Families with this feature usually have a hostess with a high level of business, who creates a warm living environment for her family with her patience, gentleness and kindness.
A woman's mouth determines the feng shui of a family. Both success and failure are related to this, so don't ignore it.
1. Smart women will think twice before speaking, and women with low emotional intelligence will call a spade a spade.
If you don't open the door, everything goes out. This is not a kind of frankness and frankness, but a mindless idiot behavior.
Some things can only be known by members of your own family, so-called? Wash your dirty clothes in public? , like the contradiction between family members, some secrets of the husband's family that are not known to outsiders; The less people know about the family's finances, the better for the family. When you speak ill of your family, all you can get is temporary pleasure and catharsis, but when you listen, that is the front end and the beginning of family conflicts.
Once it reaches the ears of your family, it is impossible to consider peace. Zhizhi Dong will understand that smart women will think twice before speaking, and women with low emotional intelligence will call a spade a spade. Whenever they touch their own family, or others want to hear the comments and opinions of another person who is not present from her mouth, she either laughs without a word or chooses the right words.
In this way, no one will offend anyone, nor will they keep their secrets, so they rarely cause resentment from their husbands or conflict with their husbands.
2. How to talk to your husband determines the atmosphere of a family, whether it is good communication or constant criticism.
What's more, she told her little sister who asked her for experience that how to talk with her husband also determines the atmosphere of a home. Whether it is good communication or constant criticism, the final result is the opposite.
Especially outside, she never quarrels with her husband. Even if she doesn't agree with what he said, when she is alone at home, she will calmly express her views.
A husband who has a good face outside will also thank his wife for this, and then communicate with him, so that he will be more rational and calm, and generally can achieve satisfactory results for both sides. And those women who don't forgive others, regardless of the occasion, win their husbands, but they may lose their feelings, patience and respect.
A man is born to care about face and walk outside the society. His image is his business card. If even his wife doesn't respect him, others will think he is timid and worthless.
Your behavior has also hurt his social and career development, and the negative impact is so great. Do you think you can stand it for long?
3. Whether to encourage or scold the child determines the child's character.
Couples will naturally have children after they get married. Another key to family harmony is whether children can be raised well. Because of in our nature, when the children were young, Otawa's mother spent more time together. As a mother, whether this woman usually encourages her children or scolds them determines the direction of their future personality development.
Zhizhi Dong said that she never quarreled with her husband in front of the children. The warm and loving relationship between them gives them the greatest sense of security, which will make their personalities very cheerful and lively and help them establish a sound personality. When treating children, she generally adopts the method of less praise and more encouragement, which will strengthen their confidence and make continuous progress, and will not cultivate complacency.
As for these rude ways of beating and cursing, she never uses them. When children make mistakes, they can appropriately criticize education or do housework, study, prohibit watching TV, playing games, etc., so as to make children feel uncomfortable? Punishment? It will cost him a lot to realize that his behavior is wrong and will not be tolerated. Price? I won't go into details in the future.
Beating and cursing will damage children's self-confidence, increase their rebellious psychology, and also lay hidden dangers for their future development and the atmosphere of the whole family. Clever as she is, she will not try.
It seems that women are naturally more talkative than men. They like to express their ideas and try to interfere and manipulate each other in this way. But most men can't stand their wives' nagging and complaining all day, especially talking about themselves regardless of occasions and occasions, which will successfully arouse their disgust.
I can't imagine such a pattern of husband and wife getting along. After a few decades, there will be no problem. Let's just say that this person has super endurance. It's possible.
As a woman, I know that my mouth is my feng shui. If she closes it tightly, she will keep her warm and happy. If she overflows wantonly, she will set off a huge wave and eventually drown herself in it.