Only when the home is peaceful can the heart be peaceful, and when the heart is peaceful, the career will be stable. A man who cares about his family has always been like a big tree that is calmly absorbing the sun, rain and dew, silently passing through the years. Under infiltration, it will bloom and bear fruit and grow freely?
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On weekend nights, it is the Lantern Festival, the traditional Chinese festival. Outside the window, there are rising lights from time to time. Several bunches of gorgeous fireworks are very beautiful.
After eating glutinous rice balls, I moved to the guardrail of the balcony, held a cup of orange tea, and watched the thousands of trees and lights shining outside.
When I was fascinated by the movie, my friend "Queen of Happiness" called and invited some of our friends to have a dinner at her house at noon the next day.
On the phone, she said excitedly: I have good news for you.
I asked without thinking: Are you pregnant with your second child?
My girlfriend’s laughter like a silver bell came to the other end of the phone. She said: It’s not me who is pregnant with the second child. The one who is still letting nature take its course is our Aqiang, who is pregnant. Second Spring".
I was drinking orange water and almost sprayed it on the azalea leaves. I put down the cup, sat on the sofa and asked seriously: Is this the happy event that Aqiang is pregnant with his second child? If you are anxious about having a second child, you don’t have to actively respond to the man’s call and allow him to have three wives and four concubines, right?
The person on the other end of the phone smiled angrily and said, "When will your head be normal again?" It was when my Aqiang was promoted to the general manager of a Taiwan-funded company in Ningbo. It was the second spring of his career.
This is really a great event. No wonder the "Queen of Happiness" was so excited on the phone. She suddenly remembered that the first spring of her career seemed to have just begun not long ago. Now at the beginning of the new year, The news of the second flower blooming is indeed a joy, and it should be more of an inevitable congratulation.
A man who loves his family and has a successful career is like the stars in the night sky. They are not too eye-catching, but they always shine brightly for a long time.
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Balabala congratulated her on the phone. After hanging up the phone, she couldn’t wait to share the good news with Lao Zhou. He said: Right, I’ll tell her husband that sooner or later If you have a successful career and a man who loves and cares about his family, his career will not be any worse at all!
In the past, several girls in your circle always said that Aqiang, a family man, a family man who loves his wife as much as she lives, a homebody who comes home from work on time every day to buy groceries, would not have a good career that would bring surprises.
In fact, such men are more likely to succeed.
Do you want him to be able to run a loving family wholeheartedly, cherish and respect his wife’s efforts, know how to be a husband who loves his wife in marriage, and know how to be a responsible husband in the process of raising children? Accompany a patient father.
At critical moments, he can also manage the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If such a man were placed in any company, what boss would not like his sense of responsibility, responsibility and ability to deal with problems?
Such a man must be dedicated to his career and be responsible. He must also know how to respect the contributions of his leadership and colleagues, understand his position in this company, and be able to Deal with and resolve all problems that need to be solved, do anything and any role well, and practice your true skills of killing monsters and upgrading.
If your family is stable, your career will be stable, and your life will become smoother and smoother.
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Coincidentally, I remembered a gathering of best friends and they talked about Fang'er's boss.
A 38-year-old middle-aged man runs a medium-sized foreign trade company. He has assets worth tens of millions and owns several houses in prosperous areas in Ningbo.
During the dinner, Xiaojing asked: Such a man must not be able to take care of his family. I heard that in order to have a successful career, men have to sacrifice the family.
Fang'er said: On the contrary, it is precisely because he has a happy family and cares about his family and loves his wife that his career has been rising steadily and the company has made profits every year.
Fang'er has been in the company for more than six years, and she has never seen him need to hand over countless cigarettes before talking about business, nor has she ever seen him need to ask customers to sing a song in the KTV before talking about business. It's okay to talk, and I've never seen him so busy with his career that he doesn't go home.
Doing business depends entirely on the strength accumulated over the years, on an honest and trustworthy heart, and on being notoriously responsible and clean with money.
Everyone in the company knows that their boss is a man who loves his wife and children very much.
For this reason, we should also treat every employee well.
Every day after work, if there is nothing in the office, he will go home early with the boss's wife. If there is something in the office, he will type in front of the computer for a while.
No matter how busy he is, he has to go home for dinner, and no matter how late he is, he still has to go into the children's room to see his son and daughter. If they are not asleep, he will interact and play with the children. If the children are asleep, he will Stay with me for a while and then retreat quietly.
The family often travels home and abroad, and often brings gifts to elders and relatives at home, including people in the company.
Sometimes the boss travels abroad alone and never forgets to bring back his wife’s favorite gift.
Fang'er said: He can still manage the relationship between his wife and his mother. Both of them work in the company. His mother, who is in her 70s, is a financial manager, and his wife leads the business team of a certain department.
There is a clear hierarchy between superiors and subordinates in the company, and we get along harmoniously and happily at home. There was no fight between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in his family.
Became a role model for many young boys in the company.
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Later Xiaojing said: She always thought that a man’s success was linked to the sacrifice of his love for his family. Unexpectedly, a truly successful person would never give up his love for his family. Taking care of family.
He said that in recent years, Lao Pan of her family had learned to smoke and drink for the sake of his career, and even learned to flatter people when appropriate. She complained that he was busy, and he always said that any man who pursues a career Do you have time to take care of your family?
Now it seems that he has not grasped the true meaning of life.
After several years of marriage, I have become a bit more worldly and diplomatic, but I am really too busy to have sex.
Even if he succeeds one day, he is not actually a successful man.
In fact, we all know in our hearts that the Jing family's Lao Pan company has changed three or four times in the past few years, and there is no sign of success in the business.
On the other hand, the men around me who devoted themselves to taking care of their small families all had good business management skills.
After insisting on writing, I met Yu Dad, a successful man who raised boys. He didn’t think it was such a useless thing for a man to love his family and raise his children. Instead, he spent all his time on this. Above, they achieved a happy marriage, healthy growth of their children, and a prosperous career.
Mr. Obama, the recently-retired President of the United States, was a man who once dominated the political arena. If you didn’t pay close attention, you wouldn’t know that he was also a man who deeply loved his wife Michelle and their two children. , is a person who will always be with his family no matter what changes occur.
Because more often than not he is a husband and a father.
There are many people in this world who silently love and take care of their families and are successful in their careers.
Remember what Alan said: If you want to find happiness, you must first store full of joy in your heart.
In fact, the same is true for your career. If you want to get more sense of accomplishment at work, you must first learn to run your small family in a prosperous way, and then you can also run your business successfully.
When a person has the ability to love and the source of joy stored in his heart, has the courage to take responsibility on his shoulders, and has more steady strength under his feet, he will be able to go through ups and downs on the road of life. Here, you will get more surprises.
Therefore, only when the home is peaceful can the heart be peaceful, and when the heart is peaceful, the career will be stable. A man who cares about the family has always been like a big tree calmly absorbing the sun, rain and dew, silently passing through the years. Under the infiltration of water, it will bloom and bear fruit and grow freely.
Stop saying that you are too busy to have sex for the sake of career success, and stop rushing to the club to sing.
Don’t get drunk just because you have nothing to do. In fact, the success you want always belongs to the kind of person who is loving, sober, and self-disciplined.