1, yes, the other half wears whatever they buy.
2. I don't have to buy it, but I will refer to each other when I buy it?
Step 3 don't buy it
From managing the husband's stomach to managing the husband's clothes.
"If you want to keep your husband's heart, you must first keep your husband's stomach", which used to be the sunflower collection of some newly married wives, so it is also the slogan held high by various cooking classes. Of course, it has also helped many young wives to improve their quality of life and interest in life, but "food, clothing, housing and transportation" and "clothing" will always come first. Why? People are noble because they have the aura of heaven and earth, which is the fundamental difference from other creatures. "Clothing" is the expression of this aura and belongs to the spiritual field, while "food" still stays at the material level. In today's society, materials are very developed. How much can food do under your attitude of Excellence?
So let's look at the answer:
1: What you buy is that you and your wife can have a small fight even in 1, 3 and 5, and have a big fight on 2, 4 and 6. It's called a little fight, and a big fight is love As long as you are tired, you can have a rest. Continue after the break. Don't be afraid of the elegant hostess. There is a strong gap between you husband and wife. Of course, the evaluation of the outside world may not be high, and even your best friend may be worthless to you. If you are not confident enough and don't understand the reason, you will still suffer for a while, because you may hate yourself for being so useless and not break up with him after such a quarrel, but I tell you that quarreling is actually your way of communication.
2. Not necessarily, but they will point at each other, indicating that your husband and wife have a good relationship and you will argue. That is to find a solution to the problem. You have different personalities. You usually endure it, sometimes it hurts a little, but not too much. You will communicate with each other, compromise and finally hold hands.
3. If you don't buy it, there are two situations. One is that you have bought it, because the other party doesn't like it, or he doesn't wear it, so you don't buy it anymore. This situation is very dangerous. We both have needs, but if we can't meet them, we will solve them ourselves. The wife began to buy for herself or her children, and the husband began to shop for himself. Usually, the husband in this situation must be a beauty lover, but the aesthetics of the two are different. The second situation is that they never want to buy for each other. This situation can be divided into two types. One is that there are fewer modern societies. Their marriage was not their own will, and there was little emotional communication between them. Two people just live together. Both sides of this marriage will be very rational people. It doesn't matter whether they are rational or not. Maybe their marriage is envied by others, but marriage is like wearing shoes. Whether they are comfortable or not, only they know. The other is easy to happen in the contemporary golden collar class. They put all their energy into their work, and when they are on a business trip, they will also take time to get clothes for themselves for a year. When my husband wants to add clothes, they never think about it. Eating and sleeping together may also be the main task of communication. Occasionally, what happens at home, as long as money can solve it, is a disaster. Once this marriage goes wrong, the one who is fully committed to work will be caught off guard, and then why? Why? There was too much confusion, too much unwillingness, and too many property disputes until I was unwilling to work.
How to manage couples' emotions through clothing
In my course, there are many cases of judging the feelings of husband and wife through clothing. Once, there was a young lady in my class. She belongs to her husband and bought it for her. She never used it because she didn't like it. After listening to my class, she found it so right. There are great personality differences between them. In fact, every time she goes abroad, her husband buys her expensive clothes and scarves, but she never wears them. After listening to the class, she knew that it was actually a personality gap. The next day, I took my husband's clothes and scarf to class and let me judge his character. Under my guidance, I made some changes and modifications, and both clothes and scarves were used. Later, he called me and told me that her husband was very happy and thanked me.
In fact, there is a saying in the quotation: "Imaging is in the sky, forming is in the ground", that is to say, as long as anything is tangible, it must have its symbolic meaning, while clothing is tangible from color to style and even fabric, so it must have its meaning. A person's love for something is a projection of his inner needs. According to the Book of Changes, it means that the outside is Yang, the inside is Yin, and Yang is a whole, so we can judge the inner character by appearance. Just like a person who likes plaid, his personality characteristics must be different from that of a person who likes cartoon patterns. One is rational and conservative, and the other is curiosity about the outside world. There is almost no insecurity in his world.
The significance of feng shui in clothing
Clothing feng shui allows couples to get to know each other subconsciously, and it is normal for them to have different personalities. Any two people are like two leaves that can never be exactly the same. If you are aware, you can at least understand the cognition under different personalities, and the decision must be different. In this case, the husband and wife will not stand in their own perspective when buying clothes from each other, so they will not have different opinions and become strangers in the same life. Of course, if their personalities are completely different, they may be uncomfortable, but it is necessary to know that the formation of a personality is related to its long-term acceptance of certain energy, so the change of clothing energy is also one of the methods. Through the use of various qualities, we can gradually draw closer to each other, at least towards each other, so that a happy family is not far away.