At this time, I always think of my grandmother. I wonder if she used to rummage through trash cans or pick up some bottles to sell. I only have a sigh. I always miss her very much, especially in Tomb-Sweeping Day or in the seventh month of the lunar calendar. I can't help thinking of her. Sadly, I don't remember any happy clips, photos of her, or photos with her.
My grandfather left early and my grandmother had no money. Every time she goes to my house, she always walks. She walked alone 10 kilometers, 20 kilometers to my aunt's house. At that time, I was still young and didn't like grandma's arrival. I'm afraid she will sleep with me. I am very resistant and disgusted with her. I feel that she is not clean every day, unlike my grandmother and my cousin's grandmother. It was not until I saw her die that I realized that I would never have a chance to pay tribute to her again.
On July Ghost Festival, it is easy to think of those who have passed away. I miss my grandma and grandpa. I have more respect for ghosts since they died. I wonder if there is really a ghost. In a word, I have different views on everything. Be more tolerant of other old people and others. Because we are all a whole.
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Teacher Yan Zi, a Taoist numerology teacher in Taiwan Province Province, said that ghosts (called good brothers in Taiwan Province Province) are not terrible, because we are afraid of these unknowns.
He said that Ghost Festival (called filial piety in Taiwan Province Province) has the following taboos:
1: Less camping in the mountains and seaside after dark, less camping in the west.
2. whistle less at night
Don't get together with friends and talk nonsense, and don't say in a provocative tone that there are no ghosts in the world or ghosts should be shown to me.
Filial piety month did the following:
1: Honor your parents and relatives.
2. Kindness, always with good wishes.
3. Cultivate your ability to feel happy and strong mindfulness.
The teacher said, whether filial or not, we should do the above three things. Ghosts rarely do bad things to people, and ghosts will respect people who are filial and kind. As long as we have strong inner mindfulness, we will not be disturbed. Many times, we dream about ghosts because our psychological frequency is low, or because we have internal pressure and no place to relieve it, so we dream about ghosts creatively in our dreams.
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A feng shui master said that I am a kind person the other day. Although I get married late, I will have a good life after marriage. I don't know if this is a routine or jargon. I was really shocked when I heard the word kindness. Few people say that about me, because I am not a kind-hearted person. My previous photos almost didn't smile, they were all frowning, and the whole world owed me.
Until I was 30 years old, I found that the more I laughed, the better my interpersonal relationship, the better my luck and the smoother my life. It was only after contacting astrology this year that Scorpio was found to be insecure, so it would stick out its thorns to defend itself first, so it always unconsciously put on a "smelly face" when facing strangers. In order to change, I began to smile and sit quietly, and deliberately trained myself to smile from the heart, and my face was the external expression of our hearts. I don't want to live like a dissatisfied housewife for the rest of my life, and I don't want to live a miserable life.
"Wealth belongs to a person whose pocket is full of happiness" says that you are your own good luck, so I hope I am good luck.
Kindness can be to give others a tolerance, a considerate warmth, such as wrapping broken glass, writing a hint, and then throwing it into the trash can; Or drive as slowly as possible in rainy days, and don't splash pedestrians.
No matter to relatives, friends, colleagues, or people who meet by chance, especially the elderly and children, try to give others a smiling face. Although it is difficult to be kind to others every day, I still have to remind myself that being a kind person and a kind-hearted person will bring good luck naturally.
No matter how you treat people who have left or everything in the world, always keep a respectful heart, and good luck will come naturally.
Everything we do will definitely be returned to us, perhaps our children and family. This is the causal law of the universe, and no one is an exception.
From today on, be a kind person.