Chinese custom is to visit graves during the Qingming Festival. Graves cannot be visited if they are less than three years old. But some people, alas, don’t know this truth and don’t know what is going on, so they just say Can I go to the grave or not? So today I will talk to you about this topic.
As for the breaking of soil and the addition of soil, they are actually two different things. Everyone must make a clear distinction between breaking ground and adding soil. It is the soil in this place that digs it up and digs it away. This is called breaking ground. As for adding soil, we need to get some soil and add a little soil on top to make the tomb look farther and fuller.
Why can’t a monument be erected? Because erecting a monument will disturb the grave and dig around. Another point is that these three years are also a test. If the family is very smooth and prosperous all of a sudden, then don't bother with it. , because if you erect a monument, you may have changed its orientation. If the past three years have been very bad, there may be a problem with the feng shui of this place. Secondly, there may be a problem with the orientation. If there is a problem with the feng shui, consider moving the tomb. If there is a problem with the orientation, , we can change by erecting monuments.
The past three years are actually a period of feeling, which is to feel whether the family has been going well or not since the death of a family member, because many of us know this situation.
That’s why many people who work in shady houses eventually end up with their children getting worse and worse. Each generation is not as good as the previous one, or their lifespan is shorter. Why? Because he soon exhausted all his own blessings. We see many people who are yin otakus. You can see that their faces are darkened and their yin energy is particularly strong.