First, create a harmonious family atmosphere.
Children need a harmonious living environment most. Children are young, weak in gas field and highly dependent on adults. If the family is not harmonious, noisy, full of gunpowder, and the gas field is chaotic, children can easily go astray, which is extremely unfavorable to their development. Husband and wife have harmonious feelings, laughter and laughter at home, reunion and happiness, and it is impossible for children to go astray. Some educators say that parents are children's first teachers, which is very correct. There will inevitably be contradictions between husband and wife. Parents should also avoid quarreling and fighting in front of their children, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth.
Second, the items at home
If possible, choose round and oval items and furniture at home. For example, the oval dining table has the function of active atmosphere, while the square or rectangular dining table has the connotation of solemnity, discipline and law-abiding, and can be used. The most important things are triangles and strange shapes. Although it is easy to promote children's interest, it is easy to use the atmosphere of eating to suppress it, and it is easy for children to explode extreme thoughts and behaviors. We must pay attention to it.
Third, children's rooms should be away from noisy areas and doors.
It is best to arrange the children's room in the auspicious position of the children, and the northeast or west position of the house is more beneficial to the children. Because, logically, the northeast is the location of boys and the west is the location of girls. However, it is often difficult to do this in the current building structure, so please pay attention to keeping children's rooms away from doors and noisy environments as far as possible, which will make children's self-discipline worse, easy to avoid their parents' eyes and ears, do some bad things, and easily develop some bad habits, such as sneaking out to play without saying a word and coming to the room behind their parents' backs, which are not conducive to children's growth.
Fourth, the children's bed and study place, it is best to choose Wenchang.
Every child has his own literary position and auspicious position. When the bed is placed in this position, the child will feel comfortable and smart when sleeping, which is not only conducive to the child's physical development, but also conducive to the formation of the child's character. Putting the desk in this position is conducive to learning and will make children smarter. Imagine that children always study and sleep in an awkward place that is not suitable for them. In the long run, this bad influence will subtly lead children astray. For a simple example, some babies cry at night. See a doctor to see if there is anything wrong. If you adjust your child's sleeping direction, it will have a good effect. This is a fact.
In addition, be sure to know the fierce position of the child. Desk, bed, etc. Do not put it in this position. These positions can be placed in bookcases and wardrobes.
Fifth, pay attention to the colors around the children.
Everyone will have different reactions to different colors around him according to their own numerology likes and dislikes. Therefore, as parents, they should know something about their children's numerology, so as to make color arrangements suitable for their children's clothes, schoolbags, furniture colors and room colors. This will be beneficial to their growth, development, study and character formation. For example, children who like fire in numerology can arrange red as the main color, children who like gold in numerology can arrange white as the main color, and so on. This is very important. Please ask parents not to arrange their children according to their own wishes, but to choose the color suitable for their children. If children face colors they don't like all day, it will lead to negative emotions such as irritability, autism and trouble.
In addition, don't have too many colors at home, and don't be messy. The messy colors are easy to make people fidgety and angry, which will definitely affect the family atmosphere.
Sixth, the numerology harmony of a family of three
The interaction of numerology is the result of the strength of the five elements. Everyone will form their own aura after birth, and there will be five elements of likes and dislikes. For example, some parents will find that their children are very close to their fathers and always pinch their mothers. This is a fact. Then a family of three, if the five elements are harmonious, the family will be harmonious and happy. If they contradict each other, then contradictions and quarrels will continue. Families with this situation should consider solving this problem and transform or offset mutual resistance through external forces.