Wealth is not born, what kind of person you are will attract what kind of feng shui.
When you change your mind, be silent in the trough, be gentle in the hardship, and be virtuous in the down and out, your destiny will change quietly.
Just work hard for the rest of your life and make your own arrangements.
Few words are expensive.
I ching said: "lucky people talk less, impetuous people talk more."
The more peaceful your heart is, the slower you speak.
Really smart people know how to think twice. Words are faster than brains, and speaking without thinking will only bring disaster.
Zeng Guofan, when he was young, also planted his mouth several times.
He often calls a spade a spade, mocking classmates and friends as inferior to himself, seizing the opportunity to make friends with colleagues and showing his abilities everywhere.
As a result, I offended someone once and I didn't know it.
Until one day, in the court, facing the newly enthroned Emperor Xianfeng, he blurted out the accusation: "Small things are smart, big things are confused, and they are only cosmetic, not practical."
Emperor Xianfeng was furious and wanted to punish him. Fortunately, other college students tried to defend themselves to avoid being convicted.
After this robbery, he suddenly woke up. He made a remark that "you can't do things with your heart and you can't talk with your mouth", reminding yourself to keep in mind that you should be steady and speak slowly.
Since then, Zeng Guofan has been particularly cautious.
According to historical records, after Zeng Guofan's speech, he must have been said after others had finished, and he said, you have to prepare ten sentences, otherwise it will be an ice.
Because of this, he was able to become one of the few people in history who served as Lord of Gao Zhen, but died a fair death.
Plato said: "a wise man speaks because he has something to say;" Stupid people talk because they want to talk. "
A wise man speaks with his head; Fool, talk with your mouth.
Before you speak, slow down three points, keep a clear head and keep your thoughts smooth, so as not to say irrational words that you regret.
Wang Langya, the first prominent family in China, experienced dynasty changes and lasted for thousands of years, creating the miracle of three saints and thirty-five prime ministers.
In his family training, the first rule is: speak slowly.
The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive. Keeping your mouth shut is keeping your blessing.
All reliable people have these two characteristics: speaking slowly and being calm.