There are some differences between keeping fish and keeping other pets. Nowadays, many families keep pet cats and dogs, but it is hard to see whether the man likes them better or the woman likes them better. But fish farming is different. As long as you pay a little attention, it is not difficult to find that most of the people who haunt the ornamental fish market are men, and most of them are women. Even if women stop to buy fish, most of them buy a few for decorating the indoor environment, and few people really watch and choose them carefully. When it comes to changing water and cleaning water tanks, most of them will fall on men.
It is more interesting for men to raise fish. Whether novice or veteran, they usually attach great importance to the collocation of men and women and are keen on raising fish in large tanks. No matter changing water, cleaning fish tanks and purchasing equipment, they are not bothered or afraid of hard work. They are more concerned about the supply of fish than their wives. When they are free, they often sit down and watch their favorite fish, sometimes for an hour or two. Is it difficult for such a man to understand?
In fact, this is the nature of men, especially those who like to raise fish. Psychoanalysis believes that water symbolizes the mother's uterus or hometown in the subconscious, while men are more Oedipus than women in the subconscious, so men love to raise fish and watch fish swim in the water, which will make them feel safe and return in the subconscious. Zhang Dasheng, a doctor of medical psychology, also said: "Raising fish will make men feel safe."
Another reason is that fish farming can meet men's needs for control and accomplishment. Men are born with a stronger desire for control than women, and raising fish, just people can let men completely control it, watching the fish grow up day by day, and their efforts have yielded results, and men will naturally have a sense of accomplishment.
Finally, fish actually has the meaning of symbolizing women in sexology culture. Fish is soft and colorful, which will make men see a feminine taste, which is complementary to men's own psychological characteristics. Usually, men prefer femininity, while women prefer fortitude. At the same time, men raise fish, especially like to watch the reproduction of fish, which is a psychological tendency of men to pay more attention to reproduction subconsciously. Reproduction will make men see the continuation of hope, thus reducing anxiety and maturing. In life, we can often see this phenomenon. Some men are like big boys before they have children, but when they become fathers, they will become more calm!
Psychologically, these are the reasons why men love to raise fish. Of course, many people raise fish out of interest and appreciation, while others cultivate their sentiments. But no matter what the reason is, I hope everyone will treat it with care and cherish every life!