In ancient times, patriarchs and wizards could use their speaking skills and other skills to confuse and rule the people. Although Shu Hua has a long history, it has not been handed down from generation to generation. China has a history to study. The book Shu Hua was written by Guiguzi who defended his country during the Spring and Autumn Period. Guiguzi, strategist, master of Wei Zhong and Nie Gai, what the hell? How did these two guys get into trouble? Shu Hua taught Su Qin (uniting the six countries against each other) and Zhang Yi (helping Qin unify the world), and one of them, Lian Heng, was the first scholar in ancient and modern times. Other disciples, such as Sun Bin, Pang Juan, Shang Yang, Li Si and Mao Sui. Although they studied differently, they received a true biography of Guiguzi's "Speech Art" and became great figures in the world.
The art of speech was a very powerful existence in ancient times, which can be said to be a comprehensive art closely related to governing the country, negotiation, vertical and horizontal, art of war and so on. It is a basic skill for ancient gifted scholars and literati, but today it has really declined to the point of making a living and making money, which can be said to be the sorrow of this art. In fact, today, language ability is also very important. Without top language skills, officialdom, business ethics, debate, speech, sales and daily life applications, it is inevitable that you will not be able to make achievements. Speech is not only a means, nor a clever means to achieve a certain goal, but a combination of the art of language and the art of mind to achieve the goal.
Because a large number of people in society used some improper means, insurance, pyramid schemes, sales promotion, false health care products and so on appeared, which made the "art of speech" stigmatized. In fact, the correct use of words can increase the goodwill of others and improve the success rate of your request and motivation. For example, it is used for dating, borrowing money from relatives for emergency, asking teachers about their grades, consulting some related scholarships of the school and so on. Polite and direct words can often achieve better results.
Today, there is also a "master of success" in conversation skills-Chen Anzhi. Few people don't know him. If Obama, George W. Bush, Huang Xiaoming, Matthew, Harvey and other celebrities, I am really sorry. Take pictures, eat and drink. Do you still need KTV, hot spring and sauna? Chen Anzhi is a wonderful flower in the history of China's speeches. If you don't listen to his class, he is undoubtedly a good talker. The art of speech, the technique of brainwashing, and the magic performed won too many fans through his golden words, and he was crazy about it and died unsatisfied. What happened? Or dying? Excitement to death, excessive excitement, this is the art of language. No method is sure to succeed. Language sends a signal, leaving consciousness in your mind and letting you act according to it. This is a speech. So who does Forrest Gump listen to? Is he a master of words? Therefore, Chen Anzhi's words are not necessarily the essence, because real words are popular in all fields.
Speech comes from life and is higher than life. Some people can't fart for a long time, some people can't find the end, and some people are good at grasping the psychology of interlocutors. This is a good speech. Speech art comes from chatting in life, which is summarized by people and applied in different fields and implemented according to different scenes. This is the first level of speech art; The second level is to pull the other person into another scene created by himself in the original scene; I think the highest state of speech art is constantly changing and being in different environments. What is more effective for me is to keep quiet, find out the essence, break all illusions and point to the source.