People have just been born, and the road of life has not yet begun. How can it decide people's fate?
What determines fate is how to live and study after birth, and work hard or study in that direction.
Have a better living environment and learning conditions after birth. Lay a good foundation for future development.
But it mainly depends on whether you love learning or not.
A person who loves to learn, regardless of the conditions, persists in learning and eventually becomes a great musical instrument.
A person who doesn't study hard, no matter how good the conditions are, will either become lazy or a dude.
So success has many conditions and influences.
For example, in a poor area, why are so many people admitted to famous universities?
But in general, the enrollment rate in places with good conditions is much higher than that in places with poor conditions.
This shows that the road of human development is complex and multifaceted.
But the most important factor is yourself. People who love learning and persist in learning will generally have a better future than the average person.
A lazy person who emphasizes objective learning conditions is bound to fall behind.
A person with a solid cultural foundation will sell better than the average person even if he doesn't dare to sell meat.
It is basically a truth that knowledge changes fate.
Of course, under poor conditions, the struggle in life will be much more difficult.
On the contrary, if living conditions are good, it will be easier to study and struggle.
Therefore, it forms the illusion that people are born with fate.
First of all, to answer this question, we must understand that life and luck are two separate concepts. Life is innate, luck is acquired, and life and luck together are fate! Then it is obvious whether fate is doomed or not. Life is doomed. For example, whether you are a man or a woman, where you were born, who your parents are, single-parent families are still happy, and wealthy families are beyond your control. This is destiny.
From the time you were born, a great part of the roads you walked, the injuries you suffered, where you studied and worked, etc. can be created through your efforts! This is luck.
In fact, our ancestors are very wise, and have long summed up the experience of fate: one life, two fortunes, three geomantic omen, four virtues and five studies. It is reasonable to think that six people are seven-faced, eight-worshiped, nine-handed and ten-fingered. Although fate is predestined, luck is really in your own hands, and there are certain variables. The problem is, in many cases, what country, city, environment and family background we were born in has a subtle influence on everyone, such as whether we were born in the United States or China, Guangzhou or Sanya, rural or urban, and family conditions. Factors such as whether parents are intellectuals, business tycoons or rural farmers all affect our future life direction to some extent. If nothing else, take reading as an example. Since kindergarten, we have been stratifying the society. When you get to that school, the classmate resources and teacher resources of this school have a certain effect on you. If you study in a key primary school, the learning atmosphere may be stronger than other primary schools, just like junior high school, until the university. The school you graduated from will also affect your future work, not only your work, but also your marriage, right? So, you see, does fate exist objectively?
The answer is yes, there must be a certain fate, so are we ordinary people really controlled by fate all our lives? Actually, it's not. We may not come from a good family, but we work harder than others. We don't complain about things, we are normal and willing to pay. Although we may not have a high starting point, we are confident because of our hard work and strong ability. . . All these will help our career, but they may pay more than others. And those who start high, if they don't work hard, often fail to invest, and may eventually lose everything, right? Therefore, we should be optimistic about fate, admit its objective existence, find our own position and strive for progress.
If you were born in developed capitalist countries in Europe and America, the answer is yes.
But this is China, led by China's * * * production party, with the fairest education system and examination system in the world, and with the Socialism with Chinese characteristics road, which keeps creating miracles. As long as we receive proper education and master the skills that society needs workers to master, each of us has the opportunity to change our destiny. As long as you study hard, you will have a chance to change your life.
The nine-year compulsory education system is a unified education system implemented by the state. All school-age children and adolescents must enjoy the right to receive compulsory education, which is a public welfare undertaking that the state must guarantee. The implementation of nine-year compulsory education means that school-age children and adolescents begin to receive nine-year education without tuition and fees. The state establishes a mechanism to guarantee the funds for compulsory education to ensure the implementation of the compulsory education system. Although there is still much room for improvement in this system, which does not completely solve the urban-rural differences, it ensures that every school-age child has the opportunity to receive education, regardless of nationality, family situation and region. This is the great system of Socialism with Chinese characteristics.
The college entrance examination is a social stratification test that everyone takes in a certain area without looking at your looks or your family background. The higher the platform, the less difficult it is for you to realize your dream; The higher the school level, the less difficult it is to obtain high-quality contacts.
In China, there is never a doomed fate. If there is, fight to the end!
Yes, from the moment you were born, your family decided your fate. Don't wrangle, what many people pursue all their lives is really something that others are born with.
