There is no real deep friendship, only the following three situations: First, in the embryonic stage of love, the foundation for the development of love has been laid, but it has not yet reached the level of quantitative change to qualitative change to love. If a boy says to a girl, "Let's make friends." The other person's intention is like Si Mazhao's heart. As long as girls are not kindergarten children, they should all know well. Second, a feeling transformed from love. A man and a woman love each other or each other deeply, but they can't get married because of intentional falling out of love, heartless running water or other reasons. They can only bury their love in their hearts and sublimate it into a noble friendship, which is still based on love. For example, Jin Helin only praised their deep friendship in many articles, which is rare in the world, but they didn't know that the hidden story behind it was Jin and his beloved Lin, who married Liang Sicheng, Liang Qichao's eldest son. The deep affection of gold didn't even resist the bitter gourd. Knowing that there was no result, he was trapped by love and couldn't give up, so he had to maintain his married life. Is this friendship pure? I don't know if Lin and Jin have any ideological pressure when they are in contact, or if they feel even a little sorry: being loved by a gentleman is a lifelong mistake. Third, it is purely an ambiguous feeling of selling dog meat. Foreigners in China's company on the beach have a close relationship with beautiful China girls. When introducing them to the outside world, he claimed that "we are ordinary friends." But do ordinary boyfriends and girlfriends sleep together? They may be dreaming that one day they can switch from sneaking around to formal girlfriends and climb high branches to go abroad. It's best not to embarrass China people. In the eyes of those foreigners, they are just fools who are not as good as chickens. Prostitutes who sell themselves publicly still earn money, making people rob themselves secretly and have sex dreams, but they lose their personality. I think it's better for girls to take advantage like this. This kind of ambiguous relationship between men and women under the guise of friendship is not uncommon in life. If they still insist on arguing that "we didn't have sex", can all the conversations between them be listened to by their lovers? Therefore, there are two kinds of ambiguity: physical and spiritual. Chinese divorce, everyone has seen that spiritual betrayal is more serious than physical betrayal. Once again, it proves that people's thoughts are the most harmful things. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Baoyu dreamed that the fairy in the sky reprimanded him as the most lewd person, because psychosexuality is the most deadly, much more serious than pure prostitution. Of course, the obscenity in A Dream of Red Mansions refers to the beautiful love of Baoyu and the ambiguous relationship between men and women that I mentioned. The quotation here is just an analogy. When I was a child, I watched Xiang Yu in Liao Zhai, which was rewritten in vernacular Chinese. It describes that Huang Sheng and Xiang Yu are lovers in love, and they are pure friends with Jiang Xue. I believed it when I was young and naive. Today, when I read Yu Xiang carefully, I can't get rid of vague doubts about the relationship between Huang Sheng and Jiang Xue. Whether men and women in friendship will go together, whether they will often be with clothes, and being with clothes is just my guess. The article only said that Jiang Xue would occasionally spend the night at Huang Sheng's house, and did not mention whether to sleep with clothes. I feel that they have a physical relationship, but they are not as solid and stable as Yu Xiang's. For example, Jiang Xue said to himself, "I can't be as hot as Yu Xiang, but I can comfort your lonely ears less." So the so-called pure friendship is just a lie to deceive children. Their relationship should belong to the third kind, an ambiguous friendship that deceives others.
The meaning of friendship
Legend has it that in Arabia, two friends were traveling in the desert. One day they quarreled, and one slapped the other. Feeling humiliated, I wrote in the sand without saying a word, "My good friend slapped me today." Then they walked on. In this way, they went all the way to Woye. They decided to stop and have a rest. The one who was beaten was thirsty and went to the river to drink water. As a result, he accidentally slipped into the water and almost drowned. Fortunately, his friend arrived in time and saved him. After being rescued, he picked up a small sword and wrote on a stone: "My good friend saved my life today." A curious friend asked, why did you write it in the sand after I hit you, but now you want to carve it on a stone? The other replied with a smile: when you are hurt by a friend, write it in a place that is easy to forget, and the wind will be responsible for erasing it; On the contrary, if we get help, we should engrave it in our hearts, and no wind can erase it. Friends often hurt each other unintentionally, but help is sincere, forget those unintentional injuries; Remember those who have really helped you, and you will find that you have many sincere friends in this world. ......
