How are the post-95s doing now?
Feng Shui has turned, and the army urging marriage is now approaching the post-95 generation. Yes, we have reached the legal age for marriage. The post-95s who were once not that big in the eyes of others are now stepping into society one after another. Although they have reached the marriageable age, how many people dare to get married? Born in the late 20th and early 21st centuries, people once called the successors of socialism. How are you doing now?
I personally feel deeply about social phobia. I am a typical Capricorn. Browsing Zhihu, you will find that many people have social phobia to a greater or lesser extent. Don’t dare to speak in public. Even if you don’t agree with others, you don’t dare to express your opinions. You can say anything in front of familiar people, but even saying hello in front of strangers requires a difficult psychological struggle.
As the saying goes, people must have goals and dreams while living. Yes, everyone should have dreams, but how many people are willing to take practical actions for their dreams. You can only become a "great" idealist by just talking but not doing it. Real dreams require you to take down-to-earth actions to fight for them. Whether you are high or low is not a matter of difficulty for you. It is just that you think you are suitable for something better. But for ordinary people without a strong family background, if we want to get the best, we must first become the best. There is no shortcut to success, the truth is hard work and hard work. We can't compete with our parents, we can only rely on ourselves!
Tired, due to the popularity of Douyin short videos in the past two years, many ordinary people have begun to share their experiences. You will often see "I am too difficult", and you will see people from different walks of life. Life is not easy. Yes, it is not difficult for ordinary people nowadays. You can see the office workers hugging each other and crying in the subway station. You can see the young people handing out flyers on the roadside in the cold wind. Life is not easy, and everyone is struggling. Fight hard. There was such a statistical report on the Internet some time ago: 1 in every 25 people in our country suffers from depression. There are many causes of depression, and I think most of them are caused by excessive pressure from family, work, and life.