I don't understand why my father is always at odds. He has the opposite personality and is incompatible with water and fire.

Psychology believes that childhood rebellion is a kind of consciousness to prove one's existence. The same is a kind of growth. But learn to adjust yourself when you grow up. Buddhists say, let go of self-discipline and learn to see the advantages of others and appreciate them. Psychologically speaking, people with fragile hearts are unwilling to affirm others and face their own shortcomings. If you can get along with other people, you can only get along with your father, which is considered to be incompatible in Feng Shui. You should learn to be tolerant and patient, listen more, obey more and express less opposition.