Because of the problem of buying a house, deposits may be lost, which also affects family relations. What should I do?

Hello! I'm glad to meet you here. I hope my answer is helpful to you. Look at your question: "because of the problem of buying a house, the down payment may be gone, which also affects family relations." What should I do? " After that, I want to say that people and things should be separated first.

First of all, if you buy a house, you may lose your savings. Consult the legal department and relevant departments about the specific statement of the deposit. Even if I don't return it, is there any other conversion method? In addition, the feng shui problem of the house can be considered from many aspects. What is not suitable for other people's lives does not mean that it is not suitable for anyone. Feng Shui itself is a bit metaphysical, which needs to consider many factors, and there are also ways to resolve it.

Secondly, the family relationship is harmonious and friendly. Don't blame and blame each other for what has happened. At this time, the most important thing is to maintain harmony and unity and find a solution to the problem. Buying a house and checking out, everyone's starting point is good, and they see the good motivation behind the behavior. You mentioned "apology" and felt the deep remorse between you and your husband.

Finally, blame yourself, because your actions have caused some irreparable consequences and pain. The point is, the previous emotions were all self-hatred. The essence of self-reproach is that it can't accept the present facts, and it is a confrontation with "so" (the present "should" and the past "so"). It will make people suffer and consume energy. Responsibility is self-attribution, and I am the root of everything. The focus is on the future, and the emotions brought out are self-affirmation. What can I learn from this incident and how to avoid similar things. Only when there is a border can there be a promise. Self-reproach is even more irresponsible. Taking responsibility is a way to break through. Even if it is someone else's fault, it is never the outside world (nor those people and things) that makes you suffer, but your wrong interpretation of what happened in the past.

In a word, I saw you say "I'm sorry" and you did your best. Give yourself a break, the house is your comfort zone, not for others to see, nor for others to point. As long as two people unite and work together, why worry about not solving the problem? Feng Shui follows you and good luck follows you.