Ten taboos for grasping the week: avoid putting sharp objects, fragile objects, favorite toys of the baby, determine the date, prepare the items, arrange the scene, change new clothes, grasp the placement direction of the items, grasp the skills of grasping the week, and don't be too serious.
1. Avoid putting sharp objects
When the baby is grasping the week, we must pay attention to avoid putting sharp objects. First, sharp objects are easy to accidentally hurt the baby, and many babies are full of curiosity about these things; Secondly, sharp objects are also easy to destroy the feng shui gas field, which is not conducive to the baby's grasp of the week, and will eventually affect the accuracy of grasping the week.
2. Avoid putting fragile items
Many people think that babies have no strength, they are very petite and don't use too much force, but this idea is completely wrong. Although babies don't have sharp tools as adults, their strength is not so small that they can be ignored, so we must not put fragile items, so as not to cause babies to scratch them when grasping the week, thus endangering their personal safety.
3. Avoid putting your baby's favorite toys
In order to ensure the accuracy of the results of grasping the week, we must pay attention to choosing things that the baby has never seen before when placing things, because the babies already have preferences when grasping the week, and if we put things that they like or dislike, it will seriously interfere with the results of grasping the week.
4. Determine the date
You need to choose a better date to catch the week, so you should determine the date before holding the ceremony. Generally, grasping the week is held on the birthday banquet. If it is the baby's birthday, then grasping the week is also on the same day. Some parents will specially choose weekends or auspicious days to hold a one-year-old banquet, so the grasp of the week has also changed.
5. Prepare the articles
Parents should prepare the articles they need in advance, such as the red cloth laid below, as well as the abacus, books, buns, mallets, brushes, rulers, spoons, rattles, gourds and so on. You can also put some other moral things according to your own preferences.
6. Layout the scene
Put the things that grasp the week on the red cloth in a semi-circular shape and put them in front of the baby. Generally, ten kinds of articles will be placed, and one hundred yuan of money, toy cars and the like will be put in. In fact, now the items are relatively novel, and some will put tablets, apples and the like.
7. Change new clothes
The baby should change into new clothes to attend the birthday party and the wedding ceremony. Prepare a safe comb, and the mother will comb the baby's hair with the comb in the morning. When you comb your hair, you can sing the song of combing your hair, that is, "one comb is wise, two combs are rich, three combs are skillful, four combs are popular, and five combs and six combs make a good baby with a long life."
8. Placement orientation of Zhou Zhou articles
Whether placing Zhou Zhou articles on the table or on the ground, you should pay attention to the fan-shaped uniform arrangement. You can choose to arrange the articles in order of importance, and place them from the middle to the sides in turn. What parents most want their baby to catch is placed in the middle of the fan.
9, grasp the skills of the week
Before the formal grasp of the week, it is best to let the baby browse the placed items first, and you can tell the baby the names of the items one by one, so that the baby can have a general understanding of all the items before starting to grasp the week.
1. Don't be too serious
Grasping the week is like fortune telling, mainly for good luck. Parents should not take the results of grasping the week too seriously. The achievement of a baby's growth depends on the parents' example education and their own efforts. It is not just a simple grasp of the week that determines the fate of his life. It is better to just regard grasping the week as an interesting experience in the baby's growth process.