What's so particular about giving gifts?

Question 1: Do you pay attention to gifts? Seventeen commandments of gift giving

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1. Know the taste of others. You know, giving gifts is not to make yourself happy, but to make others happy. Anything that tests the taste of others can't be used as a gift.

2. Not including motivation. We should try to avoid some innuendo and meaningful gifts.

3. The new is always good. Because no one likes to accept second-hand goods.

4. Don't buy "useful" gifts. This advice is especially applicable to men who only know how to buy household items for women they like. Practical gifts not only have no imagination, but also have no brains. You should remember that you are giving a gift to a person, not to this family.

Whether your gift is 3 yuan or 300 yuan, tear off the price tag first. Sending a clearly marked gift seems to remind the other party how much my gift cost. Are you expecting a return? Or do you want to do business with equal exchange and value for money? It is usually considered impolite to put a price tag on a gift. For you who want to express your thoughts, this is also unwise.

6. Choose the packaging carefully. Gift giving is different from personal use. Good content is important, and good form adds luster. The principle of giving gifts is to choose beautiful packaging as much as possible.

7. Relatively speaking, it is always simple to give a woman a gift. There are many odds and ends in a woman's life, which are good choices for you to give gifts. Women's natural daughters, wives and mothers can be greatly catered to in giving gifts.

However, it is unwise to give women clothes. Don't say that there are so many colors and styles that it is hard to figure out. The key obstacle is body shape-losing weight is troublesome, but gaining weight also bothers her: do I have this n piece of fat?

9. Seize the gift-giving opportunity. There are many opportunities for giving gifts. We can only give one person a birthday present once a year, but nothing can stop us from giving "non-birthday" gifts at other times. For a long time, non-birthday gifts have been responsible for enhancing feelings, soothing broken hearts and repairing broken friendships.

10. I like your gift. If you don't even like gifts, you shouldn't let others accept them.

1 1. Make a new meaning. It's really the most troublesome thing to give a gift to someone who is not interested in anything or wants nothing. You might as well use your head and invite him (her) to give a very attractive performance.

12. Choose a practical gift according to the recipient's occupation.

13. Measure the reasonable price. This gift is disrespectful, because it is too cheap. In fact, the value of a gift should be measured by the relationship between you and the recipient to avoid embarrassment.

4. Personalized gifts. Homemade gifts are unique in the world. It will express your thoughts.

15. It is said that ties and belts are not suitable for men unless you are close to him. Because these things are bound to each other. By analogy, it seems inappropriate to give a woman a necklace, let alone a ring.

16. Gifts should be between practical and impractical. For a master scholar, a book may be better than any N books, but there are fewer and fewer elegant people. However, gifts are gifts after all and should not be practical.

17. Avoid sending fresh goods. Even if you give gifts to housewives who love to cook, it is best not to give chickens, ducks, fish and vegetables. Not to mention the difficulty of preservation, its characteristics of making it into a gift and eating it when imported will greatly reduce its significance as a gift. By the way, you should pay attention to the shelf life when sending nutrients, food and cosmetics, otherwise it will be embarrassing.

Question 2: What taboos should we pay attention to when giving gifts? What gifts can't be given to 1 and wallet?

Giving a wallet usually means that you give your money Ku to someone else. Any friend who gives a wallet, think for yourself. Will it be unlucky afterwards? Still serious? Or can't the money collected be recovered in time? Remind you to send your wallet carefully. Of course, there is usually no big problem between husband and wife and lovers, because there are skin-to-skin blind dates and congenial feelings.

2, can't send a sword

Some friends like to give others a "peach blossom sword" to let others cut off the rotten peach blossoms. As a result, they robbed a lot of their own peaches. Some friends bought a set of kitchen knives and forks for others when they saw happy events such as relatives and friends moving or getting married. Strangely, their wealth has plummeted since then. Be careful with the sword. Besides, when someone gives you a sword, you should also accept it carefully.

3, can't send "God of Wealth"

When a friend opens a shop or does business, his relatives and friends will give him the "God of Wealth". In fact, from a geographical point of view, you should be careful to make a fortune, otherwise your fortune is likely to stagnate; Of course, the receiver should also pay attention. Usually, the Buddha has to go to the temple to invite him, but he can't invite him at will, nor can he accept money from others at will. Otherwise, both the sender and the receiver will cause problems such as wealth.

4, can't send fish tanks

A friend asked Dr. Zheng to look at the feng shui of the house. Why is he unlucky after he has a fish tank? It turned out that she didn't know that the fish tank was similar to the "God of Wealth" and could not send and receive it at will. What's more, some people are afraid to raise fish, so fish tanks can't be sent at will. Putting a fish tank should be suitable for you first, and then it is related to the shape, laughter, position, height, quantity, type, quantity and color of the fish tank.

