Zhou said: "It is instinct to find fault with people close to you, but it is an education to overcome instinct and not find fault with people close to you." Be alert to instinct and cultivate education. "
Temper is instinct, and restraining it is skill.
No matter how much pressure there is outside, it is a rare achievement for a person to be cheerful when facing his family.
Li Jing, the host, told the story of his own business.
When she just resigned from CCTV to start a business, she had a miserable life because of her lack of experience.
Li Jing recalled: "Those years were too hard. At most, I owed more than 2 million. "
At that time, she carried millions of debts every day to pull investment and accompany advertisers to drink and socialize. Then, I rushed back to the company for a meeting to catch up with the program planning and production. ......
In the early days of starting a business, life was very hard and difficult. She has been drunk several times, collapsed and cried.
But she never brought the pressure from outside home. Instead, dry your tears at the door, adjust your mood, and then walk into the house.
She entered the house in different ways and dealt with the negative emotions outside in advance. What brings to the family is harmony and peace.
Today, Li Jing is a woman entrepreneur worth hundreds of millions, but no matter how busy she is at work, she still sets aside one day a week to reunite with her family.
The most correct way to treat your family is to leave your bad mood outside the door and go home happily.
Like this sentence: "don't just give courtesy and respect to strangers;" Don't leave your temper and temper to those closest to you. "
Leave your good temper to your family, and you will get along well with them.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Only at home, being an official or a leader outside, will there be no worries; Only at home can we talk about Kan Kan in front of colleagues and subordinates; Only home and peace can be blessed. "
Blessed land, blessed people, blessed people, blessed land. A harmonious family is a haven for everyone to rest and bring prosperity to the family.
In fact, being kind to your family is the best feng shui for a family.
Please be kind to your family for the rest of your life.
In The Analects of Confucius, Xia Zi once asked Confucius, "What is filial piety?"
Confucius' answer is: "color is difficult."
The hardest thing in life is to be kind to the people closest to you;
Everyone's growing environment is different, so everyone's personality and temper are different.
It is inevitable to get hurt when growing up, but this cannot be an excuse to criticize your family.
No matter how life treats us, we should cultivate ourselves and respond to our families with smiling faces.
Hu Shi once said: "The most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face, and the worst thing in the world is to show an angry face to your family, which is worse than beating and cursing."
A truly educated person knows how to leave good emotions and attitudes to his family.
Being kind to your family is the best education.
Life is long and short. May you and I treat our families kindly and gently.