The best way is to take turns to go to both parents' houses, one year to the man's house and one year to the woman's house, because family reunion is the most important thing, and the family will have a reunion, happiness, happiness and perfection together.
It used to be the custom in China that girls spend the New Year in their own homes when they are unmarried. As long as you get married, you must spend the New Year at the man's house, not at your parents' house. They will think that it is unlucky for their daughter to go back to her parents' home for the New Year, which will affect Feng Shui. Only the second day can I go back to my parents' house, so I usually spend the New Year in the man's house and go back to the woman's house in the second day. This is also a good idea.
In fact, if parents can be reasonable, it will be fine, and where to spend the New Year will not become a contradiction between husband and wife. Most boys asked to go back to their husbands' home for the New Year, but parents insisted that their sons go home for the New Year, saying that their ancestors had decided to reunite for the New Year, but this ignored the woman's home. As long as both parents are reasonable and don't always use these traditions to force their children to go back to their in-laws for the New Year, there will naturally be no quarrel about it.
In fact, the most important thing is a good relationship between husband and wife. As long as the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious and the family status is equal, even if some parents can't sympathize with reason, they will coordinate with each other as partners. Two people discuss it, take the initiative to contact their parents and spend more time with them. Sometimes because of busy work, I can't go back. I can have a video call with my family during the New Year to tell my thoughts.