5. You can't send the clock.

Some people say that you can't send a clock because the clock is the last homonym. Sending a clock to a person is tantamount to expecting a person to die. Besides, the watch belongs to Zhong Ke. You see how many corrupt officials have lost their horses and even ruined their lives because they put on the brand-name watches of bribers.

6, can't send shoes

Shoes are the homonym of evil. Therefore, giving away shoes (excluding those for relatives) is tantamount to giving away evil spirits, and it is very likely that we will soon lose contact or friendship with each other.

7, can't send an umbrella

Umbrella is homophonic, therefore, umbrella can't be given as a gift (not including sending umbrella in the rain). If a good friend gives an umbrella as a gift, it means that we will break up or separate in the future.

8. You can't send pears to send plums.

Pear and plum are separate homophones. Giving these two fruits away means that there is a danger of separation in the future!

9, can't send candles

Candles are used to sacrifice to the dead, so they can't be given as gifts.

10, can't send dolls.

Things like dolls and masks belong to villains. If left at home for a long time, it is easy to bring back evil spirits and bring anxiety to the family.

1 1. Don't give stones and antiques of unknown origin.

Stones and antiques attract evil spirits easily. Some look like ornamental stones and valuable antiques, but they may be accompanied by evil spirits, which is unlucky.

12, no pillow

Pillows are a necessity for everyone at night, but if you give them away at will, it means that you will have fewer days to sit back and relax. On the contrary, troubles will follow, so you should give them away carefully. However, there are no obstacles between lovers.

Question 3: Why not give gifts in the afternoon? What's more, there is no time to pay attention to gifts. If you look at patients who are recuperating at home, it is not good to look at patients in the afternoon, because the average person's resistance and spirit in the afternoon are not as good as in the morning, so it is better to look at people in the morning.

Gifts should consider specific situations and occasions. Generally, when you go to a private family for dinner, you should bring some small gifts to the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, local products and so on. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. Invited to the wedding, in addition to artistic decorations, you can also send bouquets and practical items. In New Year and Christmas, calendars, wine, tea, candy, cigarettes and so on can usually be given away.

Grasp the timing and method of giving gifts.

Gifts should generally be delivered in person. But sometimes you can attend the wedding and send it in advance. Celebrating festivals and giving annual gifts can be delivered to your door or mailed. At this time, the business card of the giver should be attached to the gift, or the congratulatory message can be handwritten and packed in an envelope of the same size. The recipient's name should be marked on the envelope and pasted on the top of the gift package. Usually, it is not appropriate to give gifts to only one person in a group in public. Because the recipient will feel fooled by accepting bribes, and it will make the person who confiscated the gift feel left out and despised.

Don't give gifts to close people in public, so as not to give the public a feeling that your close relationship is completely supported by material things. Only special gifts that are light in ceremony and heavy in righteousness and express special feelings are suitable for giving in public. Because at this time, the public has become the witness of your sincere friendship. Like a special souvenir.

Pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts. Peaceful, friendly, natural and elegant movements accompanied by polite language expressions are acceptable to the receiver. The practice of quietly putting gifts under the table or in the corner of the room like thieves not only fails to achieve the purpose of giving gifts, but even backfires. In the general habit of our country, when giving gifts, I always say too modestly, "Little gift! Thin gift! " "It's just a little something" or "I'm sorry ..." It's best to avoid this practice. Of course, if you say "this is a very valuable thing!" in an almost proud tone when giving. When introducing gifts, we should emphasize our kindness and kindness to the recipients, rather than the actual value of the gifts, which is also inappropriate. Otherwise, it will fall into a situation of valuing ceremony over righteousness, and even make the other party feel that they are taking bribes.

Giving gifts to people, things and places is one of the norms of social etiquette, and the choice of gifts should also meet the requirements of this norm. For different recipients, the choice of gifts should be treated differently. Generally speaking, for the poor, it is still affordable; For the rich, exquisiteness is better; For lovers, lovers, lovers, it is better to commemorate; For friends, fun is better; For the elderly, it is better to be practical; For children, it is best to innovate; For foreign guests, it is best to have characteristics.

For example, there is a common saying in China called "yes man". Therefore, all gifts for big congratulations and great joy are always taboo, but the even number "4" is taboo in Guangdong, because in Cantonese, "4" sounds like "death" and is unlucky. Even the best white is pure, but it is taboo in China, because in China, white is often the color of great compassion. Similarly, black is considered unlucky, the color of disaster and mourning. On the other hand, red is a symbol of joy, peace and celebration and is widely loved by people. In addition, people in China often pay attention not to send clocks to the elderly or pears to lovers, because "sending clocks" is homophonic with "seeing off" and "pears" are unlucky. Also, if you can't send medicine to healthy people, you can't send personal belongings to friends of the opposite sex.

