As long as it's your land, it's ok. No one can control it.
Regarding rural housing, when some houses are built, neighbors will always be a little higher than themselves, and the threshold will be a little higher than you. As a result of the feudal comparison in our hometown, everyone has to prove that he is better than the other. Buying a car and a house is also more expensive than others, and the atmosphere can be good. This is taboo in rural areas, and it is related to feng shui problems. The big door eats the small door, and its spacious door corresponds to your small door, which affects the health of your family. However, with luck, it doesn't matter. I still suggest that you rebuild it, as big as his family, not bigger than his family, so the two families will toss and turn endlessly.