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The Austrian writer Zweig once used this sentence to comment on the life of French Queen Marie Antoinette. He said: "She was too young at that time. Young people don't know that all the gifts given by fate have already been marked in secret. "This sentence simply means: if you come out to mess around, you will have to pay it back sooner or later.
Many times, you think you are getting a bargain, but you don’t know that everything you get will come at a corresponding price. It's just that sometimes the price comes later, but you mistakenly think it won't come. After Xiaoya got married, she thought she was the happiest woman in the world because her husband Jiang Hong did not hesitate to divorce his ex-wife for her.
Yes, Xiaoya’s current happiness was “robbed” by her.
Xiao Ya is a young and beautiful person born in the 1990s, while her husband Jiang Hong is a man in his thirties with a successful career. She felt that by marrying him, she would have a worry-free life, because not only did he love her deeply, but he was also rich. But she was too naive after all. Since Jiang Hong could abandon his ex-wife for her, he would also abandon her for other women in the future.
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Jiang Hong did not tell Xiaoya that when he got divorced, he almost left the house. The house was transferred to his ex-wife and all the savings were given to her. Not only that, but he also had to pay 5,000 yuan a month in support to his ex-wife and children. At that time, Xiaoya had been dreaming of being a "rich wife" and had no idea that not only had Jiang Hong lost his house, car and savings, but his company was about to be lost.
Because he betrayed his marriage, his ex-wife’s parents went to the company to make a big fuss, which ruined his reputation. When the investors found out, they withdrew their investment. His new business was completely ruined, and he was facing huge compensation. After Xiaoya knew the news, he immediately lied. Because she married him because she wanted to live a good life with him. Who would have thought that she would have to endure hardships with him just after getting married?
Jiang Hong was blinded by love at the time. A Xiaoya truly loved him, but little did he know that she could only accompany him through joys and sorrows, but could not accompany him through hardships. His ex-wife was the one who could endure hardships with him, but unfortunately she was lost by his own hands.
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During that time, the two quarreled frequently. Jiang Hong got tired after arguing, and he began to miss his ex-wife. When she was at home, she would take good care of herself, but now, the newlywed wife can do nothing but be young and beautiful. She doesn’t know how to cook or do housework, she only asks for money. When she ran out of money, she cried and made a fuss, clamoring for a divorce.
Jiang Hong felt unprecedented pressure. In the past thirty years, he had never been as helpless as he was now. He began to escape reality and went out drinking every day. Later, he fell directly in love with a woman outside of marriage. When she knew she had been betrayed, Xiaoya seemed to suddenly know Jiang Hong's ex-wife and understand how sad she was at that time. Now the tide is turning, and the sufferings and hardships his ex-wife has endured are now finally her turn.
In fact, it is not surprising at all that Jiang Hong was unfaithful in his marriage. Because a man betrays his marriage either zero times or countless times. You know, since a man can betray his ex-wife for you, sooner or later he will betray you for another woman. Because in his heart, he has no respect and sense of responsibility for marriage. He is not only selfish but also irresponsible. Whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, it is impossible that he cannot give you the happiness you want.
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Xiao Ya was disheartened and clamored to divorce Jiang Hong. Unexpectedly, Jiang Hong pushed her to the ground in anger and cursed: "If it weren't for you , How could I divorce my ex-wife? How could I ruin my family and my career? You are a complete loser, and whoever stays with you will be unlucky!"
After being together for so long, Xiaoya heard him scolding her like this for the first time. Tears of grievance fell down her face and she said: "Back then you said you loved me, you said you would let me live a good life, but you said you didn't. Your ex-wife is gone.
Until today, we all made mistakes, why do you only blame me? "Xiaoya seemed to suddenly understand. It turned out that this was the legendary "retribution."
Later, they divorced after all. Jiang Hong begged his ex-wife to remarry every day, but his ex-wife didn't even want to see him. He refuses to see him, and his only son refuses to recognize him as a father who abandoned his wife.
If you ask me, can the happiness stolen from me be truly "happiness"? I will answer you. , Never. Because it’s not yours. What you get by hurting others can only be a temporary success, and you will have to pay it back sooner or later.
Xiaoya’s end is a good example. Even if she divorces Jiang Hong, she may not be able to live a good life in the future, because as soon as others hear that she has interfered in other people's marriages, they will immediately blacklist her in their hearts. No matter how beautiful she is, her character will always be stained. Destroying other people's marriages will become a label for a person, which will follow you wherever you go. It will always remind you: What a vicious woman you were once, and you don't deserve all the happiness in the world.