The Chinese nation is known as the "state of etiquette" and has always attached importance to family education. It is not uncommon to see family instructions in ancient books in history, and there are many praises for future generations. And "unwritten" is also a major feature of our national motto and has become an organic part of the code of conduct in daily life. Get rid of its dross and take its essence. The essence of some family precepts is integrated into the new moral construction. Many well-known family precepts have become "family precepts" and formed a family style.
Family style is the sum of a family's stable moral norms, traditional habits, life style, lifestyle and lifestyle, which first embodies the power of morality. Attaching importance to the construction of family style is the foundation of many people with lofty ideals in the history of China. From ancient times to the present, Yan Zhitui's Yan Family Instructions, Zhuge Liang's Family Instructions, Zhouyi's Mianyu Children, Zhu's Family Instructions, Zeng Guofan's letters, Fu Lei's letters, etc. Has been widely circulated among the people, flashing the ideological light of good family style. In history, "Meng Mu's Three Movements" and "Mother-in-law's Tattoo" also showed a good family style. The old adage "Don't be ignorant, don't be quiet, don't be far away" and "Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, don't drink too much" in Godson has been praised by the world so far. A good family style is not only beneficial to oneself, children and family, but also gradually affects the moral level and social atmosphere of the public.
Family style, as an invisible force, has been influencing people imperceptibly. Everyone lives in a family of birth. If you come from a family with a good family style, this person will thrive; Being born in a family and not paying attention to the construction of family style, this person will take a detour when he grows up. A good family style will have some similar characteristics, such as a good moral atmosphere, a healthy ideological atmosphere, a positive emotional atmosphere, a serious study atmosphere, a frugal life atmosphere and so on. It is this kind of atmosphere that has created people who are physically and mentally healthy, have achieved something, and even have made outstanding contributions to society. It can be said that a good family style creates a good cradle for children's growth. Under the condition of market economy, there are some problems to be solved urgently in the field of marriage and family in China: money worship in love, careless separation in marriage, overindulgence in family education, neglect of the elderly in filial piety, and even some people with prestige and social status lead themselves, especially their children, to commit crimes because they do not pay attention to the construction of family style. The lesson is painful. It proves the importance of family style construction from the opposite side.
The key to the construction of family style lies in parents. Parents should first care about the construction of family style, so as to consciously create and continue their own good family style and benefit the whole family and children. Leading cadres at all levels should take the lead in building a good family style and educating their children. People are used to doing things from above, and a good family style of leading cadres will have a very important impact on establishing a good social atmosphere.
Under the new situation of accelerating the pace of reform and striving to realize the Chinese dream, it is of great significance to review the construction of family style. Family construction affects social construction, and a good family style will drive a good social atmosphere. Therefore, a good family style is a kind of positive energy. We should start from every family, let every family have a good family style and cultivate civilized people. If we persist in this way, social integrity will be carried forward and the civilization of the Chinese nation will be further improved.