All kinds of habits formed by families aged 0-3 affect your life. Children who learn to walk first must be particularly prone to run and fall when they are young, but they will not be like this when they are older. It is rare for children who learn to crawl first and then transition to walk. Because there is a stage in the development of human body, that is, the transition from crawling to walking, it is the transition process of neuron development that triggers the neural coordination between limbs and brain. Therefore, your whole life has been subtly shaped in your childhood. Later, you use your thinking and habits to deal with the problems in your growth and experience. Family affects one's life, especially childhood.
What are your parents like and what is your family like? Unless there is a particularly big opportunity, we can only take a few more steps on the original basis. You wouldn't say that middle-class families are directly rich or directly poor. It is difficult to break through the circle, which is improved and accumulated from generation to generation.
What is difficult to change is not fate, but family, and what kind of family is doomed when you are born, you can't choose.
So, you mean fate is fixed at birth?
Although many people will say that people's fate is doomed, everyone comes to this world and has only one life. If he accepts his fate, he will not be reconciled. A person can't know his own destiny, just as a person doesn't know his own tomorrow. If people are too obedient to fate, they will only be mediocre and have only one life. Why not try to change their fate? Many great men just don't want to be mediocre. They have gone out of their own way and achieved Excellence. Don't believe that destiny takes a hand, everyone has their own choices, and believe that hard work can be changed. Have confidence in your future, you can.
If you don't want to believe in fate, that is, you don't want to support fatalism, you can think like this: "Although the Big Bang gave the initial elementary particles kinetic energy, the trajectories of some elementary particles are random, and this randomness is also one of the basic laws of the physical world in which we exist. Therefore, although there is a macro trend in material movement, the more microscopic it is, the more inaccurate it is. This random accumulation at the micro level, in turn, affects the stability of macro trends. 』
Life can be seen as a rocket after launch. The speed and direction are set from the beginning, and it seems that the trajectory is fixed, but the rocket can fine-tune its motion direction through the activities of its tail and grid wings.
And a person's life will experience many ups and downs. So I always unconsciously expect a supernatural absolute master to override my own thoughts and arrange everything in my life from the past to the future. In this way, when you are in the most difficult time, you can pray or worship him in various ways in exchange for possible help, which is also the realistic basis for fatalism to easily take root in people's hearts. Man is called the master of the earth, but the exploration of the earth under his feet is only 12km, and the diameter of the earth is 12742km!
Ordinary people worship or not, what are the gains and losses for heaven? Just ants, not even floating dust.
If heaven is unique and lonely, then all beings are equal and insignificant to it! Then it is meaningless that "it" is endowed with divinity. On the contrary, "it" may be unconscious and do everything at will. If the sky is not unique and has its own world view. Then "they" will not pay attention to the joys and sorrows of all living things. For example, an ordinary person should devote his energy to his work and life every day. Although he may occasionally pay attention to how ants carry crumbs when he is idle, and he may sprinkle two more to a lucky person when he is in a good mood, he will not be bored enough to observe and study what all ants are doing all day. Because in their world view, there must be something important to them that needs time to do!
If the beliefs of all creatures are valuable to them, then with its omnipotent power, we only need to show a little miracle every few years, and then we will inevitably live in a world ruled by theocracy. However, China's past history proves that even a country whose population once accounted for more than 30% of mankind has never occupied an absolute dominant position in its belief in gods. On the contrary, the Confucianism of "keeping away from ghosts and gods" has occupied an absolute position for two thousand years.
It's up to you. Let's go
Sometimes, people's fate is their own efforts. But if you work hard, three points are doomed, and seven points depend on hard work. As long as you can study hard, work hard, always keep an optimistic spirit, don't compare with others, and know how to be content. This is your destiny. A happy fate.
When you were born, your fate was really predestined. You can't believe it. Sometimes you have to have it in your life. There is no need to force in life. That's clear enough Heavenly stems and earthly branches, who was born four times, is called four pillars and eight characters, which includes the whole process of a person's life, including marriage, fortune, career, children, fortunes. Of course, some people will sneer at it, disdain it and be superstitious. In fact, they are naturally rejected because they don't understand. Actually, it's totally unnecessary. What has been handed down from our ancestors naturally has its own reasons for existence. If you pay more attention to the people around you, you will find that a person can't stop when he should get rich, but if he is unlucky enough to get up and drink cold water, it is no exaggeration to say that when he is lucky, money will be delivered to his door on his own initiative. If he is unable to get rich, he can't find a way to get rich even if he wants to break his head. Money is not what you want.
Speaking of fate, since ancient times, many Yi-ology masters have been tirelessly exploring, so it will never be something that catches the wind and shadows. Of course, in reality, we can only know our own destiny as much as possible, but we can't rely too much on it. Know your own destiny, just to better follow your own life path. What we want to strive for is to struggle, believe, but don't be fascinated. As long as you are not fascinated, it is either superstition or science and numerology.
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