Friendship is a kind of special emotion produced by people in communication activities, which is essentially different from general goodwill produced in communication activities. Friendship is an emotion from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the condensation of feelings between the two sides, and any unilateral good can not be called friendship. Intimacy is the core component of friendship, and intimacy is also known as an important indicator to measure the degree of friendship. Rogers (1985) summed up this intimate relationship from three aspects: (1) being able to reveal his thoughts, feelings and inner secrets to friends; (2) Fully trust friends and be sure that their "confessions" will be respected by friends and will not be easily leaked or used against themselves; (3) friendship relations limited to special evaluation, that is, limited to a few close friends or confidants.
Words of friendship
If friendship is an evergreen tree, it must be watered by a clear spring from the heart; If friendship is a beautiful and undefeated flower, then it must be the rising sun in my heart. How much laughter is aroused by friendship and how much tears are wiped away by friendship. The harbor of friendship is warm and affectionate, and the breeze of friendship sails. Friendship is not an emotional investment, and there is no need for dividends and dividends. Yingying moonlight, I scooped up the clearest glass; After sunset, I hold a wisp of the warmest; Burning red leaves, I picked up the hottest one; I picked a bunch of the most colorful herbs; Long life, I want to choose the most important thing in the world-friendship is a ray of sunshine in winter, so that people who are poor and sick can feel the warmth of the world; Friendship is the spring in the desert, which makes people on the verge of despair see the hope of life again; Friendship is a ballad floating in the night sky, which gives the lonely and helpless people spiritual comfort. (5) Friendship is a fine wine, and the longer the years, the more mellow it will be; Friendship is fireworks, the higher it blooms, the more beautiful it is; Friendship is a pearl. The more it is honed over the years, the more brilliant it will be. Friendship is a touch of color of nature, and only a discerning craftsman can make it perfect; Friendship is a beating note in the music score, and only a singer with delicate feelings can truly and purely express it. Friendship is like a glass of water. If you are not careful, the water will disappear. When water is spilled, cracks appear between friends and can never be repaired. The best way to maintain friendship is to be happy.
Friendship is a tree.
When busy, I want to have a rest; When on vacation, think about the future. When you are poor, you long for wealth; Life is easy, and I am afraid that happiness will not last long. When making a decision, I am worried that the result will not be as good as expected; I saw it and regretted not making up my mind. People who don't belong to themselves often have desires; Holding it in my hand, I miss the comfort before having it. If life is not now, when is it? A person can be your relative for a lifetime for no reason, but a person will not be your friend for a lifetime for no reason. I will think of everything I know about you, and I will also think of everything that happened. Will we sit in front of the computer and chat with each other until we are old? Anyway, I hope we will always be sincere and relative friends (confidants). A friend is someone who likes you and knows you. I hope you can cherish every friend around you. Because you and I are predestined friends, it is even more rare to become friends and confidants! Time may not be the reason why you and I become bosom friends, but it will certainly prove that your concern for your friends has not been in vain! I hope you will always be my good friend! A friend is something you want to share with him when you are happy. A friend is something you can lose your temper with when you are unhappy. Friends will help you when you have no money to eat. When you are bored, friends can go with you. To realize the value of one year, you can ask a student who has failed in reconstruction. To realize the value of January, you can ask a premature mother. To realize the value of one week, you can ask the editor of an ordinary weekly. To realize the value of one hour, you can ask two lovers who are waiting to get together. To realize the value of one minute, you can ask a traveler who has missed the train. To realize the value of one second, you can ask a lucky man who had a narrow escape. To realize the value of one millisecond, you can ask an athlete who missed a gold medal. A friend is … even a little touched, I want to share a little thing. A friend is … when you cry, the person who holds your shoulder is a friend … when you face setbacks in life, I always hold your hand tightly. How are you? You can see that this is your fate and his. You can make friends with people around you, which is also your fate with him. Even if you don't know when this group of meteors will disappear, if you cherish every moment of seeing this meteor, you won't regret it even if it leaves. Please cherish this friendship with everyone around you! Building friendship is like planting a tree, because friendship is a tree. T: Trust R: Respect E: Communication E: Emotional support for friends is to accompany you through difficulties invisibly. A friend who always supports your strength is an unspeakable feeling. A friend is someone who always protects you in front of others. A friend is someone who wants to share even a little touch and likes the rain, because you won't know I'm crying. ...
