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Wang Fu refers to a woman who can bring good luck to men and their families. Isn't there a good saying? Women are the best feng shui for a family, men decide the direction of the family, and women decide the temperature of the family. And what height and level a man can reach in his life depends on what kind of woman he marries.
Couples can influence each other day and night when they are together. What a real Wang Fu woman brings is not her luminous physique, but some excellent quality of herself.
When it comes to Wang Fu, some people may think it is, and I used to think so, but sometimes, there are some things you have to believe. One of my own aunts, listening to my mother, said that when he was young, he used one sentence to describe it. It's really mud that can't help the wall.
Doing nothing, fooling around, thinking about taking shortcuts. At home, I said everything I should say and everything I shouldn't say. Later, when I saw that he was still like that, I slowly gave up and let him die.
Who knows that after my aunt and I got married, the whole thing changed, and now my life is vivid. Although nothing is either rich or expensive, his family never thought he could live today's life, nor did they dare to think about it. First, I bought a house through my own efforts, and then I bought a car.
Last year, the couple bought another shop. My family said that my aunt Wang Fu, even my aunt said that thanks to my aunt, I have today's day, otherwise I might live my present life!
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But is this really my aunt Wang Fu? No, it's just the wisdom of my sister-in-law, the blessing and luck brought to my brother. At that time, my aunt also hated iron for her brother, but she didn't directly criticize him in front of him, but slowly guided him on the right path with her own practical actions.
My aunt loves my sister-in-law. Sometimes when I see her working so hard, I feel guilty and want to do something for this family. Aunt first encouraged him to find a job, no matter how much money he earned, at least he was earning, trying to settle his impetuous heart.
Just like doing housework, aunt never directly orders or blames you for not doing it. But in the form of coquetry, I said I was tired. Can you help me do this and that? Then my aunt slowly learned to share, and it was not easy to understand my aunt's sister-in-law.
In addition, menstruation is straightforward and impulsive, and the relationship between home and outside depends entirely on menstruation's sister-in-law, which has brought great changes and reflections to menstruation. Menstruation encouraged behind, menstruation urged behind, menstruation reminded behind, and menstruation became what it is now.
My aunt once said that I was very touched. She said, "Smart women don't always want to change men, but can make men realize their own shortcomings and take the initiative to change."
What do you mean? There are no really useless people, and couples will influence each other if they stay together for a long time. A better couple is to grow up together, gradually improve themselves and learn from each other's strengths.
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A friend runs a cake shop, an old customer, a middle-aged man who has been married for 16 years. Once I went to the store to look for him. Chatting and chatting, the man came in and greeted us with a smile. Maybe he heard our conversation and he joined in.
My friend and I have been talking about another friend's family affairs, and the couple are getting divorced. We are discussing how to persuade them!
When talking about whether a woman is a prosperous husband or a defeated husband, the man who has been married for 16 years tells us that this kind of woman is the most prosperous husband. In fact, it's only seven words. She has a good temper. He went on to explain that it is very important to have a good-natured woman in the family, because men's happiness is often directly related to the family.
In hindsight, this makes sense. If the family can live in harmony, it will give men a kind of strength and become a man's belief. Generally speaking, as we all know, you will become full of positive energy and positive when you get along with such people who are full of positive energy.
It is easy to be influenced by the other person's mentality, which makes you look at the same problem from another angle. Living with such people will be very, very pleasant and comfortable.
And the so-called good temper? I don't mean that I won't lose my temper, but I won't lose my temper because of a little thing. Do you think people who like to complain and yell at each other are easy to get the family atmosphere and temperature, even for children, which makes people feel annoyed and disgusted?
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In fact, I think there is only one real Wang Fu woman, and that is a woman who can always be loved by men. Of course, this is also based on women's moral integrity. You want to! Even if a woman has a particularly good temper, once she meets an irresponsible husband after marriage.
Then, will her temper be better? How many women who were obsessed with ideas were finally forced by men to become "dissatisfied wives" and "dissatisfied wives"?
Therefore, real women in Wang Fu are spoiled and loved by men. Men can't make mistakes. Although women are men's wives, men are women's mirrors. These are mutual, not that she is not rich, but that you have not been able to "inspire" her Wang Fu quality.
Don't always attribute all the credit to yourself and all the bad things to women. A happy and harmonious family cannot rely solely on women. Men are also responsible, and men are equally important. You can't be so selfish, you always want to ask for and respond.
Furthermore, the people who can really influence you should be the people you value very much and the people who are very important to you. If you don't love a woman, even if what she says is right, I'm afraid it won't affect you or change you. Only if you love her very much can you listen to her suggestions and opinions.
Men can't listen to women, and women can't listen to men, because no one can guarantee that their decisions will always be right. When you encounter something, you may wish to discuss it, listen carefully to each other's thoughts and analysis, don't be self-centered, and don't directly deny each other everything because of a decision mistake.
The luck of a man lies in his family, and the blessing of his family lies in his husband and wife. Only when the husband and wife are devoted to Qi Xin can they bring real good luck and good luck.
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The above is related to what the most prosperous husband means, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading "What kind of woman will bring money in Wang Fu", I hope this can help everyone!