2. Most people in China emphasize "buried underground". Burying the urn underground means that the whole process of burying the dead is called burial. After the cemetery is bought, the urn can be buried on the spot, or it can be temporarily stored in the funeral home, and then buried after the cemetery is selected. Because burial is a big event, people usually pay more attention to it. Choose a good date, after relatives, friends and children have arrived.
The urn is not allowed to be taken home, because the ancients thought that taking the ashes home meant bringing back the soul of the deceased. They are afraid that the deceased will be homesick and will not go away, which is not good for the living, so they do not advocate taking the ashes home. Another solution is to communicate with the deceased before the ashes go home and tell them that they will only stay at home for one night, and they will go to a better place to settle you tomorrow.