Good as water. Water is good for all things without dispute, and evil for all, so it is a few words. Live in a good place; Kind-hearted; With goodwill; Good words and good faith; Good governance; Be good at things; When you are well. Husband is just indisputable, so there is nothing special.
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Good as water. Water is good for all things without dispute, and evil for all, so it is a few words. Living in a beautiful land; Good heart, deep; With kindness and kindness; Say yes and believe; Good governance, governance; Good things, yes; Kind and timely. Husband is just indisputable, so there is nothing special.
What is "goodness"? Lao Tzu said that the best state of goodness is to benefit all things without arguing. Don't argue about what? Name and benefit. One day, Lao Wang was looking at beautiful women on Chunxi Road and accidentally sprained his ankle. You took Lao Wang home, and then you took a photo and posted a news on a website, which said a lot of nonsense about how you sacrificed yourself for others. Do you think this is a good idea?
If there is a picture with truth, hype, affectation and proof that the good you give is good, it has actually deviated from the good, so Lao Tzu said in the second chapter that "everyone knows good, but he is not good."
? If a student often cheats, often speaks insolently and is crazy, it is good for the teacher to criticize him even if his tone is heavier, or even scold him.
? If a person wants to become an online celebrity, even if he helps his uncle cross the street and delivers water to sanitation workers every day, his kindness is also mixed with evil.
Everything is a contradictory unity of opposites, and goodness is no exception. Good is true and false. Look at the spread of pneumonia caused by novel coronavirus in many provinces. It is also donations and materials. Some people want people to remember his goodness, save traffic, and then turn traffic into "fame" and "profit". Some people are giving masks, money, etc. Have a clear conscience There is also a kind of person who uses his position or resource advantage to turn others' kindness into his own kindness to others. What kind of "kindness" can you tell?
All beings, goodness has always existed. A kind of goodness is exchange, a kind of goodness is virtue accumulation, and a kind of goodness is evil. Good has been hovering between fame, profit and evil.
As you can see in CPC Central Commission for Discipline Inspection official website, some comrades used to look like five or six people, but in fact, they are full of thieves and prostitutes, and they are very courageous. If you give them a space, he dares to do somersaults in the sky. When we look at a person's good or bad, the most important thing is to look at his starting point, whether for himself, for others or for society. Our China culture advocates "saving the world", "benefiting the people" and "being the best", all of which are "doing good".
Laozi said that "everything in water conservancy is indisputable and everyone is evil", which was once again reflected incisively and vividly before this epidemic. "Wuhan people" have become a special group for some time, and the license plate of E A has also been rejected, complained and reported. On June 23, 2020, Wuhan was sealed. Some people fled by car with the virus, some people fled unscrupulously to spread the virus to others, some people fled to show off their success, but some people came bravely. They are Zhong Nanshan, Li Lanjuan, Chen Wei and medical teams from all over the country.
In the face of every disaster, it is not superheroes in American movies who help the world, but ordinary people who work in ordinary posts, and those who dare to stand up are often those at the bottom who you usually think are not good. ?
? Then Lao Tzu listed in detail what is good, and after modifying punctuation:
"Live well, land; Good heart, deep; With kindness and kindness; Say yes and believe; Good governance, governance; Good things, yes; Move well, when. "
After reading a lot of books, I feel that the explanation is not ideal enough and I don't understand Lao Tzu's original intention. For example, some experts explained that "living in a good place means choosing a place with good feng shui", which is probably going to piss me off.
? Why not change punctuation? During the Qin Shihuang period, many people avoided being killed, and many classics were handed down. There must be different factions formed by different understandings. Homophones must be recorded and sentences must be inconsistent.
Lao Tzu actually said: the key to building a house is to have a solid foundation; Looking at a person's inner world mainly depends on whether his mood is deep, quiet and clean; Communication with people mainly depends on how this person treats relatives and friends differently; A person's speech not only pays attention to his language art, but also pays attention to whether he talks nonsense when he sees people; The evaluation of civil servants mainly depends on whether the local people can live and work in peace and contentment, whether the masses can sigh and whether they can give a thumbs up; A person who can do things or is good at guiding others to do things must have the space and atmosphere to give full play to his talents; All decisions should be put into action through immediate response and continuous follow-up, rather than intermittent and endless.
? The most difficult thing to understand here is that many people's understanding of "benevolence" is still biased and controversial. The "benevolence" of Laozi and the "benevolence" of Confucius are two different things. Laozi said in the fifth chapter of Tao Te Ching: "Heaven and earth are heartless, and everything is a grass dog; Saints are ruthless and treat people like pigs. " It is not difficult to see that Lao Tzu mainly said that the saints of heaven and earth will not treat people, things and things around them differently, and they will treat them equally. This is great love and great goodness. But I'm talking about benevolence here. Why not say "unkind"? Because I know that the communication between ordinary people other than saints is inseparable from "differentiated love", and I will never look calm like heaven and earth and saints. When I say "kindness and benevolence" here, I mainly mean that the focus of communication with people is to be a person with temperature and principles.
? Finally, Lao Tzu said, "There is nothing special about a man's talent." What I'm saying here is not to say that you can't and shouldn't get it, nor to deny people's subjective initiative. We learned a text called "Kong Rong Rangli" before. Later, some people used conspiracy theories to analyze Kong Rong's hypocrisy, saying that he was a liar and a big fool since he was a child, and that Kong Rong wanted to eat the pear and deliberately let his brother eat it. How dare his brother argue with his four-year-old brother in front of everyone? In fact, these keyboard men are talking nonsense. Parents who have experience with children should know that if your son is born sensible, he will often be taught that you should love cleanliness, take the initiative to say hello to their uncles and aunts, and don't eat alone. Children will instinctively know to wash their hands before and after meals, be polite and be modest. Do you think everyone cares about the "pears" of a big official like Kong Rong? Definitely not. What everyone cares about is that children know the behavior of "humility".
The act of "letting" is actually very important. For example, Liu Bei wants to be an emperor. Zhuge Liang led the ministers to find many reasons and collectively persuaded them n times. He attacked on a large scale. In a word, he hopes your family will stop refusing. These are the wishes of the people and the will of God. Then Liu Bei was reluctant to see Zhuge Liang hold a preparatory meeting. Sun Quan wanted to be emperor, and ministers also advised him n times. Cao Cao wanted to be Wang Wei, so he watched Yu Xun settle down on this matter. His ministers advised him n times, but he refused again and again, and he became angry when he refused. Finally, his ministers signed a letter of guarantee. By the same token, when visiting other people's homes, even distinguished guests and experienced people will not take the initiative to sit down. That Yuan Shu is the one who is carried away by power. He became a little rude after winning Cui. He took the initiative to be emperor, and everyone in the world would punish him. The emperor was finally starved to death.
"Concession" and "indisputable" are the gifts of our nation, representing the judgment of the situation and respect for others, and showing a person's modesty and kindness to others.
? Laozi said, "There is no special reason why the talent of the husband does not dispute." In other words, without disputes, there will be no sequelae, no enemies everywhere, everyone is in harmony and their hearts are at ease. If an employee only has leadership, money and power in his mind and subconsciously regards his colleagues as competitors, it is difficult for such employees to have a big picture and sustainable development. If a person hides tens of millions of dollars, but he is afraid to spend it or deposit it in the bank, it is probably a very painful thing to hide his wealth with poverty. He is always afraid that his opponent will catch hold of him and his lover will expose him. How tired he is.