Everyone wants good luck. However, some people always have bad luck, or are slow and weak; bad luck is worse, and even comes one after another. What is the reason? In addition to numerology factors, the key is that he does not know how to summon good luck and how to reject bad luck.
Regarding how to reject bad luck, some people will tell you many ways, such as: changing your name, Feng Shui, wearing clothes, placing mascots, etc. To be honest, these methods may have certain effects. However, the results are often ineffective and lack sustainability.
The core of truly effective methods is to start from psychology, behavior, and lifestyle. Otherwise, the so-called rejection of "bad luck" will still be empty talk. If you can't get rid of bad luck for a long time, you might as well try the following methods:
1. Accept fate:
What is acceptance of fate is to accept the challenge of fate with a calm heart. Life has its peaks and its lows; the lower the lows, the higher the highs. Because the law of balance determines. Therefore, when faced with bad luck, there is no need to lose heart, and there is no need to waste time fighting against fate. Simply say to fate: "Come on!"
2. Cultivation of the mind:
All things, all scenes, and all phenomena are created by the mind. Prosperity and wealth are the illusions of the mind. In the end, it's all empty, leaving nothing behind. Bad luck and good luck are all your own perceptions. They are neither good nor bad. They are all caused by your discrimination. To cultivate the mind is to get rid of attachments, get rid of discrimination, and observe the true nature. In a word, just go with the flow and don't force it.
3. Forming a relationship:
Forming a relationship is also about following fate. Opportunities are always present and arise everywhere. Once they arise, we must take the initiative to combine them. Whether it's the outer edge or the inner edge. The inner edge is more important. This inner part is the heart, which is the basis and everything else is external. By contemplating and looking into the heart, you are actually using the "ultra-low frequency" of the brain to send out your true voice, thereby changing your destiny.
For example: If a person always thinks about how unlucky he is, he will only become more and more unlucky; he should think of it this way, this is a test; good luck is still waiting for me. Sending positive signals to yourself will not only boost your confidence, but also call for good luck. Because as long as this kind of call comes from the sincerity and has good intentions, it will definitely be answered, because it is determined by the unity of heaven and man and the isomorphism of man and nature.
4. Charity:
Charity is giving. As the old saying goes: Losing money can stop evil. When many people are unlucky, they still hold on to the little money they have, counting on all the traps and fighting to the death, hoping that they can survive the disaster and see the light of day again. But it should be noted: "Since ancient times, everything has been determined, and all calculations of heaven's secrets are ultimately in vain." Be willing to give up, be willing to give up, only when you are willing to give up can you gain something. If you don't know how to give up, how can you get it? Because if you create the cause of equanimity today, you will have the result tomorrow. The reason why you cannot get rich is because you give too little.
Therefore, when you are unlucky, you would rather spend some money to eliminate the disaster. For example: donating money to charity, treating guests to dinner, or shopping. If you still have nothing when you are unlucky, you may end up with nothing.
5. Clothing:
Some people always like to wear fancy clothes. They dress lavishly and have a face, which can attract the attention of others. In fact, wearing luxurious clothes or jewelry does not bring good luck, but it is the most likely to bring bad luck. For example: rich gold, high-end furs, etc. Why? Because a person's merit is limited and measured; if you enjoy it all now, what will you enjoy in the future? When the merit is exhausted, bad luck will naturally come. Besides, in reality, the more high-end your facade is decorated, how can you have friends to help you? It may even make well-meaning and sincere friends stay away from you. It will also attract the attention of villains, villains and villains.
Of course, the clothes should not be vulgar or even sloppy. On the one hand, this will keep oneself in a state of decline and poverty; on the other hand, it will also attract the entanglement of yin objects and spirits.
Therefore, in terms of clothing, whether it is good or bad luck, a person must not be in fancy clothes, not vulgar, be short and moderate, and behave casually and appropriately. Especially in times of bad luck, bad luck, and bad luck.
6. Say less:
It is said that misfortune comes to oneself. If you talk more, you will naturally act less; similarly, if you talk more, you will make more mistakes. You know: When a person is unlucky, it means he makes many mistakes. There is a Chinese saying: "If I don't open my mouth, it will be difficult for the gods to strike." There is also a proverb in foreign countries: "Good words are silver, silence is gold." It's a pity that most people can't help themselves and make many mistakes. Therefore, when you are unlucky, please remember: "A thousand words are worth less than a thousand words."
7. Quiet place:
When someone is unlucky, they are often advised by their relatives and knowledgeable people: Stay at home and don’t go out, lest misfortunes come singly. However, many people cannot bear it anymore, or have to go out for certain reasons. As a result, misfortunes happen and they regret it. In fact, when someone is unlucky, it is best to stay quiet. Just like talking, when bad luck comes, your actions will be more wrong; evil spirits will be entangled.
8. Eat clean:
When you are very unlucky, avoid drinking and overeating. Although you do not need to be vegetarian to atone for your sins, your diet should be mainly light. If it is pure, the mind will be calm, if it is pure, the mind will be at ease, and if it is pure, it will lead to fewer desires. Firstly, keep your stomach clean and healthy, at least no strange diseases will come to your door; secondly, keep your mind clear, so that you will not be deceived and blindly impulsive; thirdly, if you have few desires and few demands, you will not be afraid of the temptation and temptation of others, other people, and other places. With traction, one’s behavior will naturally be upright, moderate, and mean.
9. Give in:
Take a step back and the world will be brighter. When you have bad luck, be careful not to show off your strength or show off your ruthlessness. Because this is both futile and a source of disaster. You have to know that no matter how reasonable you are, it may be that you don’t deserve your fate; it may also be that your fate is not good. From a Taoist point of view, you have formed a karmic bond in your previous life, or in several previous lives, and you owe others. If you owe a debt, you have to pay it back, and once you pay it off, the relationship will end. Even if he robs, embezzles, deceives you, or owes you a debt, there will always be retribution. How could there be any omission?
10. Endurance:
The ancients often said: Endurance for a moment can relieve a hundred days of worries. When you are in bad luck, it is better to lower your head and endure it, and things will pass soon. Just remember: if you keep the green hills, you won’t have to worry about running out of firewood. In fact, from a Buddhist point of view, endurance is also Bodhi. Only by being able to endure suffering that others cannot bear, and being able to endure pain that others cannot bear, can you achieve great achievements. It is precisely after encountering the cause of endurance that there will be the result of tomorrow's achievement. To endure is not to hold your breath, but to accept it willingly; it is always you who are wrong, don't resent others.
11. Rousheng:
When you are unlucky, there will always be a "villain" who bullies and violates you; even if the other person is not a villain, he may have reasons that cannot be explained clearly. In addition to not trying to be strong, you should also try to be "weak" and "soft" yourself. Understand the principle of "conquering strength with softness and defeating strong with weak". Let him be strong, but you must never get angry, angry, or violent; try your best to show weakness to prevent the situation from getting worse. Remember: "One slap can't make a difference", and the same goes for luck.
12. Don’t ask:
There is a poem in the saying that proves it: “If you have no luck, don’t ask God; if you have luck, you can find people; if you ask, you will be rich, and there are endless people in the world.” When you have bad luck, you should bite the bullet and get through it on your own. You should not waste time praying to gods or Buddhas. Because your glory and wealth are actually your own creation. Bodhisattvas, gods, and Buddhas cannot help you accumulate merit; you still need to accumulate good deeds, make good connections, and initiate good wishes. If Bodhisattvas, Buddhas, and gods want to help, they will only help these people; similarly, if you are such a person, even if you don't ask for their help, you should do it without asking, so why bother.