Quotes about friendship
Friendship, a noble and beautiful friendship, is based on mutual respect, deep sympathy, never malicious envy of others' achievements, and cultivate the consciousness that collective interests are above all else. A true friend of ostrovsky (the former Soviet Union) is happy for you when you succeed, but doesn't support you. I will give you timely support and encouragement when you encounter misfortune or sadness. When you have shortcomings and may make mistakes, you will give correct criticism and help. -(former Soviet Union) Gorky is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to get real friendship; Friendship always needs loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principle to cultivate, understanding to care for. -Marx's true and rational friendship is the most beautiful and priceless wealth in life. Gorky friendship is as pure as the fog in the morning. Flattery can't get friendship, but friendship can only be consolidated by loyalty. -Marx had many good friends, not a lot of wealth. Shakespeare's friendship is based on the greatest similarity between two people's hearts and souls. -(Germany) Beethoven's two thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. -Cao Xueqin makes friends and keeps promises. Confucius, a fence, three stakes, a hero and three gangs. -Mao Zedong Wealth is not a real friend, but a friend is a real wealth-China proverb: Differences between friends are opportunities for the enemy to attack. Aesop Friendship needs loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to irrigate, principles to cultivate and understanding to care for. -German proverb: If you go near Zhu Zhechi, you will become black. -Fu Xuan There are three kinds of true friends: those who love you, those who can't forget you and those who hate you. -Sanford's true friend is a soul conceived in two bodies. -Aristotle It is ignorant to study alone without friends. -Confucius friends in the Spring and Autumn Period were defenders against sadness, unhappiness and fear, and jars of friendship and trust. -Five Books The best thing in life is her (his) friendship with others. Lincoln However, as long as China keeps our friendship, as long as heaven remains our neighbor. -Wang Bo Many years ago, a topic appeared in The Times. Open call for answers, the topic is: What is the shortest path from London to Rome? Many people looked for answers from geographical location and lost the election. Only one answer won the prize, and that is: good friends. Having a good friend to accompany you, talking and laughing all the way, not only won't be too long, but even the road is too short. Of all the happiness that wisdom brings to the whole life, friendship is the most important. Boccaccio people must rely on patience to maintain harmony, and friendship is like a small flower, which must be carefully cultivated by both sides. Anonymous friendship is like a score, with numerator and denominator on both sides. When the numerator (denominator) loses its opponent, the fractional value goes up in smoke. I don't know who wants to meet a friendly heart in the world and experience the realm of mutual care in order to taste the joy of heaven and earth. The best thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with integrity in mind and heart. Einstein can make friends by associating with people without prejudice. Roland friendship is a mysterious combination of souls, a beautifier of life and a consolidator of society. Robert Brahe talks about fame, honor, enjoyment, wealth, etc. Compared with the enthusiasm of friendship, all this is just dust. Darwin's best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, but can be silently opposite and closely connected with you. Gorky, except sincere friends, has no medicine that can communicate with his heart. Bacon's lack of true friends is the purest and most pitiful loneliness; Without friendship, the world is just a wilderness. Bacon, if we can get deeper friendship, maybe we should pay more attention to our behavior and live up to our friends' understanding. Zou Taofen loves his friends, likes them and treats them sincerely, but don't rely on them, let alone demand them. Only by doing these things can you enjoy making friends. Roland's friendship and career represent two great pleasures in life, and having these two great pleasures is cheerful and diligent. Roland friendship is like a bright light in my past life, shining on my soul and making my existence a little glorious. Ba Jin's friendship is a kind of quiet and peaceful love, which is guided by reason, formed by habit and produced by long-term understanding and agreement with * * *, without jealousy or fear. -the friendship between homer and mai is always a sweet and soft responsibility, never an opportunity. Ji Bolun True friendship is like a wildfire-it is brightest in the darkest hours around you. -d.m True friendship is like wildfire. Although it is weak, it will give you all its light when you are in the dark. True friendship