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When we are in love, we are attracted to each other. When we enjoy the sweetness and romance brought by love, everything will be dull. Back to reality, we will be entangled in daily necessities and some trivial chores. Many people quarrel soon after they get married, and even quarrel constantly, which eventually leads to family breakdown! In this case, most people just blame each other and never think about their own right or wrong. I didn't even think of paying attention to the "feng shui" factor in marriage.
In fact, many marriage tragedies are related to Feng Shui. As long as we pay more attention, many can be avoided.
In geomantic omen, avoiding "suffocation" in marriage is the key to creating a happy life.
The so-called "suffocation", as the name implies, is the "qi" that is unfavorable to married life. There are many factors that can bring "suffocation" to marriage, such as personality differences, contrast of growing background, unsatisfactory living environment, negligence of life details and so on. The former is "congenital" before marriage, which is difficult to change, but since it has been combined as a partner, it must be considered. The latter happens after marriage, and it can be changed as long as we pay attention to it and work hard.
So, where should we start to avoid "suffocation" after marriage?
1, clean up "old things". For the vast majority of men and women, the object of marriage is often not the person who falls in love for the first time, and some items are always kept as a souvenir when they are in contact before. However, no one knows that these things will bring extremely unfavorable bad luck to later life.
This is because "old things" are branded with old feelings. Whether it is "happiness" or "hate", it will conflict with the new feelings afterwards, which will often arouse the appearance of the past time and make the new partner feel unhappy, thus affecting the mood of both parties.
Therefore, such items should be disposed of as soon as possible to avoid future troubles.
2. Eliminate "excuses", "Don't make excuses, why can't you tell the truth?" .
Many times, one party will accuse the other party and excuse his "sin". "I said this for you, but I'm afraid you will be sad. My starting point is good. " The other party often defends himself like this.
Regrettably, "excuses" are always lies to deceive each other in marriage, which is harmful and useless.