In the world, things are human, and people are human. Some people are open-minded and generous, while others are timid; Some people are hardworking and brave, while others are lazy and timid. Some people are aggressive, while others give up on themselves; Some people are dedicated to the public, while others are selfish at the expense of others; Some people uphold justice, some people reverse black and white ... The differences between these people tell us that what is in front of each of us is a question of personality choice. If a person chooses the right personality model, he will be successful and beautiful. Choosing the wrong personality model will lead to failure and pain.
Liu Zongyuan of the Tang Dynasty wrote an article saying; There was a young man named Ma where the hurricane was raging. He said that when he was fifteen or sixteen, he used to play with many children in the pavilion. One day, a wonderful girl suddenly fell from the sky and her whole body was radiant. She is wearing a blue leather coat with a white pattern and a "rockhopper" on her head. The rich children were shocked at first, then rejoiced and gradually gathered around her.
With a straight face, the young girl scolded loudly, "Don't fool around! I once lived in the palace of the Jade Emperor, shuttling between the stars, breathing the essence of Yin and Yang. I despise Penglai, despise Kunlun and disdain to go there. The Jade Emperor banished me from the world because I was too arrogant. Seven days later, I will return to the Heavenly Palace. Today, although I am ashamed to fall into this world, I can never go along with you. If you do this again, I will punish you when you go back to Heaven! " Everyone was shocked by her best decission, looked at each other and slipped away one by one.
The girl got up and walked into a Buddhist temple and lived in a lecture hall. Seven days later, he took a glass of water and gulped it down, and his breath turned into colorful clouds. Then she turned the fur coat upside down and put it on, and suddenly it became a white dragon, rising into the sky and disappearing. It is strange that people don't know where she has gone.
At the end of the story, Liu Zongyuan wrote at the end of the article: "If this goddess is disheartened and has no confidence in the future, she will go with the dirt of the world, abandon her personality and drag out an ignoble existence. Therefore, it is a pity to live this life only on earth! "
This story is a fable, but as a mirror, it can reflect people's reality. Just as a person must remain calm in a disaster, he must maintain the integrity of his personality in an unsatisfactory predicament, never lose confidence, give up his efforts and go with the flow. If you sink in a bad environment, it is tantamount to lowering the realm of self-existence, not to mention constantly improving the quality of life.
In a person's life, it is inevitable that there will be low tide, unsatisfactory survival stage and even bad atmosphere. Look around, you will find despicable people, petty people, vulgar people and so on. At this moment, if your words and deeds are a little careless and your mind is a little unstable, you will sink down and go along with the bad environment and despicable people around you, which is equivalent to killing your own life.
There is no denying that people with noble personalities may also encounter bad luck and misfortune. People with noble personality would rather encounter bad luck and misfortune than give up their noble personality, because they don't keep their noble personality in return.
19 years old, Xu Beihong went to Shanghai from his hometown Yixing to make a living, and his artistic career began. 192 1 year, when he went to study in France, an international student defied him and said, "China people are ignorant and are born to be conquered people. Even if it is sent to heaven for further study, it will not become a talent. " Xu Beihong, who is very patriotic, was angered. He said, "Well, I represent my motherland and you represent your country. When you graduate from school, you will know who is a talent and who is a fool? "
After entering the Paris School of Fine Arts, Xu Beihong not only learned oil painting and mastered the skills of human body sketch, but also studied the physiological structure of horses and drew more than 1000 sketches of live horses. In his first year of school, his oil paintings were well received by the French artist Ferragamo. He won the first prize in many competitions. From 65438 to 0924, he held an art exhibition in Paris and exhibited his oil paintings, Qin Ban and other works. , caused a sensation in the local art world. The foreign student who once challenged Xu Beihong had to put down his airs and admit that he was no match for China people.
Imagine if Xu Beihong lost confidence in a bad environment, gave up his efforts and went with the flow. What will happen?
In adversity, he never gave up his noble personality and made a great master, Xu Beihong.
Personality is a cloud in the sky, beautiful and quiet; Personality is a long flute, sweet and distant. It enriches your spirit. Without it, it is like a night without the moon, and there is no spring scenery of grass in a vibrant room; With it, you have a blue sky.
My friends, no matter adversity or prosperity, we can't give up our noble personality