1. After confirming the wedding date, we began to book hotels and arrange banquets. Now Wenzhou seems to book a banquet one year in advance. I feel dizzy. Everyone will get married on a good day.
Then we must settle down first. Of course, the man is responsible for buying a house and decorating it. The renovation will take at least two months, usually after the engagement. After the renovation, all the furniture in the room was bought by the man, and the rest was dressed by the woman. Everything with plugs and decorations, as well as kitchen cabinets and bedding, is handled by the woman.
2. Take wedding photos. To choose a good time, March-June or September-65438+February is the best time to take wedding photos. The weather is good and the scenery is good. Book in advance, because everyone is rushing to go at a good time. Now Wenzhou's fashion vision, 3W photography and Phoenix impression are all good, which has changed the stereotyped style of Vivian's bride. It is best to make an appointment while doing activities. Send more things, and the price will be relatively cheap.
3. Wedding dress. Nowadays, many people buy wedding dresses. It's good to have time. After all, it is much cheaper to buy in Suzhou and Shanghai, but it should be noted that the quality in Suzhou is generally not good. There is also a lot of travel expenses for a trip. Let's compare which is more cost-effective to rent or buy. If you rent it, the distribution of several shops in Wenzhou is like this: some shops like Broadway and wedding dress workshops are expensive, and some wedding dress workshops are unique, that is, the price is expensive, and beautiful evening dresses generally cost more than 3 thousand. Three pieces add up to more than 10 thousand. Some Broadway ones cost tens of thousands. Just one night, so expensive, this money is really wronged.
You don't have to worry about the toast procedure on the wedding day. The cameraman of the etiquette company knows these routines very well. He will teach you how to toast while filming, just follow them.
4. A gift from the woman to the man's family.
(1) Sweet potato ye sweet potato niang. You have to buy presents for both the sweet potato master and the sweet potato girl. In summer, I bought a crocodile T-shirt for the sweet potato master and a necklace for the sweet potato mother. Buy a pair of shoes for sweet potato master and sweet potato mother, especially sweet potato mother, and put a pair of socks in the shoes. The homonym of "shoes and socks" in Wenzhou dialect means that she can help you with housework in her spare time.
(2) The brothers and sisters of Sweet Potato Niang are also uncles and aunts of the man. Usually everyone buys a quilt or quilt cover and other bedding, and the price is generally two or three hundred yuan.
(3) the man's brothers and sisters. People with brothers usually buy a shirt or other clothes. Sisters are usually rings or necklaces. Spouses of brothers and sisters are regarded as brothers or sisters.
5. Preparation for a few days before marriage.
(1) Photographing car rental fireworks, but these have nothing to do with all-inclusive etiquette companies now.
(2) Master of ceremonies. Please see your personal preferences without invitation. I always feel that you have too many parties, and the emcee has to be busy for half a day. Don't think about it until 12 pm. You wait, others can't wait. It's ok if the master of ceremonies is good, but if the level is too poor or something else, it will ruin the wedding atmosphere.
(3) make an appointment with a makeup artist. Because the wedding day is the most important day for women, the preliminary work has been done and the wedding dress has been carefully selected. The next step is to check the makeup artist. It is recommended to find a makeup studio that can try on makeup, such as J Fashion Bride, so that you can know the quality of makeup after a try. Generally, makeup artists in big shops and shops that don't try makeup can ignore it directly, because even the best makeup artists have to make up according to your appearance. How else would they make clothes? Special reminder: Good makeup artists are generally in great demand, so it is best to make an appointment two months in advance.
The night before the wedding, the bride only needs a facial treatment to make herself hungry, so she doesn't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now beauticians come straight home to do their hair and nails, and then eat. After this lunch, the next one is at lunch the next day. Here, I want to remind everyone that we still have to eat, hehe. . . Then the makeup artist will spend more than an hour putting on her wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hairstyle when she gets home at one o'clock.
