The above is a question I saw on Zhihu, and I found it very interesting. I made a questionnaire survey in the book club and circle of friends, and some friends were curious about the answer. The results are published as follows.
1, super pet-name ruby
Book of Changes, Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Mao Xuan
2. Chen Long
The Analects of Confucius, lifelong growth, deliberate practice, seven habits of highly effective people, and brain science.
3. Sun Wei Yan
Seven habits of highly effective people, living the meaning of life, lifelong growth, deliberate practice and understanding nature.
4. Liu
Three-character Classics, I Ching, Tao Te Ching, Sun Tzu's Art of War and Liao Fan's Four Disciplines.
5. Mora
Four classic novels? How the Steel Was Tempered
6. Lingling paint
Dry method, living method, forming method, Analects of Confucius, Tao Te Ching.
7. Clear love
Puppy Qian Qian, the courage to be disliked, how to read, nonviolent communication, and seven habits of efficient people.
8. Cat Red Bean Ice
The Journey to the West, The Cowboy's Fantasy Journey and Bear Town are two other books to choose from.
9. Haichun
First principle, three-body, rich dad and poor dad.
10, Little Red Riding Hood
The Little Prince, Qian Qian Dog, Sophie's World, Intimacy and Disgusting Courage.
1 1
Soldiers assault, life, 2 1 century capital, living, ordinary world.
12, Die Meng Zhuang Sheng
I ching, Tao te ching, Mao Xuan, general psychology and the wealth of nations.
Other answers:
Living, modern history of China, self-control, why elites are controlled by time, and the ordinary world.
According to incomplete statistics, the Book of Changes and Tao Te Ching appeared four times, and the seven habits of highly effective people appeared twice.
My own answer is this. When I first saw this question, it was not easy to answer it. I couldn't think of any five books at once, so I immediately thought of asking hundreds of book lovers.
Back to the stem of this question, if your child can only read five books before 18 years old, and these five books are up to you, how would you choose for him?
Your child
②ta can only read five books before 18 years old.
These five books are up to you.
First, you have to have children.
Second,/kloc-can only read five books before he is 0/8 years old. My first feeling is that five books are too few. At least I have read 300 books in two years.
Third, it is up to you to handle these five books, which is the focus of this problem. To put it bluntly, there are only five books, which is to test us as parents and think from the perspective of parents, which five books should be used to shape our children.
I said in an article before that we are actually shaped by books, because every book has a subtle influence on us, changing our values, affecting our habits and thinking, enhancing our cognition and pattern, and opening our horizons.
First, we must teach him how to be a man and how to be polite. This is the most basic thing. The first book can be an ancient sage book, and all of the above can be mentioned.
Second, I think habits are very important to a person, very, very important. It can be said that each of us is made up of habits, and what habits you have is who you are. Therefore, the seven habits of highly effective people, the power of habits and micro-habits can be one of them.
Third, before 18 years old, he spent most of his time studying, and learning is also an extremely important skill for him. It can be said that having learning ability is to open a plug-in for life, not only for exam-oriented education, but also for self-learning outside school. Therefore, books on brain science, cognition of nature, learning to study and studying hard can rank third.
Fourthly, combined with my nearly 30 years' experience, I feel that besides IQ and EQ, financial quotient is also very important. I will cultivate his financial quotient from an early age, and I must have a correct view of money, which will definitely play a very important role in his later life. Therefore, Qian Qian the Dog and Rich Dad and Poor Dad can be used as a book for financial and business enlightenment education.
Fifth, if you want to be happy, you must deal with interpersonal relationships, because all the troubles of human beings come from interpersonal relationships, and the key to success lies in people. Whether a thing can be 75% depends on people, which shows the importance of interpersonal relationships. Therefore, you can choose books such as Non-violent Communication, Key Dialogue, Intimacy, and Courage You Don't Like.
I briefly listed five books that I think children must read, but this is only based on my personal knowledge. Everyone has different ideas and can express their opinions. Five books are really too few.
@ Little Red Riding Hood: I think for children before 18 years old, interest comes first, and the story is relatively more interesting, and we can also get a lot of inspiration from it.
If I have a child, before 18 years old, I hope he or she can have some initial consciousness: about knowing the world, about what I want to be, about the attitude towards growth, about how to treat money and about the relationship between men and women.
If I have children, I will read these books with them every night. When I see interesting places, I will discuss them with my children, even if I can only read one page a day.
Through many exchanges with little red riding hood, I believe that little red riding hood will be a good mother in the future.
@Judy: Every age group has books to read, so we can't generalize.
Many books can't be read by children if they are allowed to read them now, so parents can only set an example after reading them themselves. The power of example is infinite.
And we should read according to children's different personality characteristics and needs, because there are no two identical leaves in the world, 1000 children have 1000 educational methods.
For example, boys like literature, history and military books, while girls are completely different.
Teacher Judy is already a mother and a teacher, so I can see that she has unique ideas in education and benefits a lot every time she listens to her speech.
@ Star: I feel that the book Lifelong Growth is more like a guide. If the purpose of letting children read this book is to let children have growth thinking, then it may be better for parents to internalize this book and guide and help children form such thinking according to the ideas provided in the book.
It is lazy to read books simply by age.
Parents may not realize that some of their words and deeds (unintentional actions) will lead their children to form fixed thinking, and if they want to change from fixed thinking to growth, this acquired change needs to rely on external forces (not only understanding and encouragement, but also providing methods).
@ Chen Long: I think words and deeds must be unified.
Words and deeds are active, good children don't necessarily listen, role models are passive, and both good and bad children learn.
So parents must match their words with their deeds.
Chen Long is a treasure dad, and also has unique opinions and rich experience in parenting education.
Finally, I believe that the above friends will be very good parents and feel that their thoughts are particularly positive. They also love reading and learning, and of course they can also play a very good role in educating children. I wish I could.