is a slow-growing plant. Washington Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony. -Guo Yu's best friend is as different as a heart. -Aristotle The best thing in the world is to have a few solemn friends with integrity in mind and heart. -Einstein and the person you laughed with, you may forget him; But you will never forget the people you cried with. -Ji Bolun People who have no friends or enemies are ordinary people. -Rafat treats everyone equally, confides in a few people and owes nothing to anyone. -Shakespeare In all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness. -Balzac may perish alone, but two people together may be saved. -Balzac 1. Nothing in the world is more beautiful and enjoyable than friendship. Without friendship, the world seems to have lost the sun. -Cicero II. My friend, your voice wanders in my heart, like the whisper of the sea, lingering among the listening pines. -Tagore 3. Life with friends shows its full value. A person lives for friends, protects the integrity of his life, is not eroded by time, and is also for friends. -Roman Tolstoy 4. To be true bosom friends, we must trust each other. -lev tolstoy 5. It is a kind of happiness to have a friend in this world. -lev tolstoy 6. Sadness can be taken care of by yourself, but if you want to fully appreciate the taste of joy, you must have someone to share it with. -Mark Twain 7. Be honest with everyone, live in harmony with most people, have frequent contacts with a few people, and be close to only one person. Franklin 8. Friends are transparent to friends, and they exchange lives with each other. The voices and smiles of both sides imitate each other there and the hearts imitate each other there. Roland 9. If friendship can adjust people's feelings, then another function of friendship is to increase people's wisdom. -bacon 10, brothers are not necessarily friends, but friends are often brothers. -Franklin 1 1. Friendship is like a flower. If cultivated well, it can produce happy flowers. However, once willfulness or misfortune fundamentally destroys friendship, this flower that blooms in the heart can wither immediately. -Dumas 12. If you see the unnatural behavior between friends, you can know that your relationship has begun to decline. Honest and simple loyalty does not need superficial rhetoric. -Franklin 13, if you want to have a good friend, you must first become a good friend of others. -Saneatsu Mushakoji 14. Tell your friend that your weakness is great trust, and tell him that his weakness is greater trust. -Franklin 15, not only in misfortune, but also in happiness. -Bertrand Russell You can make friends by associating with people without prejudice. Roland Friendship is a mysterious combination of souls, a beautifier of life and a consolidator of society. Robert Blah talks about fame, honor, happiness and wealth. Compared with the enthusiasm of friendship, these are just dust. -Darwin Of all the happiness that wisdom provides to the whole life, friendship is the most important. Boccaccio people must rely on patience to maintain harmony. Friendship, like a small flower, must be carefully cultivated by both sides. -Anonymous's lack of true friends is the purest and most pitiful loneliness; Without friendship, the world is just a wilderness. Bacon: We should gain deeper friendship, perhaps pay more attention to our behavior and live up to our friends' understanding. -Zou Taofen loves friends, likes them, and treats them sincerely, but don't rely on them, let alone demand them. Only by doing these things can you enjoy making friends. -Roland Friendship and career represent the two great pleasures of life, and having these two great pleasures, one is cheerful, and the other is diligence. -Roland My past friendship is like a bright light, shining on my soul and making my existence a little glorious. -Ba Jin and the person you laughed with, you may forget him; But you will never forget the people you cried with. -Ji Bolun Friendship is like a fraction, with numerator and denominator on both sides. When the numerator (denominator) loses its opponent, the fractional value goes up in smoke. -anonymous whoever meets a friendly heart in the world and experiences a state of caring for each other is tasting the joy of heaven and earth. -romain rolland The best thing in the world is to have a few solemn friends with integrity in mind and heart. Einstein's best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, but can talk to you silently and intimately. -Gorky Except for a sincere friend, there is no medicine that can communicate with the heart. bacon
A poem about friendship
