The part of the subconscious that has not entered the conscious mind
The part of the subconscious that has not entered the conscious mind. Most of us are relatively clear about our consciousness. When we fall asleep, our consciousness gradually becomes blurred. , the subconscious will appear, but when your subconscious does not enter the conscious part, what will happen to this part? The part of the subconscious mind that has not entered consciousness 1
Has the part of the subconscious mind that has not entered consciousness become destiny?
This question is both a very professional and very realistic question. To explain it clearly, we must first popularize some knowledge about the subconscious: the relationship between consciousness and subconsciousness.
The theory of subconsciousness is the core research of psychoanalysis. When it comes to the human mental layer (or consciousness level), it includes consciousness, preconsciousness and subconsciousness. It is described as an iceberg: consciousness is the small part that emerges from the water. , most of what is hidden underwater is subconscious. The preconscious refers to the part of the subconscious that may or is entering consciousness. It can be compared to: an invisible bridge, or a better metaphor: a tunnel from the dark world to the outside world.
Subconscious, also called unconscious. It is a continuous accumulation of experiences and feelings that are suppressed and excluded by consciousness during the growth process of a person since birth. Simply put, anything that is not recognized and allowed by the conscious mind will enter the subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind is like an ocean, it accommodates river water from all directions. No matter you are turbid or dirty, a flood or a trickle, it will never abandon you. Over time, many of them have become ancient fossils, and many of them have become jelly, or something like secretly surging porridge... Generally speaking, the consciousness is not aware of it.
Therefore, the realm of human consciousness is limited, while the realm of unconsciousness is unfathomable and boundless, and it has an important impact on people's emotional behavior.
So what is it that becomes destiny? Is the power of human beings greater than the conscious mind, or is the subconscious mind greater than the conscious mind? How to make the unconscious conscious? Does consciousness determine fate, or does subconsciousness determine fate, or...questions such as this are worthy of special discussion.
Back to this article - Has the part of the subconscious that has not entered the conscious mind become destiny? According to the previous introduction to the concept of the subconscious mind, the subconscious mind is too deep and too large, and most of it cannot enter the conscious mind. This is normal. Combined with the development of civilization, human destiny is not determined by the "most subconscious mind", but by the self. It is controlled by consciousness, but it does not seem to be entirely in the hands of "consciousness", because we always feel that fate is not dependent on human will.
Psychoanalysis believes that human psychological activities, including desires, impulses, thoughts, fantasies, emotions, judgments, decisions, etc., occur and proceed at different levels of consciousness. It is also believed that a person's personality maturity or self-strength is based on the continuous understanding of self, that is, the continuous awareness of one's own unconscious self. Then, his destiny is to a greater extent controlled by the direction he wants. , he will eventually become himself.
On the contrary, people who do not have a clear enough understanding of themselves may be restricted by their own unconscious desires and complexes, such as making many irrational behaviors, or not achieving much in their lives, or even worse. Suffering from mental illness.
For example, a certain college student had always had good grades and was eloquent. However, when he came to the podium to speak, he either stuttered or his mind went blank. Gradually, he became reticent and avoidant. social interaction, even fear of social interaction.
This is a common psychological phenomenon that is controlled by unconscious complexes: the more you fear something, the more you will get. For people caught in such psychological conflicts, their emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and even their destiny are undoubtedly not bound by their old knots.
To explain this psychological mechanism, we can use Jung’s thinking. He said: What we refuse to embrace in our hearts will inevitably come out from within to embrace us and become our destiny.
For example, if you are particularly afraid of insomnia, but insomnia will always appear in your night; if you desperately resist being excluded and abandoned by others, then you are most likely to be rejected by your classmates and colleagues in your life. Excluded, abandoned by best friend and lover. Why do we become more and more afraid of something?
Let’s take a closer look at Jung’s words: What you refuse to embrace in your heart is not only the thing you fear the most, but it is also what you deeply inhale into your heart with the temptation of “constant fear and rejection” matter. That is, that terrible thing, the magic that your super-sensitive fear rejects, is summoned into your life. As the saying goes, the more you are afraid, the more you call, and the more you are afraid, the more you seduce. However, seduction is unconscious, and the connotation of terrible things is also unconscious of the person involved.