The man is similar, and there is no trouble for the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's house to pick up the bride (it's getting earlier and earlier now, because many couples usually get married at the same time in hotels, so it's not bad to arrive early. In order to get feng shui, the bride arrives early now, instead of waiting for the bride as in the past. When the bride arrives, the bridesmaid will try to embarrass the groom. In the end, of course, the red envelope will be fixed before opening the door. Let's talk about getting off here. When we rent a car here in Wenzhou, we have to pay cigarettes, otherwise some bad drivers will deliberately drive fast and slow, so there will be no queues and the video will not look good. Then, when you arrive at the new house, make a video of offering tea and glutinous rice balls. When you pay a New Year call, you must remember the order of your elders, or you will be gossiped.
Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, then the lion dance, and then the red envelope (red envelope 28). Next, some groomsmen will spray the couple and bridesmaids with that spray. The bride is advised to put down her veil, and the bridesmaid is advised to prepare an old dress with a hat and put it on before going in, hehe. The last level is of course a toast. That's all that matters. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's play with each other, so we don't need it here. Also note that the bride in the middle needs to change her wedding dress and hairstyle. It should also be noted that in Wenzhou, the man now gives the woman four tables of banquets, including red envelopes. The extra banquets are all taken care of by the woman, and the red envelopes are of course collected by the parents.
Women's family etiquette
Mother's parents: * * * ()
Women's family preparation
* 2 enamel washbasins (1 washbasins contain 2 pairs of chopsticks, including red dates, peanuts, longan and chestnuts, and coins 1 yuan; Another 1 easy face, 2 pairs of new chopsticks)
* 2 red wrapping paper and 2 red belts.
* Crystal jiaozi (wrapped in a smaller jiaozi to avoid rubbing the bride's lipstick when eating).
* 2 rings (in jewelry boxes, respectively, kept by bridesmaids 1*** () to avoid losing them when using)
* 2 pairs of other dresses, accessories, shoes and stockings (only for brides) (kept by bridesmaids 2*** ())
Etiquette activities of the woman's family
At seven o'clock, the manager of the woman's house is responsible for arranging the beginning of putting up happy words, installing balloon arches, tying balloons on the iron railings of the stairs, and decorating the scene of the woman's house.
7: 58 The groom * * * () The best man * * () starts from the groom's house (the groom brings a red envelope, a bouquet and a corsage) and keeps in touch with the woman's house at any time.
At 8: 28, the groom arrived at the bride's house.
* Block the door
The groom presented flowers to the bride.
* After putting shoes on the bride
The bride and groom wear flowers to each other.
* The best man and the bridesmaid send flowers to each other.
* When the couple meet their parents-in-law, they peel sugar and offer tea to them.
* Parents-in-law give the groom a red envelope (waist-pressing money)
* Newcomers eat jiaozi
* The couple took a photo with the woman's family.
* It's a red belt, and the bride has a piece of candy in her mouth before going out.
* The groom opens the car door for the bride from the right, and can't talk before going out and getting on the bus.
At 9: 28, the groom picks up the bride and the woman's wedding, sets out and goes back to the groom's house. (2 salutes, digital balloons)
1 1: 08 The bride's family goes to the hotel by car.
14: 30, take the bus to send her parents home. Go to the groom's parents' house to get back the shelves of the wedding company and other things, and get back the deposit.
Precautions:
1, bridesmaid1* * () Take care of the red luggage, bridesmaid's wedding dress, etc.
Don't look back after the bride leaves home.
The bride's family takes the second car to send the wedding.
4. Follow the vehicles, each vehicle must be manned, and the driver should keep in touch with the groom's supervisor.
5. Seating arrangement: 1# Car groom, bride, groomsman and bridesmaid; 2# car home * * *, * *; After the 3# car, others.
Each family has its own arrangements. As long as the two families discuss it well, there are generally the following items to consider:
1. Does this man have a house? Or did the woman come forward to buy a house?
If the mortgage is made, is the down payment made by the man or together?
2. What car should I buy? Most people buy 65,438+million, some buy 200,000, and of course some are more expensive.
3. Decorate household appliances and furniture.
4, engagement and wedding banquet, engagement wine is not the same, wedding banquet wine man sent the woman four tables.
5. The rest is fragmentary.