You have a wizard, and I am not poor. -(Qing) Know yourself in the sea, and heaven is still our neighbor. -(Don) Neither of us is happy-Forever and ever, we meet. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? . -(Tang) Bai Juyi Mo Chou doesn't know the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you. -(Tang) The joy of the world cannot be said. -(Qing) Pu Songling's acquaintance lies in knowing each other and knowing each other lies in knowing each other. -(Spring and Autumn Period) Mencius' friendship between gentlemen is indifferent, while that between villains is pleasant. A gentleman is indifferent to his relatives, but a villain is willing to give up. -(Warring States) Zhuangzi was black when he was near the ink, and black when he was near the ink. -(Western Jin Dynasty) Fu Xuan's life is expensive, why use gold and money? -(Tang) Li Bai makes friends and keeps his word. -(Spring and Autumn) Never forget the friendship between children and summer. -(Tang) In li yanshou, gentlemen and gentlemen are friends with the same way, and villains and villains are friends with the same interests. -(Song) Ouyang Xiu enjoyed knowing each other in his life. -(Song) Wang Anshi's revenge should be reconciled, and each should go back to his own. -(Ming) Feng Menglong is a hero in adversity. -(Qing Wei) It is easy to get two thousand gold, but it is difficult to find a bosom friend. -(Qing) Cao Xueqin changed my heart, for your heart, just to know each other and know each other deeply. -(Song) Gu Xia Zhong Ziqi died, and Boya never played drums again. -"Han Shu" is not heavy enough, but it is important to know yourself. -Bao Rong, a gentleman, be a hero in the world. -the reflection of Shu Shu and the biography of Liu Ba. It is not disrespectful for a gentleman to hand it in, but it is not blasphemy for him to hand it in. If I know that all countries are brothers, where can I meet an old friend? -Chen is a friend. -(Song) Zhu Yi is not as good as new, and people are not as good as old. -"Han Yuefu" is United and consistent. -(Song) Ouyang Xiu didn't know about friendship until after his death. Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other. One is expensive and the other is cheap, and friendship can be seen. -"Historical Records" did not say that the heart was drunk and no longer drank. -(Jin) Tao Yuanming has no distinction between old and young in his life. Why should he be in tune first? -(Tang) Du Fu had a heart-to-heart meeting and remembered each other from then on. -(Tang) Bai Juyi made friends in his later years, not for ups and downs. -(Tang) Helan is happy today, don't forget it in the future. -(Three Kingdoms) Cao Zhi knows the world, and how many people can know each other. -(Ming) Feng Menglong's youth and happiness know each other and miss his old friends. -(Tang) Han Yushi sees the nobility. -(Tang) Luo Xiang knows the crisis, and it is not good to be alone. -(Tang) Li Bai dumped it with papaya and hugged it with it. It is always good to repay bandits. -"The Book of Songs" The most important thing in life is to know yourself, and the four seas meet with flesh and blood. -"Wild Goose Gate Collection" Friends are full of love, and everyone they know is speculating. -(Ming) Feng Menglong, Yizhou broken. -"hey. Cohesion is full of babies, demanding their friendly voices. -The Book of Songs. "Is a new understanding of Xiaoya. -(Warring States Period) Qu Yuan turned his neck awkwardly. -"Han Zhuge Feng Biography", and romantic figures are not the same kind of people. -(Tang) Meng Haoran's friends are eager to think. -The Analects of Confucius. " Luz is very polite. -The Book of Rites. Qu Li "A gentleman makes friends by writing and helps others by friendship. -The Analects of Confucius. Yan yuan "pays with money, and the money is exhausted; People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing. -"The Warring States Policy", when the husband is cold, frost and snow fall, you know that the pine and cypress are lush. -"Huainanzi" is based on the combination of power and the power is exhausted. -"Historical Records" Lu Yao knows horsepower and sees people's hearts for a long time. -"Selected Songs of Yuan Dynasty". Contend for gratitude "knows each other far and near, and Wan Li is still a neighbor. -(Tang) Zhang Jiuling greeted him with a smile and sent him away but he cried. -(Tang) Wang Wei's Peach Blossom Pond is deeper in thousands of feet than in Wang Lun. -(Tang) Li Bai is old and close. -(Tang) Although Du Fu has brothers, it is better to be friends. -"Bao Puzi". Communication "a gentleman is as light as water, and the longer it takes, the more true it is." The population is as small as honey, and it is an enemy in an instant. -"Xunzhi Zhai Ji" friends should not be mixed. -"Bao Puzi". It is difficult for friends who communicate "power" to go far. -(Jin) Lu Ji's husband must be poor when making friends, and the poor must make friends with his first relative. -(Tang) Gao Shi is a brother, why should he be flesh and blood. -Tao Qian tastes sweet and perishable, and it is never too late to know a friend of a gentleman as light as water. -(Southern Song Dynasty) Xin Qiji broke up with the gentleman, and there was no evil voice. -"Warring States Policy" It is enough to know one thing in life, and the world should treat it with the same mind. -Lu Xun It is better to find a friend who praises you than to