Let's look at dink's advantages. As dinks, they can control their time and energy more freely and avoid the cost of time and energy caused by taking care of their children. They can put more energy into the pursuit of work, career, hobbies and other aspects to maximize their self-worth. In addition, because there are no children, you can pay more attention to your health and hobbies, and avoid neglecting your own needs because of your children.
Dink also has a selfish side. In many traditional cultures, raising children is considered as one of the most important responsibilities and obligations in life, which can bring infinite happiness and happiness to parents. However, when Dink chose not to have children and ignored this traditional obligation, they were considered selfish and short-sighted. Besides, the future is unknown. Dink's personal savings may be quickly consumed after retirement, and there are no children to provide mental or economic care for the elderly. When this happens, such a dink will become more burden to the country and society.
In the final analysis, we can draw the conclusion that Dink's answer in the debate about whether he is selfish or not is two poles, and everyone has different ideas and choices.
On the one hand, Dink can realize his self-worth to the greatest extent and find a way to realize himself, which is a positive attitude towards life.
On the other hand, Dink doesn't bear the responsibility and obligation of raising children, which may be considered selfish.
But we must respect everyone's choice of life, and we also need to develop in a balanced and fair way with the society, so that everyone can get the happiness they deserve and ensure the balanced development of the population.