Rural proverb: "A house can see a grave, and children and grandchildren should find a way to survive." What does this mean?

In ancient times, people believed in Feng Shui. During weddings and weddings, they would invite their husbands to their homes to measure the date and the placement of items.

When a woman gets married, there are certain rules about when she should go out and when she should be married into the house.

After a person passes away, there is also a certain time period for the funeral and where the person should be buried.

In ancient times, people also paid attention to the quality of Feng Shui when building houses. If the site selection during the building period was wrong, it would be difficult for future generations to live in such houses for a long time. Your health will also be affected. Do you know why? The ancients believed that whether the deceased built a yin house or a yang house, the location was unchosen.

As the saying goes, the location of the yin house and the yang house are different. The yin house and the yang house cannot be built in the same location. If this rule is violated, a family will be in disaster.

As the saying goes: "The house can see the grave, the children and grandchildren should find a way to survive." Do you know what it means?

So what will be the impact if people build their houses closer to the tombs? In fact, in the 21st century, more people are building their houses not far from their tombs, but their descendants are still enjoying a long and prosperous life. What is the reason for this?

1. "The house can see the tomb, and the children and grandchildren should find a way to survive."

In this proverb, why did the ancients believe that the addresses chosen for the yang house and the yin house should be separated and should not be too close? This also depends on the location of the haunted house.

When ancient people chose a place to build a tomb for the deceased, they usually chose an area with good Feng Shui and suitable for long-term storage of the body.

The area suitable for long-term storage of corpses has a heavier Yin energy.

People built their houses closer to the tombs, so the houses were naturally built in yin areas.

Living in the same location as the tomb for a long time, because the environment is relatively humid, it is easy to attract some pests, snakes and rats around the house.

If people live in such houses for a long time and often see the appearance of some snakes and rats, this will undoubtedly have an impact on people's lives.

In addition, if a person lives in a gloomy house for a long time, his body will naturally suffer from unhealthy symptoms.

In addition to this reason, people have a relatively superstitious mentality. When they choose a grave for their deceased person, they usually choose a relatively remote location.

And if people build their houses in remote areas, this will undoubtedly keep the people living here away from the downtown area.

As we all know, a person cannot be born in peace all his life, and he may encounter troubles of one kind or another in his life.

If a person lives far away from the city and lives in the mountains, they will not be able to find anyone to help when they encounter difficulties and need help. And because communication tools are relatively backward, if they send letters to relatives and friends There is no postman in hand to send them letters.

The ancients also said that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." When a family suddenly encounters trouble, the people they can turn to for help are their neighbors, and even relatives and friends cannot rush there immediately.

If people live in the mountains without neighbors and far away from relatives and friends, then they can only wait for death when they encounter trouble, but cannot wait for others to come to rescue them. .

In addition to these two points, the ancients were unwilling to build houses in areas where graves could be seen because they were afraid of the dead.

They believe that after a person dies, he will turn into a ghost. If he lives in an area close to the tomb, when it suddenly rains, lightning flashes and thunder, people will undoubtedly have feelings in their hearts when they see the tomb in the distance. Fear Therefore it was believed that when building a house, it should be sited away from the tombs.

2. Do people still follow this proverb when building houses in the 21st century?

Because in ancient times, people believed that people should be buried in the ground after passing away, so in the 21st century , most of the land has become a graveyard for the dead.

There are fewer and fewer areas that can be used to reclaim land for growing food and building houses.

With the advancement of people's thinking, superstitious colors have begun to move away from people's psychology.

Therefore, as long as the area is not damp, does not attract rat snakes, and is not far from a busy city, it is possible to build a house even if the area is close to a tomb.

Therefore, the ancient saying: "The house can see the tomb, and the children and grandchildren should find a way to survive" actually contains a certain superstitious color.

Contemporary people do not build houses according to the requirements mentioned in this saying.

Summary:

As human beings in the 21st century, we have the obligation to pass down the proverbs of our ancestors, but we should not believe all the superstitious truths in the proverbs.

The technology and ideas in the 21st century are more advanced than in ancient times. Even if houses are built closer to tombs, they will not cause harm to people's bodies.

No matter where houses are built, it is advisable as long as the areas where people build their houses are not too spooky and do not attract snakes and rats.