Don't die without relatives.
The ancient feudal society was very concerned about the inheritance of a family. It believes that when the old man dies, there must be descendants present, so that when the old man leaves, he is sent away, not alone. Old people don't have to worry all the time in the underworld, and their souls can get peace. If the old man dies in front of all his relatives, it is the greatest blessing. According to legend, Bai people think that the old man died in the arms of his children and grandchildren, which is also called "suffering indignities".
The date of the funeral cannot be chosen on a day of mourning.
Heavy mourning can be understood as literal meaning, and heavy mourning is repeated meaning, which means that there has been more than one funeral at home recently. The day of heavy mourning generally refers to the situation that someone in the family or relatives dies one after another within/0/00 days after a person dies, so it is generally avoided to hold funerals on such days to avoid unexpected disasters for family members.
Feng shui taboos related to mourning.
Families with funerals should hang white cloth and white paper on the gate to let people know that someone in the family has passed away, and send a message to relatives in other places or overseas so that children can hear the news and attend the funeral. Among them, it is especially prudent to report the funeral to the relatives in marriage. After the parents died and the date of the funeral was fixed, the dutiful son was going to visit relatives. During the funeral, pay attention to the filial son not entering the house, kneeling outside to salute, and report the news of his parents' death and the specific time of the funeral to his relatives.
You are not allowed to visit relatives and friends during the mourning period.
During the mourning period, children should not visit relatives and friends, have parties, pay New Year greetings, and especially not go to patients' homes, so as not to bring misfortune to others. As the saying goes, "Dress filial, don't go next door." These are some customs of filial piety, and it is best to avoid some behaviors.