Family happiness, quiet years, warmth and happiness.
In the interview, his words were deeply impressed.
He said: Everything I used to do was like going to fight alone. If I win, I will be alone. If I lose, I'll be alone. Now, I have my own home.
This is the ideal home for many people.
Everyone suddenly discovered that the prodigal son had been a father for several years.
What passed away was youth and innocence, and years brought a mature father.
His educational methods are worth learning from parents in China.
Someone once interviewed Edison Chen. Who is more tired, being a boss or being a father?
He said with a smile that being a good boss is too tiring. I would rather be a good father.
Why?
Because he gave all his patience to his daughter.
"I hope that employees don't have to swear for the second time when they make mistakes."
But for his daughter Aleya, he said that "the daughter can be wrong many times, and he will forgive and tolerate."
As long as he works at home, he often works and then goes to accompany his daughter.
At every important moment of his daughter's life, he will be a witness, watching the little man toddler, watching her spit out words with his mouth open and watching her smile happily.
Besides, he will go shopping with his children, watch the fireworks all over the sky and invite friends to spend their birthdays with her.
He must be present at every moment when his daughter grows up.
Recently, Edison Chen took many lovely photos on her daughter's birthday and shared them on social platforms.
He said that his daughter is the baby boss and the princess, and the love revealed between the lines can be seen.
He even encourages his daughter every day: You will change the world.
This reminds me of what Yin Ye, a professor of genetics, said:
My parents' greatest contribution to me is that I am an exaggerated child. He criticized me twice, but because only twice, everything else was a compliment.
This kind of education has always made him confident and believe in his ability.
But many parents like to let their children receive frustration education.
In fact, there are too many setbacks in people's life, and the world of adults is not easy.
Children who grow up in attack and denial have no solid self, and when they grow up, they tend to feel "unworthy" and fall into self-doubt.
Only by giving the child enough love from an early age can she have the strength to resist the swords and shadows of this world.
Let her remain confident and optimistic no matter what difficulties and setbacks she faces.
This is where pet education shines.
Once, Edison Chen was watching her daughter draw.
Although the paper was full of messy colors, he still smiled and didn't stop. Isn't this the world of children?
He said: "I won't ask her to be someone by my own standards, but I hope she can grow up freely to be what she wants to be."
Some people say that Edison Chen is more like "grazing" his daughter. He obeys the child's nature and doesn't stipulate what kind of person she must be.
The prodigal son once gave children the greatest freedom.
What are the children doing in China at this time? Take part in various cram schools, discuss sea tactics, and be afraid of falling behind.
Parents in China want their children to win at the starting line.
This kind of education has brought us into an era of national anxiety.
When I was in college, some people liked playing ball, drawing and singing.
But in society, only rich people like it.
And education has become eager for quick success and instant benefit. Study hard is to find a good job and make more money.
But the purpose of education is to let children be themselves and become the people they want to be.
We should advocate diversified education, otherwise more people will be exquisite egoists.
In China, the birth defect rate of children is 5.6% every year, which will produce thousands of children with rare diseases.
Children are lucky to live a healthy and happy life.
A mother spoke her mind:
When I am pregnant, as long as the child is healthy.
But slowly, with the development of the child, the requirements for him will be higher and higher.
As a monitor, can I get 100 in math? Can you become the top ten in the grade next? Then can I try to get into a famous school?
Can you find a good job and earn more money after graduation?
And many parents forget: at first, you only expect him to be healthy and happy.
When parents put forward more requirements for themselves and allow their children to have many possibilities, their children's lives can be truly happy.
Otherwise, you will live in the anxiety of chasing money and fame all your life.
At this point, Edison Chen did a good job.
Son, I allow you to do anything. Dad just wants you to be happy.
The ideal education is what parents ask of themselves, not of their children.
Example is more important than language.
If this book talks about the sea when it is time to play, children will play games and fall in love when it is time to study.
If you let him do something he shouldn't do too early, the child will have rebellious psychology and seek compensation.
Can't wait for the flowers to bloom, you can't pull out the seedlings and encourage them, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
Like Edison Chen, let her grow into what she likes in her own life.
In Wu Zhihong's words, everyone just needs to be himself.
Except for the thirties who once burst into popularity on the Internet, the film finally moved me the most.
Shanghai Magic Road is bustling and lively, with colorful neon lights flashing in high-rise buildings at night.
In the corner of this city, there is a family of three who make a living by selling pancakes and delivering express delivery.
Go out early and come back late, exposed to the sun and rain, with a dark face and a poor life.
But what you see on their rough faces are smiling faces and hopeful eyes, as if everything in the future can be expected and life is full of hope.
Mother spreads pancakes every day, picks out the eggshells inside at the first time, and then sends them to her son's mouth.
Dad sent a courier, and the money was not much, but he made a picture book for the children.
A child who grows up full of love is a teenager with clear eyes when he grows up. He never felt sorry for himself because of poverty, but was deeply loved and embraced kindness to the world.
Maybe when he grows up, he will gradually realize the sadness and cruelty of the adult world.
But the love from parents will plant a seed in his heart, and one day this seed will grow into a towering tree to protect the child's life.
Just like Edison Chen, his love for children lies in accompanying him to grow up, becoming his critic and giving him enough freedom to be himself.
This is the support of the top rich.
Because when a child's spiritual world is established, he is invincible.