Still taking the example of a certain college student: In reality or at a conscious level, he knew that what he was afraid of was speaking in public, because he had made a fool of himself when he spoke - insincere words, poor expression, etc. In short, he was afraid of speaking in public. The shadow of shame and the fear of shame reappearing. This fear has since become a reason or motivation to avoid speaking, socializing and other behaviors. Psychology is called defense, and it uses avoidance to completely defend against shame.
But this is a reason that cannot withstand inference or is extremely fragile. Then there must be a deep anxiety in the person involved that he is not aware of (in fact, this is true for most similar cases): subconscious fear.
That is, any exaggeration of real crises, or the experience of an originally safe situation as being surrounded by dangers and facing a formidable enemy, may be related to past unsafe experiences, such as being in a parent-child relationship that has been denied and insecure for a long time. Relationships, or experiencing traumatic events such as humiliation... The most critical thing is that the insecure feelings at that time were not comforted at all, but were forced or swallowed hard, without digestion or transformation. It becomes an experience of being felt by oneself as "a child with low self-esteem, timidity, cowardice, and helplessness". Because the swallowed existence is very painful. Only by completely suppressing and forgetting them can the panicked heart be calmed down.
During childhood, suppressed and forgotten experiences and feelings do not mean they disappear. They often hibernate in people’s subconscious in the form of complexes or personality traits. When faced with a real crisis or stressful situation, the complex or hidden character part is easily touched or aroused, and the person manifests as losing control of his emotions or acting like another person.
Using Jungian theory to explain, the college student who is afraid of speaking in public, what he has been afraid of and rejected in his heart is what he experiences as "bad, embarrassing, weak me", etc., he He has always been highly sensitive, suppressed, and guarded against their appearance. However, those weak children in his heart who he refused to embrace were quite stubborn and naughty. They rushed out of the line and scared themselves.
Understanding this way, we also understand: if we want to cure our heart disease, or not be controlled by our own complexes, and not live so cautiously and entangled, we need to learn and learn: to forgive the "unsatisfactory" of the past. "Okay", tolerate and accept the weaker parts of yourself.
The concept of psychoanalysis is consistent with the old saying (look at the age of three): childhood determines character, and character determines destiny. The part of the subconscious that has not entered the conscious mind 2
It is said that character determines destiny. This is absolutely true. Even though many people still believe in the so-called "fate", there are also many people who believe in the Book of Changes, gossip, and fortune tellers.
Anyone who studies classical culture knows that the Book of Changes cannot be used to tell fortunes. It is just a calculation based on your existing behavioral habits, past experiences and other factors. If you are destined to be destined, then the fortune teller will Why can you change your destiny?
From a scientific point of view, it is nothing more than "innate basis" and "acquired conditions"!
If you have a good innate foundation and use it well the day after tomorrow, you will succeed.
If the congenital conditions are not good, it is easy to succeed if you work hard the day after tomorrow.
If you are born with good conditions, you will fail if you don’t grasp it well the day after tomorrow.
Some people say, no, I was born with a hard life. If I had such and such parents...
In fact, it is easy to understand. Here is an example:
Zhu Yuanzhang, Taizu of the Ming Dynasty, and Huizong of the Song Dynasty, the founder of the Northern Song Dynasty.
Zhu Yuanzhang’s original name was Zhu Chongba, and his father was Zhu Wusi. My brother's name is Zhu Ersan or something like that... In short, he is so poor that he doesn't even have a name, so he just picks it up.
So poor that when my parents died, I couldn’t even afford a coffin and there was no place to bury them...
I was so poor that I became a monk and begged for food.
However, they raised armies in 10 years to destroy the Yuan Dynasty and establish the Ming Dynasty.
Let’s talk about Song Huizong. He was born with a golden key in his mouth, and after being a prince for more than ten years, he was elected emperor. Not only are they well-dressed and well-fed, they have everything they want, and they can do whatever they want. They can read the works of any master they want and learn from any master they want. They are even more gifted. It can be described as a unique innate condition. But what about the final fate? Aren't you seeking death?
