Information of the Integrity and White Lies Debate Competition Contents:
There is no doubt that a white lie itself is a lie. Lies, lying is deception, deception is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all things our teachers have taught us since childhood. But let’s ask ourselves, who hasn’t told lies? Whether it is for our relatives, friends, or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add a "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it. This is a concentrated expression of the weakness of human nature.
Mark. Twain once said this: "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponents and relieve your friends." Therefore, the view of psychological experts is: Don't be too easy Lie, even a white lie.
We believe that when distinguishing things, we should first start with the definition. Based on the definition of the Kangxi Dictionary, a white lie means seeking truth without facts, telling lies, lying, exaggerating, covering up, and distorting the truth. Let’s start with the analysis of the phrase structure of white lies. It is a biased phrase, and the central word is lie. Therefore, white lies are essentially lies. Although the motives of white lies are good intentions, because good intentions themselves have certain uncertainties, they are often exploited by some "professional liars" - this is an indisputable fact. "Lies" themselves are dark. The likes and dislikes of things cannot be measured by their purpose. White lies themselves are lies. Although he took off his beggar's clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still couldn't get rid of the essence of lies, and lies meant deception, thus hindering integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once such a lie is exposed, it will hurt the other party more deeply. As a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity.
In the 20-word code of ethics proposed in the "Implementation Outline for Citizen Morality Construction" promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "integrity" is a very important code. Integrity is the pursuit of "truth" and the pursuit of integrity. justice. The ancients said that "the true one" is the most sincere person. If you are not refined or sincere, you cannot move people.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The harmonious socialist society we want to build should be democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, integrity and friendliness, full of vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature. society.”
Through the above-mentioned multi-faceted analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie has a good purpose, it will definitely hinder integrity as a lie.
In an environment where the entire society is dishonest, you will suffer a loss if you are the only one who respects integrity. However, honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of being a human being and should not be a condition for comparison with others. Society is constantly progressing and internationalization is getting closer to us. Those villains who rely on fraud to gain the interests of others will eventually be cast aside. Look at it this way, your honesty and trustworthiness will be trusted by most people, and your road will become wider and wider.
Debating competition basis (example):
Friends from the other side of the debate, we believe that people need to be honest. I have a small example here. In 1933, Lao She’s friend went to him for a request. A painting by an old man named Qi Baishi. Twenty years later, when Mr. Lao She saw his friend again, he gave the painting to him. This does not mean that Mr. Lao She promised a lot of money. Did he still not forget what he promised his friend twenty years ago? Therefore, we still support that people must be honest and cannot lie.
A white lie is a lie in itself. He just took off his brocade robe and put on a stone robe, but it is still a lie. False lies are deception, and deception is an obstacle to integrity. Therefore, we believe that People must be honest and cannot lie.
Although white lies have good intentions, they are often used by professional liars. Professional liars may, I am telling lies, but they may be white lies. In this way, He has lied a lot, and he still thinks he is noble, so I think people still have to be honest. Otherwise, once you lie, whether it is with good intentions or malicious intent, your intention may be good, but it may Someone will use your lies to do bad things.
And as there are more and more white lies in life, people’s ability to distinguish lies will become worse and worse. Once life is full of lies, it will no longer be possible to distinguish which ones are kind and which are malicious. .
If you lived in a world full of lies, would you feel at ease?
A white lie is also a kind of lie. It is like a disease. Even if it is not malignant but benign, even if it is just a minor disease, can you say that it is not a lie? Can you say he is not sick?
If you say that his painting is very beautiful, he will be laughed at by others when he goes out. Then if you tell him directly that your painting is not good, and teach him what to do. If he makes corrections somewhere, he will avoid unnecessary embarrassment.
Lies are deceptions. Does the other party’s debate partner still want to add a beautiful halo to lies? From an objective point of view, isn’t it a kind of deception that the opponent’s fellow debater can tell lies? Since it is in good faith, why would the other party's fellow debater need to lie? In fact, there are two types of lies, one is acute and the other is chronic. Acute means that a child did not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him, "You didn't listen carefully in class." The child said, "I did." This is because he did not want to be scolded by his mother, and he also wanted to do it. He comforted his mother without making her sad, and he did so through two points. The chronic lie is that if you meet a mentally retarded child, can you tell him that you are mentally retarded? Can you tell him that you are stupid? You can only say that you are smart, but if you say that he is smart, you are slowly disintegrating your integrity system.
My fellow debater, can you say that integrity is not a person’s moral capital? A philosopher once said that there are two things that can cause deep shock in our hearts. One is the bright starry sky, and the other is our moral code-integrity.