find a friend who finds fault with you. -"Contemporary Youth Talk about Life" People help me and I will never forget it. I help others, so don't forget. -Hua is our good friend and praises us behind our backs. Cervantes In fact, everyone has advanced friends and backward friends. The problem is how to help our backward friend make him progress and never follow him. This is the real "enough friends". -Xie Juezai My past friendship was like a bright lamp, shining on my soul and making my existence a little bit glorious. -Ba Jin, three friends and four friends, eat, drink and be merry. This is the so-called "fair-weather friend". Friends get together, not talking about work, not talking about study, not talking about politics, only talking about personal interests and grievances. This is called "living in groups all day long, and the words are not correct." -Xie Juezai Friendship will always be the assistant of virtue, not evil. Cicero's stupid friend is worse than his clever enemy. -(India) Sakyamuni Anyone who wants to get help in bad luck should be tolerant of others on weekdays. -(Persia) saadi attributed friendship to the beneficiaries, but I thought it was to write off the most precious things in friendship. Cicero Some people always compliment you, but not all of them are friends in need. Shakespeare, an ungrateful man, is hopeless when he is in trouble. -(Greece) Aesop's fable Friendship is really the most sacred thing. It deserves not only special praise, but also eternal praise. Qiu is a snob, so don't get into trouble! Byron If you are smart, don't take that man as a friend, if he has a deep friendship with your enemy. -(Persia) Sadi Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. -(Li) A friend in need. -(Su) When Lenin is happy, friends will know us; In difficult times, we will make friends. Collins abandoned your friend in an emergency. You cannot be trusted. -(Greece) Aesop can't get friends by giving gifts. You must contribute your sincere love and learn how to win a person's heart in an appropriate way. -(Greece) Suragiti should be careful in choosing friends, but more careful in abandoning them. -Friend Frank Green is a defender of sadness, unhappiness and fear, and a bottle of love and trust. -"Five Books" Keep a certain distance between friends, so that friendship will last long. Charles's insidious friendship will give you some insignificant benefits, but it will deprive you of your treasure-independent thinking and pure love for truth! (belinsky) A true friend never talks about friendship. They did everything for each other without asking for anything in return for their friendship. -(Russia) belinsky's good words and promises are easier said than done. Only when you are in trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends. (krylov) No matter passionate poems, beautiful articles, or leisurely happiness can replace the incomparable close friendship. (Russian) A true friend of Pushkin should tell the truth, no matter how sharp his words are ... (former Soviet Union) ostrovsky friendship, lofty and beautiful friendship based on mutual respect, deep sympathy, never maliciously envy others' achievements, and cultivate the consciousness that collective interests are above all else. -(former Soviet Union) ostrovsky's true friends are happy for you when you are successful, but they don't support you. I will give you timely support and encouragement when you encounter misfortune or sadness. When you have shortcomings and may make mistakes, you will give correct criticism and help. -(former Soviet Union) Gorky is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to get real friendship; Friendship always needs loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principle to cultivate, understanding to care for. -Marx's true and rational friendship is the most beautiful and priceless wealth in life. Gorky's friendship is as pure as the fog in the morning. Flattery can't get friendship, but friendship can only be consolidated by loyalty. -Marx had many good friends, not a lot of wealth. Shakespeare's friendship is based on the greatest similarity between two people's hearts and souls. -(Germany) Beethoven's two thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. -Cao Xueqin is strict and trustworthy in making friends. Confucius, a fence, three stakes, a hero and three gangs. -Mao Zedong: A friend in need is a true friend. -China Proverb Disagreement between friends is an opportunity for the enemy to attack. Aesop's true and rational friendship is the most beautiful and priceless wealth in life. Gorky needs friendship-loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principle to cultivate, understanding to care. -German proverb: If you go near Zhu Zhechi, you will become black. -Fu Xuan There are three kinds of true friends: those who love you, those who can't forget you and those who hate you. -Sanford's true friend is a soul conceived in two bodies. -Aristotle It is ignorant to study alone without friends. -Confucius