As the old saying goes, ill-gotten gains are troubled, and poverty is enough.
A wealthy family will gradually decline if disputes continue; Poor families, if peaceful, can also cultivate excellent Feng Shui.
The rise and fall of a family depends on management. Relatives are not harmonious, and the good news is not good.
Domestic friction is often more terrible than poverty.
0 1 A harmonious family is more kind than temper.
Read such a story.
A couple runs a bakery. Because they are too busy with business, they will lose their temper at the slightest sign.
On one occasion, two people quarreled as a bee. The husband waved a kitchen knife and excitedly shouted to his wife:
"You have to argue with me about everything. If you do this again, I will be rude to you! "
Not to be outdone, the wife replied, "Come if you dare, I don't want to live anyway!" " "
Seeing that the two were about to start work, someone shouted, "Come and see, there are many free cakes here, come and get them!" " "
As soon as the couple listened to Ji Yan, they hurried to protect their shop.
The man just said, "Anyway, one of you wants to kill and the other wants to die. What's the use of keeping these cakes?"
After listening, both husband and wife fell silent.
There is an old saying, "There is longevity in a harmonious hall, and people in a harmonious family are more precious."
A rich family is often more kind than temper.
The best feng shui in the home is a harmonious atmosphere.
Only when there is harmony at home can everything prosper.
A happy family is more grateful than picky.
Someone said, "The most difficult company in the world is a family, a difficult relationship, and a husband and wife."
Between husband and wife, if there are only accusations and complaints, without warmth and understanding, feelings naturally have no foundation.
A while ago, my cousin came to me with a runny nose and tears and told me that her cousin was clamoring for a divorce.
But in my opinion, an honest man endured for several years before his uncle's middle-aged rebellion broke out.
Cousin has always been strong, others have it at home, and she must have it. Cousin's salary is almost used by her to dress up.
After the two children were born one after another, my uncle advised her to scrimp and save, but in exchange for her aunt's sarcasm: "If you can earn more money, how can I search like this?"
Cousins also complained about her honest and incompetent husband on various occasions, saying that she was in her prime and was blind to marry this man.
Over time, my uncle's reputation for cowardice and incompetence spread.
In fact, my uncle has worked hard in recent years, driving trucks, transporting sediment and going out to work, but he tried to earn money to support his family, but all he got was belittling and accusing.
After a long time, the two finally divorced and a family was torn apart.
I have read a passage: "When two people get along for a long time, good things and bad things will happen, and I can't stand repeated complaints and depressed family atmosphere. After soaking for a long time, it will be relaxed and relaxed. "
You know, the most terrible thing for a family is not poverty, but internal friction.
Finding fault with everything will only make your partner chilling; Only by being tolerant and considerate can we live a harmonious and happy life.
The reason why a family is harmonious and happy is that both husband and wife have the wisdom to manage marriage.
Marriage is not a competition, it needs two people to help each other in the same boat, and the family is not a battlefield, so it is not necessary to defeat the strong with the weak.
If you criticize everything, your life will only get worse. If you know how to be grateful and considerate, your life will flourish.
A prosperous family supports more than complains.
Someone once asked on the internet, what is the root of a developed family?
Someone replied that if there were less complaints between husband and wife and between father and son, and the family supported each other, life would be better and better.
There is a cloud in the Book of Rites: "Father and son are faithful, brothers are harmonious, husband and wife are harmonious, and the family is fat."
Only by mutual support and understanding can family businesses flourish.
Zeng Guofan took the exam seven times in a row before winning the top prize, but Zeng Guofan's father never scolded him.
Zeng Guofan not only failed in Beijing, but also spent all his money. Rao did it. Zeng Guofan also borrowed one hundred and twenty pieces of silver from his father's friend and bought a set of twenty-four histories.
One hundred and twenty pieces of silver was a lot of money at that time, but my great-grandfather said, read these books carefully and I will repay your debt.
With his father's unconditional support, Zeng Guofan can concentrate on it and become a generation of saints.
There is a saying that husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken. In fact, the unity between families is the same.
Don't complain when something goes wrong, but shoulder everything together. Such a family, no matter how poor and difficult it is, will make a fortune.
A stable and harmonious family is a person's most certain happiness.
Less blame for relatives, more sorry; Less temper and more kindness.
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