they must have spirituality.
We often see that some people look ordinary, but we find that this person is different only because of spirituality.
Some people will exude these things, realm, inner love, selflessness and compassion, which can also be called spirituality.
It must be spiritual for a woman. For example, painting has no spirituality, and painting has no value; What you do has no spirituality, and things have no value.
You can improve your spirituality by getting close to nature, learning dance, learning music and so on.
Running a good family, doing a good business, and even cooking well all require spirituality. Therefore, spirituality is the kind of feeling that makes people feel smart.
Lin Qingxuan once discussed makeup with a famous makeup artist.
The makeup artist said: "The highest level of makeup can be described in two words, which is' nature'. Make-up is only the last detail, and few facts can be changed.
The deeper makeup is to change the physique. It is much more effective for a person to change his lifestyle, pay attention to exercise and diet, and improve his skin and get enough spirit than to make up.
The deeper makeup is to change the temperament. Read more books, appreciate more art, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, be kind-hearted, care about others, love yourself and have dignity. Such people are not ugly without makeup, and makeup on their faces is only the last small thing in makeup. "
Finally, the makeup artist explained in three simple sentences: "Third-rate makeup is face makeup, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-rate makeup is life makeup."
I saw a person become beautiful in five days. It is because she came to the temple and changed her heart that she changed her exterior.
Therefore, it is necessary to improve in an all-round way, make the heart full of love, and make the language full of love. These are the makeup of life.