It can be seen that integrity is a person's moral code and the beauty of one's soul. Integrity is a major premise. When we hold this debate, you can say integrity...
Debate skills:
To correctly use the "slow to win" method in a debate, at least the following three points must be paid attention to: First, use slowness to wait and strike later. As the saying goes: "Haste makes waste." Acting in haste when the time is not ripe often results in failure. Failure to achieve the purpose. The same is true for debate. "Slowness" is also necessary under certain conditions. The "slow to win" method is actually a delaying tactic in the debate. The delaying tactic is a strategy to delay the opponent's advance. When the debate situation is not suitable for quick resolution, or the time is not yet ripe, direct confrontation should be avoided, and instead, time should be delayed to wait for the arrival of a fighter jet. Once the time is right, you can strike later and defeat the enemy. For example, in the first example, Churchill was not in a hurry to succeed when the time was not ripe, but waited slowly. At the critical moment when the candidate for prime minister was being discussed, he expressed his opposition with silence and finally won the victory. Second, use slowness to make plans and use the weak to defeat the strong. The "slowness to win" method is suitable for debate situations where disadvantages are pitted against advantages, and weak vs. powerful. It is a strategic method used by the weak party to defeat the seemingly powerful party. There is a strategy in "slowness", and slow movement must be clever. The word "slow" here is not synonymous with slow response and poor rhetoric, but one of the magic weapons used by orators who are wise but foolish and arrogant to make plans. For example, in the first case, Churchill pretended to be deaf and dumb in the face of Chamberlain's questioning and delayed the attack. In fact, it was a delaying tactic in which he was pretending to be ignorant. In this tough stalemate, Chamberlain finally lost his composure, and Churchill finally won the victory through slow tactics. Third, use slowness to control anger and use coldness to deal with heat. "Slowness" is still a good technique for "controlling anger" in debates. People with poor self-control can easily become agitated during a debate. In this case, if you want to persuade an overly excited person, you should use slow movements and a slow tone of voice. Only by slowing down anger and using cold against heat can it "cool down and reduce stress." Only when the other person is calm can he successfully accept the truth you are saying. For example, the salesperson in the second example used a calm attitude and a gentle tone to calm the other party's anger and resolve the conflict. In short, "fast" and "slow" in debate are also a dialectical relationship of unity of opposites. Soldiers are valuable and speed is important, so of course "fast" is good. However, sometimes "slow" also has the beauty of "slow". "Slow" means waiting, "slow" means making plans, and "slow" means controlling anger. "Slow" is a tough tactic, "slow" is a protracted war, and "slow" is a delaying tactic in a war of words. Although moving slowly and advancing slowly takes a long time and takes big detours, in many cases, it is often the shortcut to victory
Famous aphorisms:
People have no faith. , I don’t know how to do it - Confucius
There is no constant faith in words and no constant chastity in deeds. If you are only interested in profit, you will do anything. If you are like this, you can be called a villain - Xunzi
Believe it or not. The soil of the five elements has no position and no fame, while water, metal, and wood are all waiting for those who live there. ——Zhu Xi
If there is a person who is far away from heaven, loyalty is his clothes and trust is his clothes. ——Lu Zhaoling
You must treat others with sincerity, and others will reciprocate with sincerity——Li Ka-shing
Entrepreneurship is not like studying. You can live for many years in one day. Entrepreneurship must be done step by step. . ——Zhou Jinfeng
When looking for treasures, no matter how expensive the taste is, we will not dare to sacrifice material resources; for the reputation of the lecture hall, no matter how complicated the preparation is, we will not dare to save labor. ——Integrity in "Tongrentang"
No one can see the cultivation, but God knows the intentions.
For an enterprise to operate sustainably, it must first be recognized by society and users. Only when an enterprise is sincere to its users forever can users and society repay the enterprise, can it ensure the company's forward development - Zhang Ruimin
Sincerity is forever - Haier's famous advertising slogan
Credit It is an indispensable personal intangible asset in modern society. The constraints of integrity come not only from the outside world, but also from our self-discipline and our own moral strength. ——He Zhiyong
After entering the society, we are deeply aware of the seriousness and harm of the credit crisis. But there is no use complaining, let alone waiting. Restoring social credit must rely on everyone's efforts, starting now and starting from ourselves.
——Guo Hui
Everything is about integrity. A small thing or an inadvertent breach of trust may ruin our reputation for life. ——Lin Dasheng
The brand contains the reputation of integrity accumulated by the company over the years and is a huge intangible asset——British businessman
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