There are many reasons for this, such as the influence of reproductive consciousness, the great energy of men in the farming era, better harvest, raising children to prevent old age and so on.
However, with the development of the times, this traditional style has changed. When the son is old, there may be no daughter to rely on. On the contrary, the expenses of the child's wife and children really exceed the burden of his parents.
The arrival of the newborn should have been a happy event, but outside a delivery room in Shandong, when the nurse took the baby and looked forward to enjoying happiness with her relatives, the family's performance was a bit unexpected.
Grandpa, in particular, is also sad, so let the nursing staff take him back to the house first.
In the new era, people have a new standard for dividing the upper, middle and lower classes. Upper level: two daughters, middle level: one son and one daughter, and lower level: two sons.
Although a little joking, the views and people's consciousness reflected behind it are actually self-evident. That is to improve the status of girls.
Everyone breathed a sigh of relief when the newborn baby landed. The nurse in the delivery room handled it a little, took the child out as usual and shared the good news with her family.
Mother and child are safe, the baby is a boy, and the baby weighs a pound.
I thought the child's relatives would smile after listening to it, but what she didn't expect was that the people waiting outside didn't seem to be very excited. After a brief question about the health status of pregnant women, they stopped talking.
I don't seem to be interested in the baby in the nurse's arms. I just watched them discuss, and the children became more and more silent. Especially the children's grandfathers, who had reached out to hug, shrank back after all.
After a long silence, I finally spoke, but there were only a few words: take it back to the house.
It was not until later that the nurse realized that everyone was depressed, not because of other things, but because of the baby's fetal sex.
Before I came here, I had two boys at home. I thought the third child was a girl, and everyone had high hopes. Therefore, I specially conducted relevant courses, and even the clothes and pants were bought in advance for girls. Unexpectedly, it is still a boy.
I used to expect boys, but now girls have become "hot potatoes", and netizens are also talking about it.
Some netizens said that this idea is actually worth understanding. If there are two daughters at home, they want a son. If there are two sons at home, they want a daughter. Unfortunately, there is providence.
Some netizens also said that when they had daughters before, a group of people often lamented. Now, a son has become a burden. I have to say, the tide turns.
Some netizens said that since they decided to have more children, they should be prepared and give whatever they want. I don't like to hear this. Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as you are a good boy.
Objectively speaking, modern people's understanding and sustenance of children is very different from the past.
I used to raise my son and struggle to raise him, just because I wanted to wait for him to retire when he was old. However, when there is a report that "the more sons, the dimmer the old age", people's expectations are not as high as in the past. Tall man.
More and more facts prove that sons are often careless, and sometimes even have no liver and lungs. In contrast, the daughter is the really intimate little cotton-padded jacket.
In this case, it is reasonable that the son is not treated as well as the daughter.
Especially after 70 s and 80 s, it seems that they don't intend to entrust their old age to their children.
Children have their own lives. Whether to stay around or fly high in the future depends entirely on their personal choice. As for their old age, they mainly depend on themselves and the other half.
To put it bluntly, a child is a gift from heaven, and getting it is a blessing in itself, but when you get this gift, don't expect anything in return.