Can a married daughter go back to her family for the New Year?
Can my daughter go home for the New Year after marriage? Yes, but you'd better communicate with your husband's family. After all, there is a saying that a married daughter is like spilled water. After marriage, the bride will be the man's, so of course, the New Year will be celebrated at the man's house. There is also a saying that the return of married daughters for the New Year will disturb the geomantic omen, so daughters in some places can't go back to their parents' homes for the New Year, especially on the first day of New Year's Day, and they can't go back to their parents' homes for the New Year until after the second day. Of course, if you want to go back, you must communicate with your husband's family to avoid family conflicts.
The taboo of marrying your daughter back to her family.
1, avoid the first day of the first month.
The first day of the first month is the first day of the new year, which is the first day of the new year. New Year's Day is a holiday for family reunion. According to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the New Year's Day. Because in the concept of people in these areas, married daughters are like spilled water, and they need to get together with their in-laws on the first day of the New Year. If you go back to your parents' house on the first day of the New Year, it will cause the situation that your husband's family can't reunite, so it is naturally inconvenient to go back to your parents' house.
2. avoid going back to your mother's house on the fifteenth day of the first month.
The fifteenth day of the first month is also the first full moon day of the year, fearing that the daughter-in-law will not be reunited with her family when she returns home.
So it's usually the second day of the first month and the sixteenth day of the first month. In order to take care of the reunion and celebration of both parties to the marriage. There is a saying in Luyi County that "please (girl) on the 16th day of the first month, and deliver it on the 2nd of February. Don't get sick".
What are the taboos for a daughter to spend holidays at her parents' house?
1, you can't eat at your mother's house. Go back to your husband's house before you light the lamp at night, or you will eat poor.
2, you can't sit at your mother's house, or go back to your mother's house within a month, otherwise it will bring bad luck.
Gifts to honor parents should be in pairs, not singular.
You can't sweep the floor in your mother's house, and you can't share a bed with your husband.
5. Not being able to live in her house for a long time will affect her brother's fortune.