Whose hands is their fate in their hands?
Qi Shu
I once heard a scholar comment on the decline of the late Ming Dynasty. There was a saying:
It was not the emperor’s fault. It's not the fault of the civil service group, nor the fault of the eunuchs' literacy. It's really that the Ming Dynasty has run out of strength.
I didn’t understand at the time. The word “Qi Shu” is often mentioned by people. What the hell is it? Why does it sound so fatal?
It seems that the overthrow of a dynasty and the collapse of a company can all be summed up in the words "their strength is exhausted".
If you look for a Feng Shui master at this time, he will definitely be able to tell you a lot of lies. And it can't save "destiny" at all (Let me explain here, I think the theory of Feng Shui is still partly scientific.)
So, what exactly is this Qi number?
I think it is a "field". Just like a person's aura. To put it more bluntly, it is the butterfly effect. (I recommend you the movie "The Butterfly Effect")
A person's words and deeds lead to changes in everything around him. This is personal energy. As for the momentum of a dynasty, it is a "field" intertwined with complex reasons such as the ethos of the times, systems, culture, people (emperors and officials), external environment (such as foreign invasion).
Consciousness and subconscious mind
There is a saying:
“If the subconscious mind does not enter the conscious mind, it becomes your destiny.”
It means that if you act based on your feelings, you are actually controlled by your subconscious mind. However, the subconscious mind is inclined to indulgence, laziness, freedom, physiological needs, reproduction needs, etc., that is, it is closer to animal nature.
However, the reason why humans are different from animals is that we have consciousness. It’s the id, ego and superego. The superego is at the moral level. It pulls together with the id to form the "self", which is the "I".
The subconscious is the part of the self. When the subconscious mind controls the self, the fate is doomed, and it must be "tragic".
When the subconscious mind enters the conscious mind, it will be controlled by the superego, and people will be more inclined to control, and it will be impossible to rely on it until the end. Live a naturally "advanced" life.
So, most of the time, people need external conditions, such as work pressure and group pressure, to force themselves to change. If you stay at home all day, you will become a "waste" most of the time!
Song Huizong lived his life as he pleased and became the best artist, but the worst emperor.
A person who believes in metal, wood, water, and fire and has a good fortune often leads a positive and optimistic life, works conscientiously, and does not spend money arbitrarily. They just use the above to add luster to their "destiny", that is, to give themselves better psychological hints.
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If all the subconscious mind becomes conscious, what will happen?
Consciousness is the human brain’s awareness of the internal and external images of the brain. Consciousness is an advanced orderly organization form of matter. The original meaning of consciousness is spiritual activity. Consciousness represents the independence of the individual and is the unique coordinate of subjective existence.
Consciousness means that people can understand their own existence and know what is happening. You can contrast with beings different from yourself. The definition of consciousness is very simple, it is that which recognizes and knows the existence of things. It is all activities and results of human and animal brains, that is, as conscious thinking.
Subconsciousness refers to the part of human psychological activities that cannot be recognized or recognized. It is the process of mental activities that have occurred but have not reached the state of consciousness.
We ourselves have no way to detect the subconscious mind. It really exists before your consciousness appears. It happens before your consciousness. It has already happened but we have not recognized it yet. A form of thinking. These subconscious results are also obtained based on ourselves. They are not generated out of thin air. They are all our thinking.
Now that we have understood what subconsciousness and consciousness are, many people will definitely want to know such a question, that is, what will happen if all subconsciousness becomes consciousness?
From a scientific point of view, the subconscious cannot become consciousness. After becoming conscious, the subconscious will cease to exist, but the subconscious of each of us cannot disappear. But if we have to make such an assumption, we can imagine that all these thoughts are your consciousness, and you can completely control them.
In fact, there is a lot of room for development of the subconscious mind. We can develop our subconscious mind to the maximum through many ways. However, this process is very long and difficult, and we need to have the ability to develop it ourselves. You have a very strong willpower, or you have a method that suits you very well.
We need to use constant imagination or constant psychological suggestion, and then allow ourselves to strengthen our mental activities based on these things.