Question 4: Is there anything particular about giving gifts to friends? 1. Know the taste of others. You know, giving gifts is not to make yourself happy, but to make others happy. Anything that tests the taste of others can't be used as a gift.

2. Not including motivation. We should try to avoid some innuendo and meaningful gifts.

3. The new is always good. Because no one likes to accept second-hand goods.

4. Don't buy "useful" gifts. This advice is especially applicable to men who only know how to buy household items for women they like. Practical gifts not only have no imagination, but also have no brains. You should remember that you are giving a gift to a person, not to this family.

Whether your gift is 3 yuan or 300 yuan, tear off the price tag first. Sending a clearly marked gift seems to remind the other party how much my gift cost. Are you expecting a return? Or do you want to do business with equal exchange and value for money? It is usually considered impolite to put a price tag on a gift. For you who want to express your thoughts, this is also unwise.

6. Choose the packaging carefully. Gift giving is different from personal use. Good content is important, and good form adds luster. The principle of giving gifts is to choose beautiful packaging as much as possible.

7. Relatively speaking, it is always simple to give a woman a gift. There are many odds and ends in a woman's life, which are good choices for you to give gifts. Women's natural daughters, wives and mothers can be greatly catered to in giving gifts.

However, it is unwise to give women clothes. Don't say that there are so many colors and styles that it is hard to figure out. The key obstacle is figure-losing weight is troublesome, but gaining weight also bothers her: am I that fat?

9. Seize the gift-giving opportunity. There are many opportunities for giving gifts. We can only give one person a birthday present once a year, but nothing can stop us from giving "non-birthday" gifts at other times. For a long time, non-birthday gifts have been responsible for enhancing feelings, soothing broken hearts and repairing broken friendships.

10. I like your gift. If you don't even like gifts, you shouldn't let others accept them.

1 1. Make a new meaning. If you want to give a gift to someone who is not interested in anything or wants nothing, it is really the most troublesome thing. You might as well use your head and invite him (her) to give a very attractive performance.

12. Choose a practical gift according to the recipient's occupation.

13. Measure the reasonable price. This gift is disrespectful, because it is too cheap. In fact, the value of a gift should be measured by the relationship between you and the recipient to avoid embarrassment.

14. Personalized gifts. Homemade gifts are unique in the world. It will express your thoughts.

15. It is said that ties and belts are not suitable for men unless you are close to him. Because these things are bound to each other. By analogy, it seems inappropriate to give a woman a necklace, let alone a ring.

16. Gifts should be between practical and impractical. For an elegant person, a book may be better than anything, but there are fewer and fewer elegant people. However, gifts are gifts after all and should not be practical.

17. Avoid sending fresh goods. Even if you give gifts to housewives who love to cook, it is best not to give chickens, ducks, fish and vegetables. Not to mention the difficulty of preservation, its characteristics of making it into a gift and eating it when imported will greatly reduce its significance as a gift. By the way, you should pay attention to the shelf life when sending nutrients, food and cosmetics, otherwise it will be embarrassing.

