Let me answer Sister Yuan Pan's question first. My sister spent a lot of precious time selflessly teaching and helping Jiayin. I am very grateful for this gift of love. I want to pass it on. My sister asked me how many items I have changed at present, and the good news is to tell the truth. At present, more than half of it has been changed, but it has not been completely changed.
1, you can learn a lot from others without interrupting yourself. Now I don't feel marginalized.
2. If you have any questions you don't understand, go online first, and then ask the teacher if you can't find the answer.
King kong sit didn't insist on sitting every day. He does it several times occasionally, and he can persist for more than 15 minutes at a time.
Sincerity is the road to a sincere person. If you have done something wrong, you must admit it. I said someone else's fault, I admit it.
5. Everything in life is simple. I have been cooking for more than a year and haven't cooked for half a month. Although the taste is average, it can be swallowed.
6, your mind is easy to run around, unfocused, and easy to consume yourself. This point has not been corrected and will continue to be improved.
7. Adhere to fixed investment and investment. The fixation of intermediate treatment teeth was interrupted for two months, and now it continues to be fixed.
8. No matter what you do, you should set yourself a goal and make a good plan. Strive to be the first, whether you can achieve the first, let alone, provided that you work hard in the first direction. At present, you have spent money on courses and passed the exam.
9, the mentality has also changed, respect others, praise others, because everyone has their own bright spots and advantages, and will not stare at other people's shortcomings.
I have the following ideas about 202 1:
First, you can't be obsessed with Yijing Feng Shui.
I was too obsessed with Feng Shui some time ago. Some people say that they bring good luck to themselves by inviting some feng shui devices, and they can indeed bring good luck. I also believe in Feng Shui, including ethnology, digital energy, nevus physiognomy, Taoist magic and so on. But after I invited some feng shui instruments, it didn't change much. I don't think I have enough energy. I think it's my own mentality. Doing some good things can change some feng shui.
I know Miss Liu, which is my luck. That was on June 365438+1October 3 1 in 2020. I have just arrived in Shenzhen, and I am very grateful to my sister and general manager Cao for their help and care. I left after working in Baxter for two months. After leaving my job, General Manager Cao paid me. I didn't know where to work at that time.
I have a friend who works in Tianjin. Knowing that his life was not as good as mine, I also knew that he had suicidal thoughts at that time. Most of the reasons for his dissatisfaction were that he was trapped by money. When he didn't borrow money from me, I took the initiative to transfer part of my salary to him, 2000 yuan. I must have my place. I have to let myself have no worries before I can help others, otherwise the clay idol will cross the river, and it will be difficult for me to protect myself. He was very moved at that time and always thanked me. In the evening, I asked Mr. Liu about the fixed investment of the fund, and went to Fuliniu Company for an interview the next day. So personal ignorance, mentality and motivation are the most important, and the rest are external appearances, seeking psychological comfort.
Second, there is a fire in my heart to find the right channel to vent.
If others are kind to me, I will try my best to double it; But others are not good to me, and the first reaction in my brain circuit is to fight to the end. Sometimes I will control myself, not get angry on the spot, but keep my anger inside. This is an ominous sign and a terrible behavior. Every outbreak is not caused by this present thing, it is just a fuse. Because I am stupid and slow to respond, I can't refute in time, and it is easier to hold my anger in my heart. I know it's not good to be angry, so I have to correct it and find a suitable channel to vent. I don't think it's useful to rub some on my chest or shout it out. You can relax after playing ball or running, so you can relax yourself by insisting on playing ball, running or meditating for a while.
When I find a reasonable way to vent, I can avoid confrontation. Now think about it, if I control myself, it is precisely because I am clumsy, slow to respond and can't refute others in time that I will avoid conflicts and rarely speak. It can maintain a harmonious relationship. That's good. Try to practice and do it yourself. The farthest distance is what you say and do. If you can't do it, you will be punished. If you can't channel your emotions yourself, it will do harm to your body. No wonder your hairline keeps moving backwards, which will also affect your work efficiency.
