If the marriage is not smooth, then you will never be happy, never be happy, and even ruin your career because of the unsatisfactory marriage, leaving men devastated and self-defeating.
So for men, marriage is more important than career, marriage comes first and career comes second.
The smooth marriage is directly related to women, and women are also the feng shui of a family. Good women can flourish for three generations, and bad women will destroy three generations.
For a man, marrying the right woman is the key and the most important step in life. Marrying a woman is not only related to the happiness of his later life, but also to the prosperity of his family.
As a mother, of course, I will worry about my son's lifelong events. Every mother will strictly control her son's marrying a daughter-in-law, for fear that her son will marry the wrong woman.
Every mother wants her son to marry a good woman who is kind and virtuous, has a successful career, can take care of men in life, and can assist men in career.
I know a mother who bluntly said that small women in these places can't get married and are not prosperous.
Small pattern, short-sighted, only care about immediate interests.
A person's pattern determines how far he can go, while the pattern of a family will determine the happiness of marriage, the poverty and prosperity of the family, and whether the family can become a noble family.
The pattern of family depends not only on men, but also on men and women. A family with two couples will naturally go far and prosper.
Mother bluntly said that a woman with a small pattern can't marry, and her vision is too short-sighted. She always sees only the immediate interests and never makes long-term plans. When a man marries such a woman, he can only live a small life, but not for long.
Moreover, it will often hinder men's thinking. Because of their small structure, they can't think so much and see so far, so they can't understand men's thinking, and it's hard to agree with men's opinions. It's a stumbling block on men's success, and they will only lose to their husbands and won't be proud of the spring breeze.
Narrow-minded, stubborn, like to haggle over every ounce.
Most women are narrow-minded, calculating, calculating and stubborn. Even with my husband, I will haggle over every ounce in many aspects, and even hide it. It is difficult to devote myself wholeheartedly to men.
I will turn against men and quarrel with men because of a little thing. If I quarrel every day because of trivial matters, what will I do that day? Men are not in the mood to be busy with their careers.
Therefore, when this mother is looking for a woman, she must not look for a woman with a small mind. She is too tired to live a happy life and be a wife. Instead of helping, she will make things worse.
Small-minded women are unreasonable, have a small temper, and like to haggle over every ounce when spending money. She can't bear to let her children hide wolves, spend money and make a lot of money. It is doomed that her man will not achieve much.
Small tolerance, like to turn over old scores, and it is unreasonable.
No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and everyone makes mistakes. Therefore, people get along with each other and need tolerance. Only with tolerance can they get along more harmoniously.
This is especially true between husband and wife. As husband and wife, we should be more tolerant, more tolerant, more understanding and more considerate, so that marriage can be happy and long-lasting.
The mother bluntly said that when marrying a woman, never marry a woman with little patience, because a woman with little patience likes to turn over old scores and make trouble without reason.
It is difficult for a man to love you wholeheartedly when he marries such a woman. If you make a little mistake, she will make a scene with you, don't understand you at all, hold a grudge against you, and her relationship with you will get worse and worse. Even in the end, she won't treat you as a husband at all.
Summary:
Whether a woman can get married depends not only on her appearance, but also on her character and essence, as well as her cultivation, quality and connotation, so that she will not be confused by the beauty of her appearance.
For a man, marrying the wrong woman is equivalent to ruining his life, making it difficult to be happy all his life and even suffering every day.
Therefore, before marrying a woman, you must polish your eyes and choose carefully. Marriage is imminent. If you choose the wrong one, it will be too late to regret it.
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