What are the taboos for chatting with my husband?

Many couples talk about their families before going to bed. The average couple will not have any scruples when chatting, and they can say whatever they want. But you may not know that some words sound nothing now, but they will make people feel bored to some extent, thus affecting the relationship between husband and wife! Then, let's analyze it from the perspective of marriage feng shui with Bian Xiao!

man and wife

1. I paid some fees today. Guess how much?

On a gentle night, the relaxed mood and body will become nervous because of this sentence, which will make the other party bored and easily destroy the relationship between husband and wife. At the same time, talking about family expenses before going to bed is also easy to make the family break the money.

Your mother called to nag again.

Complaining to each other that there are elderly people at home before going to bed will increase the pressure on each other, make him feel extremely annoyed with you, and lead to emotional instability between the two sides. In the long run, it will break up the marriage.

Who called just now?

When you ask who is calling with sour tone and provocative expression, it will make the other person think that you lack trust in him, which will easily lead to frequent quarrels between husband and wife and finally destroy the warm atmosphere before going to bed.

Your college classmates have all become department heads.

When you look eager to explain the other classmate's grades, you will let him know that you are trampling on his dignity and make him uneasy, angry and stressed. This will destroy the sleepiness of both parties, which will lead to his reluctance to go home after work every day, and the relationship between husband and wife will also be affected.

5. Is the last transaction over?

When your husband has business problems, if you say this before going to bed, it will not only make him lose money, but also make him angry, and you will think that you are despising his incompetence at work and seriously trampling on his dignity. Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife will be adversely affected.

6. Don't cooperate with someone, you will suffer.

If he plays drums in his heart for cooperation, if you say it before going to bed, it will ruin each other's mood and couples will easily quarrel. If you are impulsive, it is easy to make a wrong judgment, leading to business failure, and it is too late to regret it.

How do you earn so little?

Not liking each other's low income before going to bed will make men's inferiority complex soar. The endless stream of ideas led to his frequent job-hopping and became the fuse of career failure. Therefore, it is best not to say this before going to bed, otherwise you will lose your happiness and your family's wealth will be weak.

I hope my answer is useful to you. Thank you for your adoption.