Third, thank Mr. Liu for his tolerance and patience.
When I first entered the company, I was very strange to computers. I seldom touched the computer before. When I was a child, I thought that going to Internet cafes to play computer games was not a good boy, and I didn't like playing games, so I had less contact with computers. As we all know, in my present job, not knowing how to use a computer is equivalent to not knowing how to use a mobile phone. Computers are one of the tools to make money.
PPT can't be done. Teacher Liu gave me time to study the course and mastered some basic production. With the use of Excel, it took me half a day to complete the statistics of fund positions. The method that Teacher Liu taught me was completed in half an hour with a pivot table. It's amazing.
Teacher Liu told me, "I can teach you if I am not competent enough. It is my problem that I can't teach you." Accumulate slowly, and you can accumulate. "I also want to learn from Mr. Liu's model. I remember listening to Mr. Liu say "I usually don't make a wish" during the live broadcast. If I make a wish, I hope the motherland will prosper and the people will live and work in peace and contentment. "Because only the motherland is prosperous, capable people can live and work in peace and contentment on their own." ? My wish is good health and smooth work. My pattern is too small.
A few months ago, Mr. Liu also presented the employee harmony award. As long as you don't quarrel for a month, you will be rewarded. If you quarrel, you will be fined, and I will double it. Because I am in charge of administration, one of the duties of administration is to improve interpersonal relationships. We all got this bonus in early February of 65438+,and we have not been fined. It's the first time I heard that employees get along well with each other and get prizes. The harmony of employees should be taken for granted, and there is no need to award prizes according to rights. Thank you, Mr. Liu. Let him work hard for us. At the same time, I also want to thank my little sister for her guidance and empowerment, which taught me a lot of valuable life experiences. And my little sister always thinks of us when she has good things, and sends us daily necessities-warm stickers, cosmetics and so on. Make delicious egg tarts for us.
Fourthly, I made some reviews of my life and work.
1, discussing the right and wrong of the company's interpersonal relationship with others, which I now think is an extremely bad shortcoming, and people can't evaluate others. What if you talk so much in your stomach? You can keep a diary, chat with relatives and friends, play ball games and so on. There is no pattern in evaluating others, which will cause misunderstanding and bring some trouble to yourself and others. Many complicated sources of human nature come from yourself. If you don't say anything, you won't be caught by others Speaking more rigorously and doing things more rigorously will reduce mistakes.
2, and for the last personal attack on other people's families, I realized my mistake. They have weaknesses and should not be used as weapons to attack others. I attacked other people's families, which is a heinous crime, and I deeply regret it. I won't make any personal attacks again. Buddhists said, "When we meet, it is predestined friends." No matter what fate, I hope to turn it into a good one. I can't take it away, only my career is with me. If you do something wrong, you will be punished. Report good news but not bad news. I know the law and break the law, and my crime is aggravated.
My understanding now is that even if you often release them, you should be kind to everyone around you. Practice in the world of mortals is the real practice. I used to say that I would go to temples or some places in Taoism to live, but I was actually escaping. To work in the Taoist Dojo, you must have a postgraduate degree to enter. I am not qualified.
3. Lack of professional knowledge. Do things too slowly. Teacher Liu's previous company values: honesty, objectivity, professionalism and responsibility. Personally, I feel that integrity barely passed. As for the others, it is still far from the passing line. Because I am too timid, I don't have many clear concepts in my mind, and I have a little knowledge, which leads to being taken out of context and my mind is in chaos, which is why I think so much. The confusion of brain thinking is like concrete. To read more books on philosophy and thought, the master decides to read more books.
4. I have not learned the knowledge of administrative management and have not used it flexibly. Administrative staff belong to the company's big housekeeper, including team management, daily communication, logistics support, office environment, company values and so on. I haven't done it yet. In short, to be a manager, you should treat others and colleagues with altruism and not be against others. Affect the mood and lead to low work efficiency.
Fifth, timely feedback and less detours.
