The rise and fall of a family depends on women. It is often said that behind a man's success, there is always a woman who is quietly paying for him. Women have a lot to do with the prosperity of the family. Many times, the rise and fall of a family depends on women. After reading the following, you will understand.
The rise and fall of a family depends on women. 1 As the ancients said, "Good women thrive for three generations, while bad women harm three generations".
The word "An", with a hijab above and a woman below, tells a man that a woman is home. With a woman at home, a man can have peace in his heart and you can feel warm.
Women are gentle as water, men have good fortune in all aspects, and their families are naturally rich. If women often complain and lose their temper like a dissatisfied wife, men will definitely have bad fortune and their families will naturally decline. As for a woman's temper, on the one hand, it depends on how much a man loves his wife, on the other hand, it depends on whether the husband and wife can work together in Qi Xin, support each other and have deep feelings.
Some people say that the happiness of a family depends on the hostess, and a hostess's appearance and mental outlook can almost judge her family situation. If men are the pillars of a family, then women are the feng shui of a family.
A happy family not only needs men to earn money to support their families, but also needs women to get rid of bad habits, not lose their temper and learn to be gentle.
No matter what people think, a happy family depends on two people, but more on women. A woman who is good at business will naturally make her marriage as sweet and harmonious as love, or even worse, become a continuation of love; For those who are not good at business, love will only fade away in marriage and be replaced or disappeared by trivial things in life;
If we have to discuss family metaphorically:
Family is a real duet. A man and a woman are holding hands on the dance floor and dancing to the same music. The lead dancer is a man, but the one who keeps innovating is a woman. Men have less movements than women, but men are more powerful than women. Without the protection of men, women can't dance beautifully even if they are ever changing. Because the thrilling large-scale jumping performance needs to be based on safety, because the lift performance needs a solid and stable foundation. There is a saying that "women's world belongs to men, and men's world is still men's world."
Now with the continuous development of economy, people's ideas are completely different from those of the older generation, and there are many temptations in the outside world. Now that you have a family, you must bear the responsibility of the family and be bound by it. Don't cross the line for a moment's enjoyment. Men and women don't necessarily feel in love after marriage. At this time, we should find novelty, communicate more and communicate more. Share more. After a long time, the love of two people will not fade.
It is said that a good man is afraid of his wife, so it is easy to have money at home, or at least be well-off! The so-called "fear" does not mean fear, but love, cherish and loathe to give up his wife being wronged. Both men and women should love each other, because that is your life partner. You can drink water in the middle of the night when you are old. Just cough a little, and the other person will serve your sweetheart with warm water.
The rise and fall of a family depends on women. Why do you say "women are the key to family prosperity"? Women who fall into poverty often have these four characteristics!
Likes to criticize her husband
The ancients said, "Marry a chicken with a chicken, and marry a dog with a dog." No matter how you marry, a woman should try not to criticize her husband. You can't do everything if you don't like your husband. Why did you marry him? As long as he is still working hard and fighting for this family, you can't make it difficult for your husband. But in fact, we often see that at home, women laugh at their husbands and feel that their misfortune is brought by this man, as if they have no responsibility at all. In fact, marital psychology believes that a woman who always thinks she is disadvantaged will definitely criticize a man in her life. They feel that the man in front of them is incompetent, and it would be better if they were given another chance to choose. But in fact, when getting married, it is often a perfect match, and no one suffers. Wealthy women are always accusing their husbands, so it is difficult for such a family to flourish. If a husband doesn't feel love at home, how can he be motivated to work hard outside? It takes two hands to make a sound. A husband who has accomplished nothing often has a wife who likes to blame others.
Make trouble everywhere
Some women are always busy. They always want to create some gossip and spread some "rumors", as if afraid of chaos in the world. Make trouble everywhere. In fact, this means that married women must control their mouths. Often, "illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth." He who can't keep his mouth shut is doomed to offend people. Sometimes, because you like talking too much, your unintentional words bring a lot of pain to others. It is no problem to get to know people with an open mind. If there are little people in your life, then you are really finished. As the saying goes, "It is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years; The villain retaliates, from morning till night. " Those women who like to make trouble will always inadvertently attract some villains. A normal family, once targeted by those little people, really has nothing to be happy about. Therefore, women who are not prosperous will always make trouble and cause a lot of trouble to men outside.
A bitter gourd face every day
I remember there is such a story in the ancient book "Night Talk Around the Furnace". In ancient times, there was a good man named Wang, and everyone called her Wang. Once, a middle-aged woman who was often abused by her husband found Wang and told her about her misfortune. She wants to know why her husband is prone to domestic violence after several marriages. Wang looked at the middle-aged woman's face and said helplessly, "You can go home and look at yourself in the mirror. Whoever lives with you will be depressed. " Later, the woman suddenly realized that for so many years, her husband has been arguing with himself and domestic violence, all because of his emotions, and he has been there with this smelly face. Of course, we don't mean that all the contradictions in the family are caused by the bad temper of the hostess, but if a woman in a family keeps showing her bad face to her husband, then such a family can't flourish. In the family, every day, a couple look up and see each other. You have a bitter gourd face all day, as if your husband owed you millions. Then your husband must want to run away from this family. Nowadays, many women are wondering why the husband has to sit in the car for a long time after driving home before going upstairs. In fact, they just want to escape from this family, which has put too much pressure on him.
Cheat on feelings
In marriage and family, the most basic thing is loyalty to feelings. A woman who always wants to develop her secret love outside is definitely not Wang Fu. Mencius' Fish I Want said: "Fish, I want it; Bear's paw is what I want You can't have both. " Many things in the world are like this. You can't have your cake and eat it. It is unrealistic for a woman to want a man's company and make a lot of money. It is also unrealistic to want to develop your secret love and maintain the stability of your family now. Once a woman is unfaithful to a relationship, it's basically over. A woman who is always thinking about developing some secret things will never be proud of the spring breeze. Their attention is always on their own desires, and they never consider how to run a good family. A prosperous family, run by both husband and wife, always does not take home as the center. How can the family prosper?
The Analects of Confucius says, "Choose good and follow it, but change it without mercy." Women should see clearly whether they have similar characteristics of losing their independence and correct them in time. Family is always a person's final destination. Only a woman who cares about her husband, knows how to manage the relationship between husband and wife and encourages her husband can bring good luck to her family.