Should the first birthday after death be celebrated?

The birthday on the first day after death is called the anniversary of death, and some tributes should be prepared. In addition, to celebrate the birthday of the deceased, we should pay attention to the following taboos: avoid drinking and feasting; Avoid going to the grave; Avoid marriage; Avoid inviting guests, etc.

The birthday taboo of the deceased.

In China's funeral culture, besides the preparation steps before death, there are a series of taboos after death, such as birth taboos. Birth taboo refers to the birthday of the deceased in the first year after his death. The reason why it is not a memorial day is because it is not a memorial day but a memorial day. When the deceased dies, it is called death taboo after the second year.

The birthday taboo of the deceased.

1. Don't drink and have fun: this jealous day is a day of remembrance and great sorrow, and we can't enjoy it. The content of pleasure includes drinking and feasting. We should eat something light and try to avoid causing a fire.

2, avoid going to the grave: avoid this day is not a sacrifice day, we don't have to go to the grave, we can put a memorial tablet or photo at home, and then put some melons and fruits to pay homage to the last birthday of the deceased.

3. Avoid marriage: Marriage is a wedding date and must be staggered with the day of great sorrow. Therefore, in the funeral culture, it is forbidden to engage in activities such as marriage on the day of death, otherwise the deceased will not be able to sleep peacefully, which will easily reduce the fortune of the new couple.

4. Don't treat guests: health taboos are not sacrificial days, so there is no need to treat people to a big feast, otherwise it will lose the meaning of the sacrificial day, which will lead to the nostalgia of the dead ancestors and affect the feng shui at home and the longevity of people.

How about going to the grave on the birthday of the dead?

In feng shui, it is not recommended to go to the grave on the birthday of the deceased, because that day is not a memorial day. If you rush to the grave, it is likely to destroy the feng shui of the grave, leading to the death of the deceased, the fortune of future generations will also be damaged, and finally the family harmony will be affected. This will not only fail to achieve the purpose of remembering, but also lose the wife and soldiers. This is a very unwise move.