We have to admit that there are many contemporary girls who don't trust their husbands very much in their marriage life. They always have some doubts about their husbands and always have doubts about some things. This distrust is not only in the communication between some partners and friends, but also in money. In such a marriage that you don't trust the other half very much, you are both tired of each other. In fact, the first thing you have to do after entering a marriage is to trust your partner completely. Only by trusting them will they be more optimistic about themselves. At the same time, let yourself be trusted by the other party. If you always question each other without foundation and doubt something about each other, it will only make your doubts more and more serious. Such two people will definitely not get along well.
But what I want to say is that in the face of a love, it is normal to be suspicious, controlling and insecure, because they are part of love. This situation has nothing to do with whether you are good, confident or not, but because you really like her. So don't worry, love is never just sweet and romantic, it also contains all kinds of troubles and anxieties.
So how can we get out of this cycle of love troubles and anxiety and avoid unnecessary troubles? I think what I need most is to keep myself busy and enrich myself in all aspects of life, instead of just living in love. There is a good answer in Zhihu: In love, I am most afraid that one person will be busy as a dog and one person will be idle as shit. Therefore, people who are idle are often suspicious.