The most attractive charm of a woman is not a charming face, not an understanding gentleness, but a kindness hidden deep in her heart.
When a man has a degree, his financial resources are rolling; When a woman is kind, her blessings will come naturally.
A happy family needs a generous man and a kind woman. Two people together is the best feng shui for a family.
Generous people are rich.
Meng Jiao in the Tang Dynasty said in "Giving Pei Shu Duan Gong": A gentleman is not generous, and his chest swallows a hundred rivers.
It means that a gentleman has a broad mind, and his mind can accommodate hundreds of rivers.
Men are everywhere. Since ancient times, men have made money to support their families and honor their parents.
Then, petty men naturally haggle with others everywhere, and they can't hide that others are better than themselves. Such people naturally don't have much ambition.
On the contrary, those men who are broad-minded dare to be inclusive and accept the fairness and setbacks in the world. Their popularity is naturally good, and the road will be much wider. It's hard for such a man to be underdeveloped.
Colleague Li Ge was a very small person when he was young.
In the unit, I am afraid that I will suffer from doing more work; He was at home at that time, and he was not necessarily diligent. When he is with his wife, he is always greedy to do more housework and often quarrels about how much money his wife gives home.
In the end, the two ended in divorce.
Fortunately, they have no children.
A few years later, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy, so Li Ge had to follow an uncle at home. After running outside for several years, the whole person has changed a lot since I came back.
Unlike before, he was penniless, brought gifts to his former colleagues and friends, and treated people with a lot of humility. When he got married for the second time, he invited some friends who had a decent relationship before, but he refused to accept everyone's gifts, saying that he was saying goodbye to his past self.
Later, it is said that under the guidance of his uncle, he finally understood how to be a man.
And he also deeply reflected on his past self, knowing that if a man is narrow-minded, it will not only hurt his fortune, but also hurt the feelings between husband and wife and relatives.
The more you care, the easier it is to lose; The meaner you are, the harder it is to get it.
And a man with a broad mind will be open-minded and free-spirited, will grasp the big and let go of the small, will stick to the past when encountering problems, will not care, but will try to find a new way out.
At the same time, he will be more considerate, willing to forgive others' mistakes, respect and trust others, and handle interpersonal relationships at home and outside more easily.
In fact, a man's broad mind also represents his big pattern.
A man with a big pattern has a longer-term vision and a deeper perspective. Natural wealth is rolling in, and family fortune will gradually increase with his pattern.
A kind woman is blessed.
Russell said: Of all the moral qualities, the kind nature is the most needed in the world. ?
In a family, if a woman is kind-hearted, her temper will be gentle and her family will be more patient and considerate. Such a woman will naturally be favored by her husband and respected by her children, which is also a natural blessing.
In "Do You Know", Lin Xiaoniang became a concubine, although her family came down.
However, she is deeply loved and favored by the master of the Sheng family, and her position in the family can almost rival that of the first lady.
However, she was finally abandoned.
It's all because of her malice.
She can't see anyone living better than her. She will never be satisfied with what she has. Her eyes are always on other people's property and rights. In order to achieve her goal, she will do anything to hurt people's lives.
Finally, he died in Shengjia village, and even the memorial tablet was not allowed to return to Shengjia.
In contrast, it is kindness hidden in the bottom of my heart.
The first lady looks fierce, shouting and killing at Lin Xiaoniang all day long. In fact, she is a kind woman at heart, and she is reluctant to beat and scold her children or her opponents? A knife in the mouth and a tofu in the heart? Complain about her husband all day long, but never use the power of the family to punish her husband.
A woman's happiness depends on her kindness.
A kind woman, first of all, should know how to persuade herself to be kind, not to let herself fall into an infighting struggle, and to make herself a person who even feels terrible.
Good-hearted women, even if they have some minor faults, are just like ordinary people, but in their hearts, there has always been a simple little cuteness. Although they are tough and fierce on the surface, they can give anything as long as they are gentle.
A kind-hearted woman cultivates happiness and virtue.
Just like the eldest lady, the eldest son is wise, the eldest daughter is clever, and the younger daughter is lively and lovely. On the other hand, Lin Xiaoniang's two children, one is calculating and the other is eating, drinking and having fun.
Therefore, women are kind-hearted, cultivate their own virtues and enjoy the blessings of their children.
Men are broad-minded and women are kind, which is the best feng shui for a family.
In many families, men are still the pillar, and men's hearts and minds are the strength of this pillar.
Men are broad-minded, which makes people feel at ease both at home and outside.
They will not compete with others for petty profits, nor will they lose themselves by hook or by crook for money and fame.
They will not pester their wives with blame because of trivial matters, but can calmly and patiently guide their children to grow up and become fathers that children can really rely on and rely on.
In the same way, a woman's kindness is a self-cultivation accumulated in her heart and a moral character accumulated over time.
Whether at home or outside, they will make people feel warm and stress-free.
At home, I can get the respect of my husband and the love of my in-laws and become a role model for my children. Family life is peaceful and quiet, family atmosphere is harmonious, and happiness naturally lingers.
Men are broad-minded and women are kind-hearted.
It is the best feng shui for a family.