Master Hongyi once said: "The most unfortunate thing in life is that I occasionally make a slip of the tongue, which is worse than a disaster (I made a mistake, but it seems to have no consequences);" Accidentally made a mistake and succeeded (without careful planning, but it did); I get a little profit when I do whatever I want (I occasionally make a mistake and actually get a little profit). After that, treat the past as normal, not indifference. When disaster strikes, it turns out. If I think it should be like this, it will be miserable. )
People made mistakes and were punished. In fact, it is not necessarily a catastrophe, but it may also be an important reminder from God. The less prompt the reminder, the greater the harm behind it. So here I am very grateful to the people around me for their timely feedback, which has saved me a lot of detours.
Because I didn't get timely feedback at school, I didn't know I had done something wrong. I have been working for more than a year now and received a lot of feedback. I also know that I made many mistakes. Now I know I must correct them. If we treat it as an old habit again, it will be a catastrophe, a catastrophe. Society teaches life, and society is a good university.
Now think about it. I can fall in love with Sister Yuan Pan. Maybe it's because God took care of my silly child, or maybe it's because I was filial to my parents, took care of my grandparents and helped them wash their underwear. In addition, I actively wanted to change myself, joined 007 and changed the circle. Of course, there may be some luck. If you talk too much about yourself, you will show off and stop talking. I have to say that my vanity is at work.
I asked Sister Yuan Pan before, do you want to tell me what you did? Sister said: "It depends on what you think and what your purpose is, because you have done good deeds and let everyone know that this is an external manifestation of vanity, which is understandable." When your vanity is gone, you can do good without saying anything. " ? Then I'm relieved.
Investment in intransitive verbs
I heard a passage from Dr. Gron. What is the most important investment? Not stocks, but asset allocation. The first is the times, and the second is the region. Whether starting a business or investing, it is always to earn money from the general trend of the country and invest in the national luck of the country. This is the importance of the times. The second is the region. Poor places, even with all the advantages of tenacity, hardship and hard work, have no future. I will admire those who go to cities or construction sites to sweat, work hard for themselves or their families and have a bright future.
The third one is my own adaptation-the fund is scheduled to vote. When you meet Mr. Liu, as long as you persist, not losing money is the only good strategy. Long-term fixed investment will definitely make money. If you have the ability to make money off-site and have continuous cash flow, you can continue to invest. You can make a fixed investment anywhere. Teacher Liu studied many classic master books, and stood on the shoulders of giants with more than ten years of investment experience. Mr. Liu's customers are all wise because they stand on Mr. Liu's shoulders. I know Sister Yuan Pan and Teacher Liu Huan. If you don't make money, you have nothing to do with them or money. The truth.
Seven, practice makes perfect, work quietly, don't ask about the harvest.
This year's state is really not as proactive as before. I can only say that I finished my work step by step, without any innovative ideas. I must adjust my state. But at work, I learned a lot of skills, such as video editing, audio editing, official WeChat account typesetting, writing articles (I got 50,000 readings on the platform, and Teacher Liu rewarded me with luxurious afternoon tea), fund diagnosis and analysis, and administrative knowledge. I also learned a lot and grew a lot. I played table tennis downstairs, made a lot of friends, and it was also very fulfilling. Now I understand that reading more books and meeting more people can enrich my experience.
Don't forget your active attitude, so as to achieve your ultimate goal, the initial heart is easy to get, and it is always difficult to keep. I hope that in 2022, I will be down-to-earth, integrated with knowledge and action, and full of hope. The so-called hope is that a person believes that his tomorrow will become better because of today's efforts ... The point here is that tomorrow will not automatically become better, but will become better because of today's actions, because he did the right thing in the right way today. Whether tomorrow will be better has nothing to do with the discomfort (even inferiority) caused by today's clumsiness. As long as we continue to act, everything will improve, although there are luck factors; On the other hand, once the action is abandoned, the deterioration of tomorrow is directly determined, 100%, without exception.
To borrow Sister Yuan Pan's words, knowing one method is more important than knowing a hundred truths. A hundred tricks are not as useful as one trick.
Keep moving!