Question 5: Is there anything else to pay attention to when giving gifts (what does it mean to give)? Nbspnbsp nbsp gifts should consider specific situations and occasions. Generally, when you go to a private family for dinner, you should bring some small gifts to the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, local products and so on. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. Invited to the wedding, in addition to artistic decorations, you can also send bouquets and practical items. In New Year and Christmas, calendars, wine, tea, candy, cigarettes and so on can usually be given away. When and how nbspnbspnbsp presented. Nbsp; Gifts should generally be delivered in person. But sometimes you can attend the wedding and send it in advance. Celebrating festivals and giving annual gifts can be delivered to your door or mailed. At this time, the business card of the giver should be attached to the gift, or the congratulatory message can be handwritten and packed in an envelope of the same size. The recipient's name should be marked on the envelope and pasted on the top of the gift package. Usually, it is not appropriate to give gifts to only one person in a group in public. Because the recipient will feel fooled by accepting bribes, and it will make the person who confiscated the gift feel left out and despised. Nbspnbspnbsp Give gifts to people who are close to each other, not in public, so as not to give the public a feeling that your close relationship is completely supported by material things. Only special gifts that are light in ceremony and heavy in righteousness and express special feelings are suitable for giving in public. Because at this time, the public has become the witness of your sincere friendship. Like a special souvenir. Nbspnbsp nbsp Pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts. Peaceful, friendly, natural and elegant movements accompanied by polite language expressions are acceptable to the receiver. The practice of quietly putting gifts under the table or in the corner of the room like thieves not only fails to achieve the purpose of giving gifts, but even backfires. In the general habit of our country, when giving gifts, I always say too modestly, "Little gift! Thin gift! " "It's just a little something" or "I'm sorry ..." It's best to avoid this practice. Of course, if you say "this is a very valuable thing!" in an almost proud tone when giving. When introducing gifts, we should emphasize our kindness and kindness to the recipients, rather than the actual value of the gifts, which is also inappropriate. Otherwise, it will fall into a situation of valuing ceremony over righteousness, and even make the other party feel that they are taking bribes. Nbspnbsp nbsp Giving gifts to people, things and places is one of the norms of social etiquette, and the choice of gifts should also meet the requirements of this norm. For different recipients, the choice of gifts should be treated differently. Generally speaking, for the poor, it is still affordable; For the rich, exquisiteness is better; For lovers, lovers, lovers, it is better to commemorate; For friends, fun is better; For the elderly, it is better to be practical; For children, it is best to innovate; For foreign guests, it is best to have characteristics. Nbspnbspnbsp For example, there is a common saying in China called "yes man". Therefore, all gifts for big congratulations and great joy are always taboo, but the even number "4" is taboo in Guangdong, because in Cantonese, "4" sounds like "death" and is unlucky. Even the best white is pure, but it is taboo in China, because in China, white is often the color of great compassion. Similarly, black is considered unlucky, the color of disaster and mourning. On the other hand, red is a symbol of joy, peace and celebration and is widely loved by people. In addition, people in China often pay attention not to send clocks to the elderly or pears to lovers, because "sending clocks" is homophonic with "seeing off" and "pears" are unlucky. Also, if you can't send medicine to healthy people, you can't send personal belongings to friends of the opposite sex. Aries [March 21-April 20]] 〕nbsp;; Nbsp; Passionate and active Aries lovers have high expectations of themselves, are even more intolerant of ordinary affairs, and like novel and expensive gifts to satisfy their curiosity. Nbspnbsp gift list: nbspnbsp nbsp a chic belt, a special pen, an elegant printed scarf, a gift for her, a pearl pin with a special shape, a bottle of brand-name perfume just listed, a handbag with a sense of style and value, a silk scarf with a chic pattern, and a coat or sweater with tasteful texture and design. Nbspnbsp nbsp Taurus [April 21-May 21] nbsp; Nbsp; Taurus lovers who are down-to-earth can't stand wasting things, pay attention to practicality, and like to receive gifts that can be used immediately without wasting them at all. > & gt

Question 6: What should I pay attention to when giving a gift, and what should I pay attention to when giving the same gift? We should aim to send them to people's hearts and give them good luck.

Question 7: What's the point of giving gifts? Is it a boy or a girl?

What a girl says is easier to handle: pay attention to her favorite colors or cartoons, buy her a doll, or something cute, and generally like it.

Boys are more troublesome, so pay attention to practicality. Actually, just send a book and wallet.

Question 8: What is the emphasis on gift money? Look at the interests of friendship in the works. If you want to enhance the friendship between colleagues and work better, add a little more to the general level.

Question 9: What should I pay attention to when visiting and giving gifts during the New Year? 1. If you visit a laid-off worker whose life is relatively tight, it is more practical for him to bring him two pots of cooking oil instead of expensive cigarettes and alcohol.

Secondly, if you visit your teacher and bring a beautiful painting and calligraphy, I think the teacher will cherish it more.

If you visit your boss, you'd better bring a bunch of flowers, a book, or artistic decorations like Four Treasures of the Study.

Fourth, if you go to see a patient, you can send some camellias, kumquat and the moon.

Season, Milan, chrysanthemums, daffodils, lilies and other flowers and nutrients to show their condolences.

If you visit your mother and elders, you should buy some fruits and snacks and bring an extra red envelope. At this time, you should pay attention to the old man's expression, and you will definitely laugh like a flower.

6. As gifts for children, you can choose some children's books that can increase children's knowledge and are conducive to intellectual development; Or send some novel toys that can enrich children's imagination.

Question 10: Is there anything particular about giving gifts during the Mid-Autumn Festival? Moon cakes are certainly the first choice for Mid-Autumn Festival gifts. 1 The older generation still attaches great importance to this festival, and the symbol of this festival is moon cakes. There are many styles and tastes of moon cakes nowadays. You can choose moon cakes according to your parents' tastes, or you can choose gifts according to your parents' preferences. 2. You can send some tea, tea sets and tableware. Tea sets, tea leaves and other gifts are very popular in the Mid-Autumn Festival, and they are good gifts for parents, leaders and customers. 3. Send some imported food, such as red wine and olive oil. This gift is very atmospheric and tasteful. If you give it to customers or leaders, it will give you a long face.