Naming has become a big problem for too many new generation parents.
What's a nice name? How to repeat less? Do you want to take the exam according to seniority? Do you want feng shui to work together?
I'm too cruel! ! !
This pile of questions stumped most of our parents. But let's put aside other issues today. Think about it first. Is it better to choose names according to seniority or not?
Then talk about the benefits of naming by generation.
Speaking of benefits, mentioning the origin of naming by generations is more helpful for us to analyze and judge.
The most formal word generation should have originated in the Song Dynasty.
At that time, Song Taizu and Zhao Kuangyin stipulated thirteen word generations for future generations, and added their own words to form the couplet "Kuang Dewei follows the world, Bo Xishi, Meng Youyi".
This is the earliest formal word generation that people have ever seen.
In general, there are three forms, contents and meanings of word generation:
First, cultivate one's morality, govern the country and level the world.
Second, future generations respect, praise and praise their ancestors and predecessors. Third, the encouragement, expectation and blessing of ancestors and predecessors to future generations.
From the above, we can see several important benefits of naming by generation:
First of all, the cohesion of the family has increased.
Second, it clearly shows social relations and cultural inheritance.
Third, there is a clear life goal from birth.
You can't know exactly when naming by seniority is out of fashion.
I remember when I was a child, many of us would have two or more names, one by seniority and the other by seniority.
What are the advantages of not naming by seniority?
As if to sum up, the word flexibility sums up everything. Anyway, there are no restrictions, more choices, less repetition, similarity and uniqueness. I don't feel any other benefits.
So how do we choose between seniority and not seniority?
I'll take it myself. I must decide according to my qualifications. I don't want to see that we can communicate at zero distance, but our hearts are separated from each other.
Even if there are no descendants in the genealogy to create a new generation, I want to create one myself, whether it is a pair or a poem, hoping that the younger generation will become more and more brilliant.
Starting with me, and then the story of our ancestors, I will pass on my family. Let the younger generation ask less, where does my home come from? The question of where to go!
As long as you or your younger generation can stand out, I believe that even if Ma Yun and Ma Yun have the same name, people will instantly understand that this is neither the other nor the other. The name is the same, but our stories are different.
Come on, write a story in our own name. He also tried to teach the younger generation to write a story with his own name.
Life has a degree, and the most taboo is satiety; I've lived half my life, so please pay attention.