In this family ethics, we can only compare ourselves and reflect on ourselves; If we compare this kind of ethics and blame people around us, it will be counterproductive. In the family, we should know how to repay kindness with gratitude. "Don't look at the good of others, just care about yourself." For parents, "
"No matter whether the child is filial or not, but see if the child is kind or not"; For children, "whether parents are good or not depends on whether they are filial or not", so that the family can live in harmony. Today, Qi Xin is building a harmonious family and society. Only when there is a way can there be virtue; When there is no Tao, there is no virtue; There can be no happiness without virtue.
Laorendao
1, the old man is the star of the family, with virtue as the root. "Virtue" is the responsibility of a family and a peaceful family.
2, the old man's face is dusty, gentle and not angry, talk less, don't talk, don't talk about parents, take the lead in seeing each other's benefits, and have to take care of their families.
3. Ford is full, gentle and heavy, and his sex is like ash.
4, contentment, living at home. Carry forward the family style, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.
5, don't mind your own business, don't worry too much about your children and grandchildren, "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."
6. Don't interfere in children's affairs, let go and give way to the younger generation to be the master, and don't get old.
7. There are problems at home. First of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, we didn't do our duty. Second, we went too far.
8. If there is something wrong at home, the old people should be ashamed: my old people have not done well, are immoral and have not educated their families well.
No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is nothing but a shame.
10, don't create right and wrong, don't say right and wrong, don't preach right and wrong, don't listen to right and wrong, be responsible for right and wrong, and are not afraid of right.
No, reconciling a family will not cause right and wrong, otherwise the old man will be wicked.
1 1. Whether a family is developed or not and whether its children are prosperous or not is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The elderly are virtuous, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous; The old man is wicked, his family fortune is declining, his family wealth is not prosperous, and his fragrance is dead.
12. How can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.
13, the old man propped up a blessed land and created a blessed land. Fude is stronger from generation to generation, and Fuyao is more prosperous from generation to generation; Children and grandchildren are stronger than you, which means you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.
14, the old man is like the earth, silently bearing everything, embracing everything and educating everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed.
15, old people love things, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous. If the old man is insatiable, he will eat up all the blessings of his family.
16, the virtue of the elderly is the best feng shui, the highest feng shui.
Lovers Road
1. Husband and wife are the star of the family, with love as the root.
2. The whole family is based on love. Without love, families cannot be established. Love is the first condition for marriage.
3. If you love someone, you must first understand their responsibilities. Complement each other and improve their responsibilities. Inspire each other and play their role. If you don't control each other's freedom, you should give them happiness, not trouble. Complement each other and understand each other's physiology and psychology.