If you want to have a home, you must build it first. When building a house, we must discuss its structural layout, floor space and geomantic omen. In ancient times, people were very particular about building houses, and they paid special attention to one of them, because there is a saying that "if houses are not matched, the family will lose money", which makes people pay special attention to it. Today, let's see what he means.
First, the ancients took this proverb so seriously. What does this mean?
In this sentence, a word called "Pei" is mentioned. In the past, it was a wing. In ancient times, no house had a first room, a second room and a wing. The meaning of this sentence is that building a house must have a wing, and it must be one east and two west. If you don't look at it this way, it will lead to the loss of the owner's wealth.
Is there really such a magical saying? It turns out that the ancients paid attention to symmetrical beauty in building houses. From now on, we can also see that many ancient houses handed down from generation to generation are mostly symmetrical. In the eyes of the ancients, the round place of the house can be square or rectangular, but it must be symmetrical. They think that the main room should be dominated by one room, and the wing room should be symmetrical.
The ancients believed that a family was prosperous and had many children, but in ancient times, due to feudalism, everyone lived in one house and needed a wing. If there is only one wing and the population is too large to live in, two symmetrical wings will be built on the east and west sides of the house, and the east wing will be given to the eldest son.
The west wing was given to the younger son, thus meeting the population's demand for housing. If the children at home may quarrel constantly because the room is not enough, it may lead to the family falling behind. Therefore, the old saying makes sense, and this proverb can be understood from another aspect.
For example, if a family has a large population, but only one wing is built when building a house, others will think that it is a family, either because it is too poor to build two wings, or because the population is too sparse to use two wings. They don't want to be said that. If they have a big family and are not too poor, they will have wings, so they can't be the mouth of others. They want to have no population and no money.
In ancient times, because the social system and people's thoughts were conservative and feudal, they believed in Feng Shui and some things that Machamp was obsessed with, such as building houses. They think there is gas in the room. If you only see the first room when building a house, you will hold your breath. If the gas is dispersed, it means that the wealth of your family is dispersed, and no matter how much money you have, you can never keep it.
Second, the saying is not unreasonable, but everyone in the family should do their best.
Through the above understanding, we also know what it means to "build a house that is not matched, and the family is ruined." The ancients saw a deeper connotation from the surface of the text through such a sentence, telling us that the family needs to operate. From the beginning of building the house, we need to put a lot of energy into choosing his layout and purchasing the furniture for moving. These are all necessary steps.
And I believe that Feng Shui is only for the sake of family and family members. They all hope that their families can gather together, not dissipate, and they all want to live in harmony with their beautiful families, not be defeated by others. If the family has the conditions, the east and west wings are standard, but if the family is poor and the population is too large to build two wings, then unite as one and build your own small home together.
No matter how many people there are and how few houses there are, we are all family. Why do you insist on this kind of thing? If we unite, everyone will strive to maintain family order. Only by running the family well can the family be harmonious and beautiful. Don't quarrel over trifles. Always remember that a family never talks about two things. As long as we do this, proverbs will be self-defeating. After all, the family belongs to itself, and so does the family.
It can be said that it is cold and warm. How can an old saying decide everything? So we should cherish our family and family.