Imagine a child with neat clothes, tidy schoolbag and methodical work. What kind of family will such a child come from?
And the other child is always sloppy and messy. What kind of family does this child come from?
Obviously, the former's family must be clean and tidy, while the latter's family is also messy.
Cleanliness is the best family style in a family.
A messy and dirty family can't raise clean and temperamental children, and a decadent and muddled family can't raise motivated children.
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A chaotic family.
Raise a child who can't go to work quickly
Confucius said, "If you live in the orchid room for a long time, you won't smell its fragrance, but if you live in the gem city for a long time, you won't smell its stink."
A clean and tidy family can nourish children's minds, while a family full of messy things and stains will only destroy children's minds and make children form many bad behavior habits invisibly.
A teacher friend of mine once shared such a thing with me.
There is a very naughty boy in the class. He always forgets his homework and school supplies. It's also perfunctory to ask him to clean up.
Once, she visited a boy's house and was shocked in an instant.
When I opened the door, it smelled sour, and the porch was full of smelly socks and shoes.
As soon as I walked in, I saw toys and articles all over the living room. The dishes in the sink seem to have been piled up for several days, and there are flies flying around in the trash can next to them.
For boys, on the other hand, exercise books and books are spread on the greasy desk at will, and broken potato chips are scattered at the corner of the table.
In a blink of an eye, the boy's father was also sitting on the sofa, casually looking at the mess on the coffee table, and his mother put down her mobile phone and sent a circle of friends, warmly inviting her to have a cup of tea. But the truth is, there is no place to sit down. ...
A family of three lives in such a messy space and is in a mess. No wonder the children are in pain.
Parents are lazy, and children will only be more serious than their parents. They don't know how to clean, they don't pay attention to personal hygiene, and they don't even have a sense of collective hygiene.
As parents, we must cultivate children's awareness of taking the initiative to tidy up things and tidy up the room from an early age.
Not only can children change their carelessness, laziness, procrastination and forgetfulness in life, but they can also enjoy the comfort brought by the orderly arrangement of goods, thus becoming more diligent and active in all aspects.
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Neat family
In order to raise excellent children.
The cleanliness of a family has nothing to do with the rich and the poor, and the attitude towards life has nothing to do with education. But the cleaner the appearance, the neater the house, the more it can reflect a family's outlook on life.
Last Saturday, I went to my friend Aya's house, and their room was very clean and tidy.
The bright floor, the neatly placed shoe cabinets at the door, and the neatly stored living room are all so orderly.
Aya's daughter is doing her homework in the study. I came to the study with a present. When she saw me, she said happily, "Thank you, Aunt."
Between conversations with her, I looked around the study. All the books are neatly placed on the shelves, and the table in the study is also neat, giving people a very comfortable feeling.
I smiled and said to her, "Your house is really clean, not as messy as ours."
She said, "Aunt, I'm used to it. My parents are very clean. They have been strict with me since I was a child. Once, because I didn't fold the quilt when I got up, my mother resolutely refused to let me have breakfast. Later, I remembered. "
At dinner, I said to Aya, "No wonder your daughter's academic performance is so good, which has a lot to do with your living habits."
Aya said: "The more comfortable the living environment, the happier the mood. If the room is messy, we will feel very depressed. "
Later, I learned that Aya often takes time to clean the house. She thinks that our external environment is an internal projection. If you are in a dirty and smelly environment, people will produce negative energy and become very grumpy.
A messy home will also bring ideological confusion, and children will be bored in studying in this environment, and their grades will naturally fail.
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The cleaner the house.
The happier the family.
In a clean room, there is a family blessing and future. Cleaning the house, though a trivial matter in life, can reflect your attitude towards life.
Harvard Business School once did a study and found that successful people with strong happiness often have a very clean and tidy home environment; Unfortunately, people usually live in chaos and filth.
So I groped for such a conclusion: the cleaner the family, the happier the family.
I once watched a domestic TV series in which my daughter Lily hated her mother for many years. She couldn't figure out how her mother had the heart to leave her and divorced her father. Until one day, she came to the home of her mother and her current husband.
Looking at the clean, spotless room and the neat yard full of flowers, she has an indescribable comfort.
In the kitchen, mother and husband wash dishes, help each other and make eye contact from time to time. When they are happy, they dance and sing together. At that moment, she suddenly understood what her mother meant.
Although my mother's current husband is not very rich and his family is not very gorgeous, when they clean up the house together, love is flowing and feelings are communicated.
Because home is not only a place to live, but also a facade to the outside world and a harbor for physical and mental rest.
"Jane Yizhi" said: "Gaotang is the wall, and there is no way to relieve it; The window is bright and clean, and it is safe to sit and lie. "
A home need not be resplendent and luxurious, as long as it has a clean and comfortable living space, it can bring a good mood and a harmonious atmosphere to the whole family.
Only when the family is harmonious can we work harder and concentrate on our studies, because I know in my heart that even if I am tired again, I will have a clean and warm home to rest.
It is said that home and everything are prosperous, and a clean house is the beginning of family harmony. As the saying goes, home is safe and happiness comes.
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A clean family
It is the best feng shui.
Sweeping the floor says: "If your room is messy, dreams and good luck will slip away. If you leave it alone, a messy room will bring you bad luck."
For example, the front door of a house is one of the places that need to be kept clean at home, because all kinds of air will flow into the house from the front door, so it is very important to keep the environment around the front door clean at all times.
There is also a living room, the facade of a home. If even the living room is extremely messy, it is almost impossible to maintain excellent fortune and good fortune.
As a place to rest every day, the bedroom should avoid piling up sundries, which will affect personal gas field and bad fortune. Not to mention the toilet, one of the eight "evil places", the turbid air will bring more bad luck.
China people pay the most attention to geomantic omen, but there is no need to invite them. Clean room, Fu Lushou enjoys wealth. Being in a clear place, with a clear heart and clean things, is the best feng shui in the world.